The Guide to Getting Hot Girls (of Any Type)

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I have kept up with this thread and the other blonde bombshell threads (which were merged with this one) and Chase, I have to say, the title is a little misleading when the thread only talks about getting hot blondes. As a minority myself, I've had a lot of success with good looking blondes before but I say that has to do with my location and the fact that I really take care of myself. I know that this is your forum and in the end it is your call but I think it would be great if there was a thread for blonde bombshells or at least a separate one for them.

I do admit that getting them, especially if you aren't a white guy, requires some major changes and I also understand that some users on here were bitching but I feel like there should be a separate thread aimed towards getting these kinds of girls. Even as a guy who has had success with them, I have to admit that they are radically different from other kinds of women and the "American ideal" is usually a blonde with a cute face and big nice titties.

The title of the thread is very misleading compared to most of the posts on it, I think it would help to have something along the lines of a "how to get hot blondes" type of thread.

 

[Estate]

The logic can of course be applies to any "type" of guy complaining they can't get certain "types" of women but by and large the title is accurate given the forum was being flooded with the same thread over and over... namely guys who consider themselves a minority or are of Indian or Asian heritage complaining about hot blondes. Infact they coined the "bombshell" term in those threads (though it's a little tongue in cheek to most here).

Changing it's title will only open up to more "blondes" threads. I think Chase was good enough by aggregating the threads and not just deleting them outright when they became a little too much.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Not really, if anything having an official blonde bombshells thread where all posts about hot blondes go will prevent future threads from popping up. I feel like I was the reason the threads got merged which is misleading and I want to apologize for that. Guess when you have that much attraction for a demographic containing women that aren't known for being the nicest around, well that happens. I spoke out of emotion and I do feel that my bitching is what made the threads get merged so I want to apologize to Chase and everyone. If me going back to delete or edit my posts leads to there being the whole official blonde bombshells thread like there was, I will do just that.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

my offer still stands


even though it isn't my forum and this is chase's decision to make

 

[The Armani Code]

Come to think of it, after reading this thread I've started to notice some interracial relationships and actions of the hot blondes in my area a lot more. I do seem to get the impression that they really hate foreign looking guys because I only see them with white guys in most cases and the odd black guy here and there. Now I wonder if these trends change based on the region of the United States you are in but I do notice that hot blondes don't really go for minority groups like Indian guys, I've never seen one with an Indian guy my entire life and I know of plenty of Indian guys that would love a night in bed with a hot blonde. Over the years I've slowly seen South Asian men in my area end up with Asian, Black, Latin, and even white girls of the brunette variety (usually nerdier types) but never have I seen the Jenna Jameson look alike go for an Indian guy.

Fucking shit it sucks so bad too since I am of a South Asian background and would love to rail one but dammit this shit is just so fucking discouraging.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Come to think of it, after reading this thread I've started to notice some interracial relationships and actions of the hot blondes in my area a lot more. I do seem to get the impression that they really hate foreign looking guys because I only see them with white guys in most cases and the odd black guy here and there. Now I wonder if these trends change based on the region of the United States you are in but I do notice that hot blondes don't really go for minority groups like Indian guys, I've never seen one with an Indian guy my entire life and I know of plenty of Indian guys that would love a night in bed with a hot blonde. Over the years I've slowly seen South Asian men in my area end up with Asian, Black, Latin, and even white girls of the brunette variety (usually nerdier types) but never have I seen the Jenna Jameson look alike go for an Indian guy.

Fucking shit it sucks so bad too since I am of a South Asian background and would love to rail one but dammit this shit is just so fucking discouraging.

I don't think you read the thread at all. You're saying quite the opposite of everything we're trying to tell you.

I've seen hot sorority blonde girls go for Arab/Indian guys before. Hell, one of my best buddies in college is full Pakistani (though he was American born). Dude did pretty well for himself with sorority girls. Wanna know why the foreign exchanged students from Middle Eastern/South-East Asian countries did terrible with white sorority girls, especially the blondes?

Because they try to buy their way into girls' pants. Well, these girls already have all their base comforts and necessities taken care of; they need/want MEN.

Or they just mope around the bar like depressed children who can't get their way, since they grew up in luxury and the comfort of high-security/low-freedom society.

And when they do talk to girls, they just give the most thirsty stares in the world while they speak in broken English - hell, most of the time, they don't even TRY to talk to the girl. And these are the guys who complain that these women blow them off without even giving them a chance as human beings. No, they're the ones not treating these girls like women. These guys treat them like trophies who will validate a successful adaptation to Western culture.

But guess what? When this one dude from Italy came to study at my school, he was picking up girls DURING THE DAY (one of the few besides me doing this). He wasn't even that good looking, but he was aggressive and exotic. He was also a fucking sweetheart.

Fucking shit it sucks so bad too since I am of a South Asian background and would love to rail one but dammit this shit is just so fucking discouraging.

This is what I'd classify as unhealthy sexual objectification. Remember what Chase makes clear in his article on treating women like Sexual Objects - women want to be treated like objects, by men who know how to handle them in bed.

Learn how to handle them, not hate them.

- Anatman

 

[Estate]

Anatman just won the thread. Summed it up perfectly.

 

[lux7]

Come to think of it, after reading this thread I've started to notice some interracial relationships and actions of the hot blondes in my area a lot more. I do seem to get the impression that they really hate foreign looking guys because I only see them with white guys in most cases and the odd black guy here and there. Now I wonder if these trends change based on the region of the United States you are in but I do notice that hot blondes don't really go for minority groups like Indian guys, I've never seen one with an Indian guy my entire life and I know of plenty of Indian guys that would love a night in bed with a hot blonde. Over the years I've slowly seen South Asian men in my area end up with Asian, Black, Latin, and even white girls of the brunette variety (usually nerdier types) but never have I seen the Jenna Jameson look alike go for an Indian guy.

Fucking shit it sucks so bad too since I am of a South Asian background and would love to rail one but dammit this shit is just so fucking discouraging.

God dude, stop this crap.

All else equal is it (a bit) harder if you're Asian/Indian compared to a white or latino? Yes it is. Is it impossible? Definitely not.
Wanna keep crying about it? Feel free to, but this ain't the place. Or pay a hooker.

 

[mb1]

Hey AC, another thing to remember is that there are plenty of these 'bombshells' who are brunettes with bleached hair who watch too much teen TV set in California. These are often shallow women who aren't that impressive other than for their ability to Barbie themselves into fooling your brain into thinking that it's hot. This is very different than a blonde woman who just happens to be Swedish, etc. who won't have the same biases of wanting what the media deems as perfect.

If you're bitter towards these women, the best thing to do is just approach them more, but plenty of light skinned women not brainwashed by the media are into what they call "swarthy" men. Look it up. My theory is they want your genes to even out (and more so red heads who burn easily), and plenty blonde girls' mothers hate you while their daughters fantasize, so do it with discretion dude. Maybe they're also worried about the racist football captain disqualifying them as a girlfriend being seen with you, and would love to bone.

Just don't make excuses and keep thinking of ways to succeed if it's not happening so far. Step one is to listen.

 

[mb1]

P.s. as for adapting to get women of the highest caliber, it's not that crazy of a concept.

I noticed a tendency to already do this. For example, even for girls of lower caliber, don't you already dress different if she's a country girl or city type regardless of their sexual market value? It's partly about fitting into her social situations and not being a social burden. It also naturally complements the type of dates you're having.

 

[The Armani Code]

Anatman, I am not talking immigrants here man, I am talking brown guys like Kumar from Harold and Kumar, not Raj from the Big Bang Theory. The immigrant types do not get jack shit in my area, not even women of their own race unless they are arrange married. I must say, I am very impressed by the brown and Asian men in my area, they really have their act together once they have assimilated. The guys of those backgrounds in my area have the trendiest haircuts, great muscle tone, wear trendy clothes, and are not socially awkward at all. Maybe there is something more to this, my experience is just limited to one area so I can't tell you how it is like where you live. Your post does give me hope though and I will keep on trying, one of the ways I have been trying to overcome this belief is just by talking to more of these types of women.

 

[The Armani Code]

If you're bitter towards these women, the best thing to do is just approach them more, but plenty of light skinned women not brainwashed by the media are into what they call "swarthy" men. Look it up. My theory is they want your genes to even out (and more so red heads who burn easily), and plenty blonde girls' mothers hate you while their daughters fantasize, so do it with discretion dude. Maybe they're also worried about the racist football captain disqualifying them as a girlfriend being seen with you, and would love to bone.

I don't even care about the blonde bombshell image, I just want to fuck good looking blondes while I am in the USA whether she is natural or expensively dyed. For some reason, I am just more attracted to a good looking blondes than other kinds of attractive women, maybe it's due to all those Playboy magazines I looked at growing up.

The swarthy thing, that is something which would uplift me but I am starting to find that to a lot of American women who fit the hot blonde category, swarthy actually means a white guy with darker hair like Robert Downey Jr or a young Sean Connery. I've heard of blondes lusting over Spaniards and Italian men since they are "European" which is the good kind of foreign but I don't think they mean Bollywood when they say swarthy because I haven't seen American women go too crazy over those types of men.

You're somewhat right though, I find that pale brunettes with freckles and gingers tend to show a lot of interest in me and I have pulled them for a lay and make-out before. I might actually be hard on myself here too but a lot of this has to do with the fact that despite my area having a good bit of brown men and a lot of hot blondes, never seen the two together. It just adds to my limiting belief which has been bugging me....

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I know how that feeling can be when you see certain kinds of guys, especially those lesser than you in many ways, end up with the kind of girls you like. The region of the United States I live in has a reputation of being a very racist part of the country and that makes things harder for minorities, especially those that don't look "American" (anyone that isn't black or white). The hot blonde is the southern standard of beauty and as a brown guy himself that loves him some, I too have never seen anyone that looks ethnically like me end up with one. Now on the other hand, I have seen white guys who were overweight end up dating the Jessica Simpson lookalike whether it was due to social circle game or just some other way. These guys had the most pathetic southern accents that would make women elsewhere laugh and they hardly had much going for them other than the fact that they were very confrontational, does not matter, the girls still ended up with them.

The few times I have seen the interracial rule being broken is when black football players get with a hot blonde or the very whitewashed black kid with a white social circle gets with one. Never seen an ethnic looking guy like an Indian, Arab, Pakistani, or even a brown Latino get with the Jessica Simpson lookalike, it is a sad feeling to have indeed.

It is a very frustrating and depressing feeling to have when you know that the kind of women you like are sleeping with various other kinds of guys but not you, but you can use that feeling in a good way. I have lived a more productive life in recent months, hit the gym, seen gains, gone out to test my game, become more social, and just keep on improving many aspects of myself so the day I do run into the Doutzen Kroes lookalike who is slightly interested in a man of my appearance (they have to be out there!), I put myself in a great situation to get with one.

While I have said that, I would like to take this time to personally thank Chase and everyone on here who has let this politically incorrect discussion go on. Like others, I do wish the blonde thing had its own thread since a lot of men feel issues in terms of getting them but as a whole, this forum has impressed me. We have not had any guy come in and say "stick to yer own kind" like they would on other forums and guys have legitimately added a wealth of information to this thread which could potentially help me in the future.

Sometimes I wonder if in the near future, a move might be necessary for me to have the kind of success with American women that I want.

 

[mb1]

If you're bitter towards these women, the best thing to do is just approach them more, but plenty of light skinned women not brainwashed by the media are into what they call "swarthy" men. Look it up. My theory is they want your genes to even out (and more so red heads who burn easily), and plenty blonde girls' mothers hate you while their daughters fantasize, so do it with discretion dude. Maybe they're also worried about the racist football captain disqualifying them as a girlfriend being seen with you, and would love to bone.

I don't even care about the blonde bombshell image, I just want to fuck good looking blondes while I am in the USA whether she is natural or expensively dyed. For some reason, I am just more attracted to a good looking blondes than other kinds of attractive women, maybe it's due to all those Playboy magazines I looked at growing up.

The swarthy thing, that is something which would uplift me but I am starting to find that to a lot of American women who fit the hot blonde category, swarthy actually means a white guy with darker hair like Robert Downey Jr or a young Sean Connery. I've heard of blondes lusting over Spaniards and Italian men since they are "European" which is the good kind of foreign but I don't think they mean Bollywood when they say swarthy because I haven't seen American women go too crazy over those types of men.

You're somewhat right though, I find that pale brunettes with freckles and gingers tend to show a lot of interest in me and I have pulled them for a lay and make-out before. I might actually be hard on myself here too but a lot of this has to do with the fact that despite my area having a good bit of brown men and a lot of hot blondes, never seen the two together. It just adds to my limiting belief which has been bugging me....

You've obviously got a head to understand at this level and be here to talk about it. Perhaps read over the thread again with what everyone had to say to start. From there man, honestly it's really all about approaching and getting used to it (speaking more so from being told this by others), but these girls are going to smell the insecurity on you. Until you're comfortable, it's your discomfort that's causing the problem, meaning the only way to fix it is to rewire this brain pathway and approach the shit out of blonde women. Start with making yourself different from their pre-formed image of you, and be a guy that will make them say "wow he's not what I assumed".

Personally, I think the best way to approach the woman is with the mindset like "I know you're attracted to me, and right now you may think you're not attracted to me, but I know for a fact I'm going to pull it out of your deep subconscious and make you realize it". There really is no way to approach a woman with confidence unless you believe that you deserve to fuck her. Mark Manson's book Models may help you decipher all the neediness issues you have around them. You need to be able to not be invested in their opinions and handle the rejection. Clearly, you are way more worried about what they think about you than how you view yourself, and that's a fundamental issue that will stop every sexual encounter. If you don't break this pedestal, they'll feel it. The best way to do this is keep approaching and deep dive the shit out of the these girls so learn how each of them is a separate individual so the "blonde" stops being a mythical creature.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

There is a need to comment, I feel like with every comment I learn more and more about these blondes. As I said, I am putting in the work but most of you having success with these girls are white. Would love hear from resident brown guys how they managed to do it and overcome the racism. Lets face it, even if hot blondes aren't racist you cannot deny that there is some strong pressure on them from American society to be racially picky. I think the latter is what the issue is.

 

[Estate]

Altair.

Go back about 5 posts and read what Anat man said. He says exactly what I see. I know and work with a lot of the guys you describe and this is the attitude of 90% of them. The other 10% figured it out and I see them get women.

It's mainly their attitude. They see blondes as a prize to be taken. Not people. They say they get with brunette or other girls bit in reality dont.

At a bar while the "white guys" are going around having fun and bantering with people. These guys are so shy and timid, they don't speak or just stare. I'm thinking of one guy in particular I know OBSESSED with blondes. He's a cool guy around guys but the second a woman is in the room he's a blathering mess, he just can't seem to see it. If you want blondes, be the guy the like (or any girl) and skin color is not the main factor.

I know another guy who recently moved out to California from here from India. He's short too. Has a 5'8" skinny blonde gf. When you talk to him he's such a chill guy though. You'd just think he grew up here because he doesn't act obviously "foreign". He's like any other guy in town.

As for the skin color. Look, everyone has first impressions. But that's all it is. Be a cool, skilled guy and the initial perception or stereotype of you will be gone.

I've said before, I'm white but foreign. Irish or Italian or other European looking girls seem to have a good first impression of me, sure. Others, like Latin girls don't approach me the same way, because I don't have the look of their typical guy. But if I'm cool and actually seem to be able to approach then and be chill, they like me. It's like the opposite of what you're saying. I could bitch my extremely white pale skin and freckles means non European type girls are racist towards ME but that's not actually what it is.

Ugh. I'm sorry I'm actually bumping this thread. Is there any chance we could just lock it now? All the info and debate is already here for anyone to read. It's a shame this is really the only seriously active topic on the forum.

 

[mb1]

Half Middle Eastern here. A drunk wino once made a nose comment so pretty sure that says girls don't see me as "white".

Last girlfriend: pure tall/fit Scandinavian working in a top law firm

Me: younger lover/loser who never entered her social circle

She ended up wanting marriage.

So there are many more limiting beliefs to go lol strap in

 

[mb1]

And agreed, it's down to his effort now. All the mindsets are here.

 

[mb1]

There is a need to comment, I feel like with every comment I learn more and more about these blondes. As I said, I am putting in the work but most of you having success with these girls are white. Would love hear from resident brown guys how they managed to do it and overcome the racism. Lets face it, even if hot blondes aren't racist you cannot deny that there is some strong pressure on them from American society to be racially picky. I think the latter is what the issue is.

There's pressure on every woman to not fuck guys who won't commit and provide for her lol welcome to GC.

http://themetamen.com/lesson-9-the-day- ... ies-ideal/

https://www.girlschase.com/users/william-gupta

That's all I've got left for this thread now lol, good luck to all the brown guys. I'll be dating the darker women lol

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I am actually hoping this thread does not get locked because I like it, as it has been said, there are a lot of hot blondes out there once you hit places like the bar and club scenes, just any popular party scene for the most part. Hoping Chase keeps it open because some of the issues I can definitely see being relevant to guys that might not be white. I know it's not something we want to talk about but I am starting to think that race might actually matter more than we think in terms of getting these girls.

As a brown guy who has had his share of success with the hot blonde types, I just learned that location might actually be huge.

Just a few weeks ago I met a couple of girls in my state (I live on the west coast) who were here from Atlanta. We had some event that attracted girls from across the country and they were sorority sisters too, both of them hot blondes. One of the girls was here with an overweight guy wearing button up polo and shorts along with those sunglasses with a band around them. The guy was not good looking in any sort of way and he had a country accent. In my state, that guy would not do too well with the hot blonde types but what happened next really opened my eyes.

My friend (white guy) and I were talking to that group and one girl that I am FWB (friends with benefits) with and fits the image of the cute blonde was talking to them too. So I try to do my thing and get involved in the conversation, the two blondes completely ignore me and I thought no big deal, maybe my game is just off. Then the blonde I am FWB with later told me how she is sick of people like them, I asked her why and she said how those two girls along with the fatass were talking so much shit about me when I left, some of which involved my race.

The guy said something along the lines of "shouldn't he be hanging with his own kind" to which the two blondes agreed with, this is what I heard from my FWB and friend. My FWB tells me that her mouth just opened wide at how ignorant those people were, might have been one bad apple but I cannot know for sure.

I haven't had that much experience with that part of the United States but just the very fact that I ended up seeing a guy like that with a girl that hot while he would be struggling in my state just made me think back to some of the complaints here.

On the west coast, I have had a good bit of success but I am starting to think that rather than my game, looks, and lifestyle, my location is also ideal in terms of getting these kinds of girls. At first I was ignorant to the whole race card being played but now, I realized that I might just be naive...

Chase, I think this thread might just be tipping the iceberg from my recent experience and this coming from a guy who has dated hot blondes before.