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[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Chase's post and the story that Franco shared have a point but I deal with different issues with blondes at times, I feel like they actually go out of their way to make a guy feel like shit or look bad in front of everyone. About a week ago I went to a nice bar and some song came on, these two blondes walk in and they are quite above average looking (good facial structure and all, one was wearing glasses). Well, they are practically doing all the shit in the world begging for attention and then I start noticing guys approach them.

One Hispanic guy approaches this blonde with the hipster glasses and she immediately takes out her phone, turns her back to him, and ignores him the whole fucking time. The other one does the same exact shit to a redheaded man that approaches her, I mean what a fucking cunt. Doesn't just stop there, they immediately start dancing and just doing shit begging for attention. One other guy dances near them, they shake their heads and make a face of disgust, making some people at the bar laugh.

Like they pull this shit all the fucking time, it is like a blonde bombshell trademark trait. I must ask, if you are a guy who has that happen to him or one that approaches a blonde bombshell and gets a harsh reaction like that, how do you best react to that type of shit?

 

[Franco]

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Proactivity,

Like they pull this shit all the fucking time, it is like a blonde bombshell trademark trait. I must ask, if you are a guy who has that happen to him or one that approaches a blonde bombshell and gets a harsh reaction like that, how do you best react to that type of shit?

I would say you act pretty much exactly the way that the guy did in my story. You act toward her the way you would act toward a much younger sister if she was acting pouty. You just kind of laugh, recognize she's putting on a show, and then continue to engage her if she hasn't completely walked away from you or turned her back toward you. Which leads me to this...

One Hispanic guy approaches this blonde with the hipster glasses and she immediately takes out her phone, turns her back to him, and ignores him the whole fucking time. The other one does the same exact shit to a redheaded man that approaches her, I mean what a fucking cunt.

If this is happening to you by them, then it means your fundamentals aren't handled. You aren't even in the same class as her physically, so she feels put off by the fact that she worked so hard to look as good as she does and then this low value dude believes it's an open invitation to her vagina. Essentially, the guy is wasting her time and bringing down her value. If she's dressed to look good, it's probably because she's hoping to meet a valuable guy. If she spends the entire time talking to a low-value man, it not only decreases her value, but it leaves her closed off to having a valuable man actually approach her since she's already engaged with this low-value one.

For me, as long as these girls either (a) don't turn away from me and (b) don't walk away from me, I'll try my best to stay there, deflect objections, and engage her in ways that make her seem like she's just being cute. In the end, if she ends up moving with you, then you got all the information you needed to know that it was all just a show on her part to screen you.

EDIT: Occasionally, it's important to remember that you can't have ALL of these girls. I still get rejected by them, even when I'm dressed to the nines. But all it takes is one success with one to change your entire mindset. So you have to push through the hardships.

- Franco

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Have to say though man, ruthless is what comes to my mind. I mean why go that far to ridicule a man?

That said, do you think there are some neat ways to get back at these cunts? I personally love to act like a dick towards the blonde bombshell types in public. At times I will not hold the door open for them while I do so for other women. I also like to be super nice to other kinds of girls and wear a smile while the blonde bombshell is there but when the blonde bombshell is nearby I try my best to ignore her, talk to her as little as possible not even making eye contact, and I try to be rude towards her.

Unfortunately, in the loud fucking bars and clubs, these sluts have all the power.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Have to say though man, ruthless is what comes to my mind. I mean why go that far to ridicule a man?

That said, do you think there are some neat ways to get back at these cunts? I personally love to act like a dick towards the blonde bombshell types in public. At times I will not hold the door open for them while I do so for other women. I also like to be super nice to other kinds of girls and wear a smile while the blonde bombshell is there but when the blonde bombshell is nearby I try my best to ignore her, talk to her as little as possible not even making eye contact, and I try to be rude towards her.

Unfortunately, in the loud fucking bars and clubs, these sluts have all the power.

Shaking my fucking head lol.

Think about it, enough guys do this to hot blondes, it lowers the value of the blonde pussy, she is no longer a massive cunt that thinks her shit doesn't smell. FFS, I am white and even I am frustrated with just how stuck up and entitled these cunts are.

 

[Smurf]

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Proactivity,

If you wanna get back at them, when you see them act like you just found a cute kitten. Even moreso than with regular girls. If you found a kitten biting you, would you slink away hurt with your ego running for the hills? Noooo. You'd say, "aww, it's trying to bite me. How cute."

Jake.

 

[ray_zorse]

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Proactivity, you sound so damn bitter!

I see it as an evolutionary thing. She doesn't want to mate with weak men, because if she does, she'll have weak male children who won't be able to impregnate other women with her genes. So, humans in which the female didn't act bitchy, shit test guys, and blow out guys who approached... died out in prehistoric times due to not passing on their genes. Big deal, get over it, it's all part of the thrill of the hunt... having said that, I hardly ever get shit tested or blown out since I mainly go for shy 20ish bookish inexperienced Asian girls, there are still a few "club queens" that overlap with this category (since I live in a college city) and so I occasionally get a bitch shield in nightgame, but I wish it would happen MUCH more so I could improve. I better approach some blondes, haha, and if you want to get better, you should too.

Ray

 

[Franco]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Proactivity,

That said, do you think there are some neat ways to get back at these cunts?

It's a wasted effort. She goes home thinking, "well god, that guy was such a dick! Annoying prick." Then she forgets about you, goes back out the next time, and she tests all of the weak men exactly the same way. You're not even a thought in the wind to her anymore and she's long forgotten about you.

On the other hand, you go home thinking, "damn, what a fucking cunt. I hate blonde women. They all fucking suck! I'm gonna make sure I'm a complete dick to them for the rest of eternity!" And then she has you getting pissed off at women and acting rude to them for the rest of your life.

So who actually won that battle? ...I think you get the idea here.

I personally love to act like a dick towards the blonde bombshell types in public. At times I will not hold the door open for them while I do so for other women. I also like to be super nice to other kinds of girls and wear a smile while the blonde bombshell is there but when the blonde bombshell is nearby I try my best to ignore her, talk to her as little as possible not even making eye contact, and I try to be rude towards her.

You know, being rude to them can work in the right scenario, but usually that scenario is in social circle and when it's a younger girl (early 20s) and has mutual friends with you. The pre-selection of having mutual friends makes her not hate your guts, but if she's used to all of the new people in her social circle hitting on her or showering her with compliments, you might garner her interest by paying no attention to her whatsoever. Of course, if you continue to treat her that way and never make a move when you're alone with her in private, then all you're doing is making an enemy within your circle of friends.

However, this technique is a wasted effort in a bar or nightclub environment. If you act rude to a girl who's a stranger there, she's just going to be disgusted by you, ignore you, and ultimately forget about you. No progress made there; and as I mentioned above, she'll end up forgetting about you within a day or two while you still have bottled up anger towards all of the women of her type because of her actions.

Ultimately, the best way to always play it is to just be completely unfazed by it. In fact, the best way to get back at a girl like that is to smile, wish her a good night, and then go hit on some other hot girl (possibly a brunette or redhead if you're more comfortable there), and watch her suddenly become VERY curious about why these other hot girls are flirting with you. If you're good at it, she'll even position herself to be re-opened by you if she feels like she misjudged your value, which can happen WAY more often than guys realize.

- Franco

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Thanks Franco, always spitting good knowledge as usual, but I have some other issue to share and hoping you can comment on it.

I've been with a blonde through social circle game before but she was more of a natural blonde, not the bombshell type that Chase speaks about. The problem is that if you come on with strong game and give these women attention, you're just like most other guys who are trying to get in their pants. I wonder if there is a way to somehow not pay attention to the blonde yet still get her, like a way for a guy to downgrade her value and show her that she isn't anything special yet still manage to get her. I've heard about guys that say they love brunettes having more success with blondes because of some psychology shit, I have a hard time buying this. As a guy raised in the very white midwest, an attraction for blondes is kinda hardwired in me.

So what is a good way to approach a blonde you see at a bar that peaks your interest? Do you approach her brunette friend and girls around her first and then go to her?

 

[Franco]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Proactivity,

I wonder if there is a way to somehow not pay attention to the blonde yet still get her, like a way for a guy to downgrade her value and show her that she isn't anything special yet still manage to get her.

I believe this is related to what I said above about social circle. If you meet a hot blonde through friends, then you already have some value there as a mutual friend of hers, which allows you a TON more leeway to act how you want to and still have her be interested in you. This can easily done in social circle by flirting with the other (attractive) girls in the circle when she first meets you, and if she sees them responding very positively to you, she's going to realize that you have a ton of sexual value, and she'll likely try to tease/flirt/chat with you as well. At that point, it's competition for her: "do those girls get him, or do I get him?"

So what is a good way to approach a blonde you see at a bar that peaks your interest? Do you approach her brunette friend and girls around her first and then go to her?

Naw, you still just gotta go to her. I think there's two important things you have to keep in mind though:

• (1) Don't eject from the conversation unless she physically exits herself. What I mean by this is, do NOT walk away from her because she stuck her nose up at you on your opening. If she didn't walk away or completely turn her back toward you, then there's a very good chance it's a shit test. Most guys don't realize this though because her response to your opener can be VERY cold. But that does not mean she isn't interested -- she just wants to see what makes you better than Joe Schmoe Bro in the corner over there that bought her a drink earlier.
  
  (2) NEVER appear fazed and immediately try to find other hot women to talk to if she DOES eject herself. Anatman observed this recently when I went out to the bars with him in San Diego; after you approach a girl of this status, as long as you don't rub her the wrong way when the conversation ends, she'll very discreetly observe you after the conversation is over. She'll want to see the following: are you mad? are you sad? are you affected? are you talking to another hot girl? is that other hot girl into you? should SHE be into you? These are all questions she asks herself. And if she decides that you might be better than she allowed herself to think you are, she'll make an effort to come close to you again so that you can open her. And she might still be "catty" with you, but she might even start throwing you very playful looks of sexual interest. That's when you know it's on.

That's the biggest issue with these girls. The cold front that they give you at the beginning is just a defense mechanism; if they were to be SUPER friendly with EVERY guy that approached them, then they would NEVER be have a moment to themselves or with their friends because there would be lines of guys just waiting to talk to them. A girl's intimidation factor is used to make the "weak" guys nervous so that they DON'T approach and DON'T waste her time. She likes the guys that see her intimidation tactics as "cute" because that signals to her that the guy is obviously high value and USED to dealing with girls like that. Which also means that they sleep with him. Which also means that she wants to sleep with him.

- Franco

 

[Chase]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Great share, Radeng.

Guys struggling with bombshells, a few points from Radeng's post I didn't cover / hadn't thought about previously.

Radeng's Point #1:

I probably fit the personality type of a fratty guy and I get along amazingly with groups. Idk maybe it's because I approach mostly groups? Idk. They have just never been a problem at all for me. I have fucked and dated some really really stuck up hot ones.

and

The only thing I can see is that I'm a party guy and they've mostly been party girls. I just show them that I can go harder and keep up with them and that I have as many options as then and they love me for it I guess.

Yeah, definitely. Women are more or less open to cold approach depending on their "independence level". e.g., some of the most open women you'll meet will be high sex drive women, women with high novelty seeking, women who are extremely confident, women who are "outsiders", women who are office professionals with advanced degrees and good jobs, etc. That's because these women trust themselves as better judges of character and aren't relying on "the group" to make decisions as much.

With bombshells, you have a far more conformist personality, where she's conforming to what she thinks the group and the society most approves of to put herself in the most secure position. She's also looking for men the group and society most approve of as well. Guys who are good at social circle game, or do well in groups, often do well with bombshells too. I'll tell you personally, it's traditionally seemed easier to me going in and winning over a group, and the bombshell shows more interest as things go along (e.g., the brunette in the group might be interested in you right away, while the bottle blonde is reserved. You win the group over and an hour in suddenly the bottle blonde is being really nice / interested, etc.). If you study Mystery Method, this is essentially all it is - go in, DON'T show interest in the girl you want, win the group over, and then once the girl you want is interested, isolate her. If you look at the girls Mystery hooked up with and dated, almost exclusively bottle blondes. His entire method is built around meeting them in bar/club environments where you're approaching a group of people OR merging a group you've already approached with their group. It's based on showing them you are socially approved of, which is a switch they frequently need flipped first.

Radeng's Point #2:

I love their selectivity and bitchiness and I love how they are a bit standoffish at first. It makes it more satisfying when thy fall for me

One of the hardest things for most newer guys (who aren't coming in with strong natural tendencies) is the whole "don't take what women say at face value" thing. Also the mindset of "I'm the best damn thing that's ever going to happen to this girl and I'm going to make sure she doesn't miss out." These mindsets give you stronger frame control than most of the women you meet. So, she tries to reject you, which is her adopting the frame of "You aren't right for me"; you persist from a frame of "Oh yes I am!" The stronger frame and better game wins.

Maybe the easiest way to think about this is leveling up. We have a bunch of newer guys on here who are fixated on getting blonde bombshells. Because bombshells are less receptive to cold approach / have higher walls up to cold approachers (e.g., they require higher degrees of social proof, or preselection, or showing them you are clearly "their type", or totally awesome game, etc.), they require a higher level of skill.

The problem newer guys have is they're at Level 1 or Level 2, and then they run into the Level 6 boss (bombshells) and get beat. And the defeat is frustrating, so they say, "I HAVE to beat the Level 6 boss - let me go try again." And they try again, and get beat again. And they try again, and get beat again. And the learn nothing, just like how a novice playing chess with a grandmaster and getting beat 200 times in a row in 20 moves or less will not learn anything, because it's so far beyond him he can't pick up the lessons. So we tell these guys, "You're not ready yet; go level up, and come back when you're ready."

The Master's Wheel example from Mask of Zorro applies here again. For these newer guys, bombshells just aren't in their wheels yet. They're too advanced. But they get fixated on "figuring them out", so they ignore all the stuff before them. They remain Level 1 or Level 2 guys and keep fighting the Level 6 boss and losing. And then they come here complaining about it ("The Level 6 boss is IMPOSSIBLE! I don't understand WHY the Level 6 boss has to be so HARD!") and we tell them to go back and level up first ("Look - go back to Level 1. Beat the level. Defeat the Level 1 boss. Then do Level 2. etc. By the time you reach the Level 6 boss this way, IT WILL NO LONGER BE IMPOSSIBLE") but they shake their heads and say no, I don't want to beat Level 1, I just want to beat the Level 6 boss. Isn't there some artifact you can give me so I can beat this boss? And you say no, no artifact, you'll just have to go level up first. And they say okay, maybe I'll try that. And then the next day they come back upset because they didn't bother with Level 1, just went back to the Level 6 boss and got beat again.

And it looks ridiculous to the guys who are Level 8 or Level 9 or Level 10 or higher, because to those guys, it's like, "Yeah, the Level 6 boss is a little tough, but that just makes beating him all the more fun!" or even "Wait, what's the problem? I sailed right past the Level 6 boss, I didn't think he was any harder than the Level 5 boss or the Level 4 boss."

Which is why we tell these guys over... and over... and OVER that if you WANT these girls, go get your game and your fundamentals handled FIRST, because where you are right now YOU are NOT ENOUGH. You don't have the right game, you don't have the right fundamentals, you don't have the right mindsets. If you want these girls, you need an upgrade. And you could probably do 10,000 approaches on bombshells only and eventually learn some angles that work, but it's going to be a tough slog getting there, like refusing to level up past Level 1 and insisting on beating the Level 6 boss that way. You might finally pull it off your 7,000th play through, but Jesus, there was no need for it to be that hard. Go level up first and suddenly it's not nearly that difficult.

I don't know, some guys just get a bug up their ass though and they can't pull themselves away. That cycle of addiction leads to defeat that fuels bitterness, but it also fuels repeated attempts to beat the thing that beat them and get a victory and vindication... if they aren't high level enough to beat the thing that beat them yet though, it just puts you into an endless cycle of losing that's tough to pull yourself away from long enough to go learn what you need to learn so that you AREN'T continuing to lose.

Chase

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Given Chase's point on "conformist-personalities," I can tell you that the best way to get good with party girls, is to get good with guys. Because, if you know how to be a bro and be a respected figure among men, you will hangout with them. Then, while being in that social-circle environment, you continually meet high-energy girls who are sassy and love to tease and flirt. And you learn what they value and are attracted to, and thereby slowly become attractive to them.

When you do that, you notice that they'll only even be sassy and flirty with guys if they give you the chance. They're cold to the guys who don't understand them (i.e., men who have experience).

And since most guys can't cold approach worth shit, they only really sleep with guys from social circle (this is especially true for college girls, my former demographic, since a party approach is inherently a warm approach, even if she doesn't know of him.). That limited experience with good dick makes them reel at cold approaches.

But some swagtastic stranger walks up to her, looks fearlessly into her eyes, and smiles like he know her dirtiest secret - yeah, she's gonna suck his dick. And to get there, you gotta learn cold approach, like Chase says. Which means doing oh...a few thousand approaches? Maybe more like five or six thousand?

Another alternative solution is to get good at social circle game! Meet dudes, hangout with them, and then meet girls through them. Or meet women, fuck them, and have them introduce you to other groups. But you still gotta know how to walk up to a woman and say hi, else you're that creepy dude holding his beer in the corner.

Gotta level up

EDIT:

Guys, seriously re-read what Chase says here

That might be more why bottle blondes go for the douchey jerk guys - this guy's not the coolest guy out there, but he's pretty cool, yet not so cool she thinks he has the social savvy to see through her and catch a glimpse of her not-homecoming queen high school self. She doesn't like the perceptive guy. She doesn't like James Bond or George Clooney. She likes the guy with spiky hair and a cocky grin. He's a fun-yet-safe option for her ego, which is probably the most important thing to her (more important than hooking up or a boyfriend - the image she constructs may actually be more for herself than to attract her dream guy, and the dream guy is selected more for his ability to bolster her self-image and not detract from it by seeing through it or failing to appreciate it).

Thing is, when you don't love women, especially girls like bottle blondes, you don't care to understand them. They aren't people to you (quite the role-reversal huh? It's the pussy boyfriend-boys who objectify women negatively). But when you do, you view women using complex paradigms like this.

- Anatty

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Chase your post hit me hard. As you can see from my last two FU reports on the field reports board, I've been having a damn hard time with the bottle blonde bimbo types except for a couple of hints of success. I am a 21 year old virgin who is kissless without any experience with women but I also consider myself good looking because I have had a lot of validation from various people in that regard.

I think you described me perfectly with your post and it makes me bitter too. It's like I feel that even if I land a hot girl that's a brunette or ginger, I will still be bitter that I couldn't land the blonde that I actually looked to learn game to get.

Also, I SUCK with social circle game, I mean I absolutely suck with it. In college, I hate playing the social politics because I have always been more of the cold approach type at heart before I read many articles saying that kind of stuff does not work in college. I just hate having to invest time in getting to align myself with a group, suck up to certain guys and climb that social ladder.

As you can see, I have put forth the effort and gone out to talk to women but man oh man, blondes are fucking ruthless indeed and as I said, I do fit the image of the guy Chase talked about. The thing is, I am just so keened in on this idea of getting even a blonde 6 to where I have blonde pussy on the pedestal. It is some vicious catch 22 I am in. Heading out again this weekend too btw!

The worst part is that I fear I am actually one of those guys who will approach a thousand blonde bombshells until he finally gets one.

 

[Raqimus]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Still can't understand why hair color even matters...

 

[Smurf]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

^this.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Why disrupt the flow of this thread with that question when you could have easily read the article itself? Chase went into great detail about the cost of making hair blonde, you could have easily read the article and then contributed to the discussion that way. I hate to come off as a dick but I know I am not asking for much when I say this. I can go into great detail about how American culture tends to pedestalize good looking white women with blonde hair but I am sure most of you could have easily read the article. Quite frankly good looking blondes get my dick harder than other kinds of good looking women, thank you porn!

I don't think at this point anyone should have to answer such a dumb question when you could have easily read through the thread, read Chase's recent posts, or just read the fucking article itself. I mean really guys? I know I am being somewhat dramatic here but if you're going to post on the thread, at least read the blog post it links to.

Now anyways, I used to do poorly with the blonde bombshell types but as of late my results with them have picked up. One thing I would recommend to guys that like good looking blondes is to go after all types. I have found that good looking blondes from foreign countries are way nicer and a lot less stuck up than their American counterparts. You don't have to go after the hot blonde in a sorority, you can also go after the cute blonde working at a restaurant or the cute one volunteering at an animal shelter. My most recent lay was a blonde working at a restaurant that attracted some shady customers, she seemed really trashy but she looked good and I hit it, felt great. Get your confidence up by talking to all types of blondes, maybe even some that look more average, so you can lift up your confidence a little bit.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

I probably fit the personality type of a fratty guy and I get along amazingly with groups. Idk maybe it's because I approach mostly groups? Idk. They have just never been a problem at all for me. I have fucked and dated some really really stuck up hot ones.

I feel like blonde bombshells bring polarizing feelings to guys, the ones that have success with really love them while the ones that fail with them tend to hate them. TBH, I used to have the same bitter feelings towards blondes and as odd as it sounds, they kinda worked to my favor to where I would completely ignore them and talk to all other girls in a room but them. Little did I know that I was a handsome guy whose game was much better than he gave himself credit for so the Italian brunette or the latina I was chatting up who was digging me somehow led the blonde to me.

Something I have found about blonde bombshells is that they are very direct with their rejection, they don't let you down nicely like a shy brunette might. On the flip side, I've noticed that when they like you, they can really like you and make it damn obvious by sometimes even gaming you. Just earlier today I was heading up the apartment stairs and I ran into this blonde bombshell that lives in my building, she has two friends, one Asian and one brunette. I ignore her thinking she was busy and she calls me out for it. I've had moments when I am in the same room as her and she makes some aggressive comments, starts getting touchy with me, and just cannot leave me alone. Guys, I think I might end up having another lay if I run into this girl again!

I've literally gone from a guy that used to hate blondes with his guts to a guy that can actually like them and feels stupid for having hated them.

 

[Raqimus]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

No i read it, don't understand.

 

[Anonymous]

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These issues are highly subjective.

Many of my friends have never dated an Asian girl. They haven't had any amount of success with them. They chock it up to Asian women being bitchy and high maintenance, and that they think they're arrogant pieces of shit, ice queens, really.

I've always had a relative comfort meeting Asian women. Part of that has to do with culture; I'm Korean descent, and I'm familiar with not only my own culture, but that of Chinese, Japanese and Filipino, among others. I made a conscious decision to learn and relate to different cultural and subgroups. I can empathize with just about everyone, but only because I make a conscious effort to understand and relate to people, regardless of their backgrounds.

It took me a while to realize why my friends, who are not of Asian descent, nor do they have much interest in, or familiarity with Asian culture, had such a difficult time with Asian women. It's because they alienate these women from the jump. They think they're the shit and come in way too strong, or way too timid and they don't have an understanding of these women at all. Best of all, when they get the slightest bit of negativity or resistance, they sabotage themselves and lash out at the girls, calling them "bitches", or "She a hoe anyway". They make up rationalizations to protect their ego. They don't want to admit that they have flaws in their approach and their mindset and keep trying to shove a square block into a triangular hole.

It's nice when women are really cool and inviting from the jump, but this rarely happens with women. It's rarely that easy. Women don't want to screw around with a loser. They want a winner. And the way they weed out the losers is by putting men to the test and seeing whether they can handle the heat.

Sometimes these women are really just batshit crazy and get a kick out of the attention and abuse of social power. But far more likely, if you're not being a dick or a tool to these women, and they react with a harshness or coldness to you, it means they're putting up a guard as an automatic reaction to take care of the losers. You have to be able to persist past these barriers to see the "real" her. If you give up that easily, then you sure as hell aren't worth the trouble, in her eyes.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

There are similarities between blonde bombshells, East Asian women in the USA, and a lot of Indian and Arab girls in America that look good. A lot of those women in general tend to be more shallow and judgmental than other kinds of women out there and they congregate in wealthier areas, blonde bombshells are just the most extreme of them all with maybe Persian girls being close to them. Once again though, this thread is mostly about blonde bombshells who like it or not, a lot of us are going to run into so no need for it to head into an irrelevant direction by making it about Asian women, you can post another thread about that.

The one thing that really gives blonde bombshells a lot of power and makes them matter is just their numbers. The guys running game at night clubs, nicer bars, and more upscale areas that tend to attract good looking women are going to run into a lot of blonde bombshells. I can relate to Chase when he talked about heading to California and all he found there were blondes, as a college student I was in a similar situation. Most sororities, cheerleading squads, and popular cliques in college are going to be loaded with blonde bombshells whether you like it or not. East, west, north, or south, you're going to run into a lot of hot blondes if you get to areas that have a lot of hot women in them. I don't like it as much as the next guy and demographic studies can say all they want but hot blondes are here to stay, that is just the cold hard truth.

Go to most rich areas of the USA and they will have a sizable number of good looking blondes, so I feel that is why this thread is so important because we are all inevitably going to be at a point where we have to either game a hot blonde or deal with her if we want to game her friends.

 

[Raqimus]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

I meant what I said as, when i go to talk to a girl, I don't look at her hair, I don't think omg shes blonde shes gonna be a bitch, I just go in and if she is ohwell I'll get past it, i just don't understand that whole hair things... I don't even know where I'm going with this.

Don't look at her hair just approach, shes just a girl.