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Old School Direct Game Openers.... Revisited

Teevster

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Cockiness is a polarizing display of confidence. It is close to impossible to know prior and during the approach whether she is one of the girls who likes such approach or not.

Thus, it is a high risk/ high reward style of opening - high chances of failing, but when it works it truly works.
And why those set of women that you say wouldn’t like Cockyness on a social level?

Multiple factors, such as, being socialized into a certain social subculture, past sexual and romantic experiences and simply any other factors that may make a girl like X over Y.

The way to achieve a higher opening rate is to use a more neutral and indirect opener (like a situational) in order to buy time and hook in order to eventually convey attractive traits such as confidence, since during post hook it is easier to damage control in case you mis-calibrate.

(Sexual) Confidence is (sexual) confidence. However, they way it is convey may vary.

How many times have you actually field tested the technique being discussed, and how did it work/not work for you? Please share your experience.

-Teevster
 
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StrayDog

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Well welcomed @StrayDog


What are those variables?

If you open a girl with “Hey, you have a great ass I wanted to say hello? -> that is Confidence but it won’t work due to ASD variable

However,
If you open a girl with "If you're going to look at me like that, you should at least talk to me" -> that is Confidence and there is no variable for a girl not liking that unless confidence is not…..lol
Here is a variable:
-She is more of the shy type and overt/cocky displays of confidence make her feel put on the spot. Causing her to auto reject
 

PureGold

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-She is more of the shy type and overt/cocky displays of confidence make her feel put on the spot
That is not a variable but a limiting belief of yours, and I am bringing it to you for free

Best,
PureGold
 

StrayDog

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gotta say @PureGold you seem pretty keen on speaking with an authoritative tone, all while saying very little.
The sparse nature of your words makes it very easy to wonder if there is actually value there that lives up to your name, or whether you are just out here hawking pyrite
 
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Teevster

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That is not a variable but a limiting belief of yours, and I am bringing it to you for free

Best,
PureGold

Ah you are a troll.

I had my suspicions.

-Teevster
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

PureGold

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gotta say @PureGold you seem pretty keen on speaking with an authoritative tone, all while saying very little.
The sparse nature of your words makes it very easy to wonder if there is actually value there that lives up to your name, or whether you are just out here hawking pyrite
bc I have game
 

Duff

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Great thread

Always interesting to read revisions of old tactics and ideas, and too see which withstood the time
 
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