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I was just curious about this but Chase, is there any chance that a article goes up on girlschase on how to get the hot blonde bimbo types? I would be glad to somewhat contribute to it.
 

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The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

I have not been on this site as much because I have been trying to improve my life recently but if there is one type of woman throughout my life that has given me a tough time, I would say it is the blonde bombshell by miles no questions asked. For those who haven't read it, this is the article:

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-h ... bombshells

That is what I love about Chase and this site, you guys are fucking real! Most people have said nonsense like "just be yourself" or "you can't judge a girl like that based on just her hair color" but this article just gets it. I saw it at my university all the fucking time, the type of guys who were getting these girls were usually the douchiest frat boys or the football players (usually the white ones though). Most other guys that even tried to get these girls were usually met with the harshest rejections which were embarrassing in public (had other guys laughing).

Always seemed like to me that only a particular set of men did well with the blonde bombshell types, usually frat boys and jocks back in college. Now that I am in the real world and finished college, I initially had a tough time deciding what kind of guys get these girls but then it made sense. Chase really went into it with this part of the post:

Quarterback? Check.
Class clown? Check.
Ski instructor? Check.
Military officer? Check.
Rides a motorcycle? Check.
President of a fraternity? Check.
Dedicated gym rat with big biceps and washboard abs? Check.
Bouncer or bartender at a popular nightclub? Check.
Owner of his own private legal practice? Check.
Proud owner of a small boat? Check.

Fortunately, I have the bold covered for the most part but the rest seem like they will take a lot of investment, something I am ready for in general as those things can also net you other kinds of women AND the blonde bombshell types.
 

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personally id rather just be myself and then if thats not good enough for them then it just wasn't meant to be.
 

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Dylweed said:
personally id rather just be myself and then if thats not good enough for them then it just wasn't meant to be.

Ya what's the point of maxing out your looks and making yourself more appealing to women, just be yourself and enjoy the videogames and porn.

No offense but I just hate the "be yourself" advice. Being yourself got you your problems with women so obviously something needs work. If you're doing well and have no interests in the type then no offense, your comment on this thread was just wasting space man.
 

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personally id rather just be myself and then if thats not good enough for them then it just wasn't meant to be.

Ya what's the point of maxing out your looks and making yourself more appealing to women, just be yourself and enjoy the videogames and porn.

No offense but I just hate the "be yourself" advice. Being yourself got you your problems with women so obviously something needs work. If you're doing well and have no interests in the type then no offense, your comment on this thread was just wasting space man.
my bad youre right, i agree with the advice on fashion. I'm already a great looking guy btw. I just didn't agree with trying to be a sarcastic jerk, but to each their own.
 

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I been thinking, I am JUST attracted to women with blonde hair that are good looking whether it they be natural or bleached. Seems like the article says natural blondes are much kinder, how do I find more of these in the USA and where?
 
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Read the article and I don't doubt Chase's experiences at all but I wanted to bring up how these kinds of women (bottle blonde bimbos) are just vicious towards men in general. I guess it is a part of a lifestyle where a girl dyes her hair blonde for attention and acts like a bitch towards men just to get back at them. Now any woman is capable of this type of bitch behavior and I am not saying all bottle blondes are like this but it seems that a vast majority of the women engaging in this behavior who are white happen to be the bottle blonde types. Seems to be an American thing as well and videos like this do not make me doubt the experiences that Chase or any of the users on here had.

I watch youtube videos (especially the prank and social experiment ones) on my spare time and that article just reminded me of a few instances I noticed in these videos, concerning bottle blondes/blonde bombshell types. Would like to share them with the guys on here because I noticed them in quite a few of this prankster's (Overboardhumor) videos.

Not cherry picking at all here, you can see prank videos, the few bad reactions that women give, and there will always be the blonde bimbo type being a total bitch trying to just embarrass the guy.

At 1:15 of this video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hfX_KqMt-Ic

Notice the immediately harsh reaction from the bimbo, the guy literally did nothing! The guy walks up to the wall and already she starts having this reaction that he is trying to get with her. Now granted it was a prank video with him asking to cuddle with people but my lord, that reaction literally showcases how awful bottle blonde bimbos can be as people. No other girl has that intense of a reaction and this girl already starts throwing this massive bitch fit before anything has even happened.

At 1:16 all the way to 1:40 of this video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5xKXTKuiW8

At this point, it is not even about fucking pickup, it is about just humiliating the guy for laughs.

Really? All of that loud nonsense and rudeness for no reason. Just absolutely no sense of humor whatsoever and making a scene as well, hellbent on embarrassing the guy. These are the kinds of women you encounter when you even think about approaching a blonde. Just the exact type of women that don't make me doubt for a second that Chase was not lying about his experiences or anyone on here about theirs.

5:46 of this video here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d3RuGQluDXs

Are you fucking kidding me right now? I mean REALLY? I know the prank is fucking cheesy but can you believe that shit?

2:42 of this video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b0YWSQ5w9K8

Most girls reacted well to the prank and had a great time, but can you fucking believe that shit? I mean really!? What is it in that fucking peroxide?

This popular video itself.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iyeUcFKRv4

The gold digger prank.
 

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@Proactivity,

Bottle blondes are trying to fit into a specific niche/group, right? Isn't that the explanation for their behavior?

So what happens when a guy comes along who she suspects strongly does not fit into this elusive group that she's trying to fit into? She has to throw him under the bus so he will go away and the people she's trying to "fit in" with don't see her associating with in a positive way, right?

That is the gist of it, as I understand it. I'm not saying they're mean or bad people, they're just reacting to social cues. The advice given is to make yourself fit into the types of groups that they want to include themselves in. It's not any different to me than the nerds in the Dungeons and Dragons club making fun of dumb jocks. It's just that you're part of an out-group (to them). So to be in their in-group, you have to do things like play sports, lift weights, act like a Jersey Shore douche, et cetera. Shit, and driving a Bugatti can't hurt either haha. Conversely, if the dumb jock wants to join the computer science club, he'll have to study up and learn how to do some programming and buy some skinny jeans or something.

Just the way it is, IMO. The bottle blondes are trying really, really hard to fit in so they are far more polarized when it comes to in-groups and out-groups.


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Just to add... you know, and I didn't think to say this when I posted my reply above, but if you are looking to actually pick up women and have sex with them, then playing super cheesy pranks like "wanna see my nuts?!!" probably isn't the greatest way to hit their attraction buttons. If I was a good looking, high value woman I'd probably tell those guys to fuck off too. If you're approaching any woman at all (not just bottle blondes) in that way and expecting to get any sort of positive results, then I don't really know what to say haha.

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I understand that, we're all trying to fit in, but from my experience, most women are a lot more nicer and classier when it comes to rejections. Now you see in those videos, I understand the pranks were cheesy, most girls had some sense of humor or at least rubbed it off. Some of the girls just flat out ignored him which in my opinion is how classy women handle clowns and some guys like that.

What I was trying to point out is how bottle blondes are just so different in some ways. Look at the first video, the guy hasn't done shit and already she is acting as if Hannibal Lecter approached her. The video hit so many cords with me personally because I have seen blondes do this countless times. You don't even have to talk to them or even interact with them but unless you are the highest value male in the room, they will explicitly try to back away from you and do stuff just like that. Many will make a show of it in front of others, rejecting you and attempting to showcase the world how awful you are. I seem to get the impression that these types walk around seeing everyone in the world as perverts out to get them but I wonder, why even put all that money into your looks if you can't deal with the attention? It is almost like they are investing so much cash on their looks to get attention and once they get it, they want to treat men that give it to them like absolute shit in front of others as some sort of revenge for something. I am cool with ignoring a guy, telling him to calmly back away, but reacting to him like he is some crazed sociopath is just fucked up.

Now look at the latter two videos, what kind of a woman does that kind of shit? I mean just ignore the guy or tell him to back away but this is literally what I see:

1. Absolutely no sense of humor, the entitlement and princess complex at its finest. Women that take themselves so seriously to where they cannot take a joke, the whole "higher than thou" attitude.

2. Hellbent on embarrassing the guy in front of an entire crowd, I see bottle blondes do this the most and with great pleasure too.


That's literally the one difference I notice between bottle blondes vs all other kinds of women, bottle blondes are sadistic when it comes to social interactions. Most of them do not want to reject you kindly and go on with their day, they want to literally make a scene in front of the entire crowd to make you regret even talking to them. Majority of the ones I have encountered tend to pull shit like this all the time, they are hellbent on inflicting pain and misery on men they deem as low value. A lot of them I have seen do it for sport, like it is something on their agenda and I find it fucked up.

I think these women are great for a pump and dump but outside of that, getting into an LTR with one or marrying one is a bad decision. You're better off getting a European girl with naturally blonde hair if blondes are really your thing.
 
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"Be yourself" works if you were born with great genetics, you were raised and educated with good social skills and emotional intelligence, and if you naturally picked up on the social scene and hierarchies throughout school. That might fit a certain number of people, but it certainly doesn't account for the majority.

The majority of men actually want to hear this kind of advice. "Be yourself." They don't want to admit that they have underlying issues and problems that are at the root of their dating dilemmas. 9 times out of 10, most men who have trouble in their dating lives probably have trouble with their social lives in general, as well as in their academic, professional, creative, etc. Because if you really want to be good at something, it takes persistent effort and willpower to power past the inevitable pain and negative feedback you'll get on the way to growth.

As far as "bottle blondes" or blonde bombshells, or any type of women for that matter, there is some validity to these sweeping, generalizing statements. Yes, there's probably some societal conditioning and programming going on that these women aren't even aware of. But they're simply following and doing what they know. All the things they've been conditioned and the lifestyles they've led growing up, the peers and social environments they live in all contribute to this: "I want to fit in and be accepted and this is who I am, or want to be".

I don't really understand why anyone would want to date someone, or sleep with someone based on a caricature of a subtype of women they've seen in movies and other media, or on their college campuses, or growing up in high school. Especially if that is predicated on this deep-seated desire to have something that you think you can't get, as if blonde bombshells are the holy grail. But to each his own. All I know is that there is a very good reason why some of these women are the way they are, and it's not because they're think they're better than everyone else. It has to do with you not matching up with their perceived realities.

As much as "Americans" are bashed for lacking cultural, the culture that the typical U.S. white girl is not used to seeing or dating men from other races. While African Americans and others of African descent have been in the U.S. for hundreds of years and been part of the dialogue, part of the academic and social meta-conversation, other non-white groups have only begun to scratch the surface.

It is culturally unacceptable and extremely frowned up to make jokes about race towards African Americans, but we are still living in a society where it is accepted to make fun of Asians. Few will bat an eyelash to racial slurs and epithets directed towards Muslims and Arabs regarding terrorism. In other words, if you're not "white", you're seen as the other. An outsider. You're not really "American". This is something that's been around for hundreds of years, on an institutional level. It's not going to change, at least not for a long time, and not right away.

Anyways, it is definitely possible to date these types of women, even if you're not her "type". There's too much focus on the exterior, superficial qualities. These are important, yes, so go ahead and "max" out as much as you can. Make sure you look good. Get in the gym, work on your physique, all of that good stuff. But at the end of the day, it's your character, your social intelligence, your charm, your conversation, your ability to present an authentic and attractive persona to that woman.

And it doesn't hurt if you're a blonde, blue eyed white man. Just a little harder for the rest of us. But it doesn't mean it's impossible or gives any excuse.
 

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Guys,

Many great points here, but isn't the thread heading in another direction that it's supposed to? If I get it correctly, the point's to show appreciation and to say "thanks"... and now we're heading to this:

https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?t=5840

AGAIN.

Am I right that we're discussing the same all over again or is something wrong with me? IMVHO, we're just a few posts away from yet another "BBs are bitches" vs any form of countering that point of view. BBs often behave badly - so, is it a good idea to spend hours and hours to discuss it instead of actually getting attractive enough to get them even without being their ideal type (as Chase said)?

Merging this topic with the one mentioned above wouldn't be a bad idea.

To quote Flames from another topic:

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Now if only the community could be this enthusiastic about actually helping each other out.

Maybe I'm exaggerating, but in a good belief.

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No offense to anyone here but if you aren't in the USA, you don't know how it is like. I've met blondes from Europe who were as cool as your typical hippie girl, the blonde bimbo issue is mainly with American women!

The main issue here is, bottle blondes are a hot topic because some of us encounter them in large numbers compared to other kinds of women. Now if that was not the case, this whole discussion would have never started a long while ago.

Go to a college campus with a lot of hot girls (aka your typical big state school)? Bottle blondes dominate.

Go out to the bars and clubs in better off areas? Bottle blondes everywhere.

Picking up on the beach your thing? Lots of bottle blondes to be found!

We could give less of a shit about the blonde bimbo types if they were just a small segment of the population but the fact of the matter is, they are there in large numbers for many of us not fortunate enough to live in NYC or some major city where you can game foreign women all day long. Bottle blondes dominate the party scene from my experience, they are the main types of white girls living the YOLO life and partying like animals.

I love a natural blonde, it isn't the hair color alone, but the type Chase talked about have their issues.

I think we need to quit the political correctness here and call a bitch a bitch because that is what she is, a bitch. Now don't get me wrong though, I love to fuck bitches and I have fucked bitches but I won't marry a bitch and to me a bitch is still a bitch.

Like Chase, I have had bottle blondes cockblock me when I hit on their brunette friends and attempt to do the kind of shit they did to the overboardhumor guy. All I was doing was just making an example in the vids I posted that guys who are newbies and don't want to get their feelings hurt real bad should tread carefully.

Isn't that what OP applauded Chase for? The fact that the article was so fucking real!

Now that is the same reason I love this site because IT IS NOT PUA GARBAGE that gives you gimmicks and some nonsense advice. Chase literally tells you that you need to be in good shape and appeal to mainstream society to have a shot. As a guy who dated a blonde bombshell a while back because of social circle game, I agree with him. You cannot use the same strategy on this chick that you would use on a brunette at a cafe because you will fail miserably and wonder what happened. Yes I am bitter about it due to my experiences with these women but I think it is only fair we acknowledge these differences!
 

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@J.J.

I don't know why you pedestalize black men so much, maybe I am getting you mixed up with another user but I sometimes get the impression that you get your worldview from porn or something. Now I've had black friends and outside of being a high value guy (football player, athlete, etc.) or just lucking into a girl with a fetish, I don't really see being black as an advantage over any other minority group when it comes to getting these kinds of girls. If anything, I've found that the blonde bombshell types I have met tend to break hard for handsome latinos and some arab/brown guys who have their shit together. Now obviously if a high value black guy (athlete, rapper, etc.) appeared in front of them it would be different but I am talking among non-celebs and most common people.

Among the blonde bombshell I dated and some of her friends, Cristiano Ronaldo was a very popular figure and man with Antonio Banderas coming in at a close seconds. It is not too uncommon for the blonde bombshell type to get with a latino at all.

It's really just Asian guys and some Indian guys having a shit ton of issues getting these women and they end up blaming it on their race when in reality, most of them could use some serious work on their game, appearances, mindset, and lifestyles (no offense, I have Asian and Indian friends, a lot of them agree with this).
 

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Whistle - and dogs will howl.

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No offense to anyone here but if you aren't in the USA, you don't know how it is like. I've met blondes from Europe who were as cool as your typical hippie girl, the blonde bimbo issue is mainly with American women!

None taken, bro.

Yes, I've never been in the USA. That doesn't mean that we don't have people like that here - both in Poland and Europe. Difference? Here bitchy girls are bitchy but they aren't necessarily BBs. Only hair color is different, nothing more.

People who visit Europe most often go to biggest towns in the countries (like Berlin, Munich, Paris, Moscow, Warsaw, Prague, Barcelona, Madrid etc.) and meet the most cosmopolitan, open-minded part of female (and male) population. Even then, they have the benefit of being a foreign guy (or girl - if we talk about tourists, not PUAs). Therefore, they don't have a clue how a disco in a rural area looks like. (And oftentimes it looks like a meeting of BB-mentality girls and their jocks + some other people thrown for a small measure.)

Also, judging people from Europe when they're abroad is some kind of a mistake - many people from our continent never go to the USA... and even if they do, they're in a foreign country, so they - at least, in many cases - behave better than at home. Would you travel far to be bitchy there instead of having a good time and making pleasant memories?

(As a side-note, such way of thinking about other places in the world reminds me a good quote: "if someday scientists will find the center of the universe, many people will be shocked that they aren't it".)

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Go to a college campus with a lot of hot girls (aka your typical big state school)? Bottle blondes dominate.
Go out to the bars and clubs in better off areas? Bottle blondes everywhere.

Proactivity said:
We could give less of a shit about the blonde bimbo types if they were just a small segment of the population but the fact of the matter is, they are there in large numbers for many of us not fortunate enough to live in NYC or some major city where you can game foreign women all day long. Bottle blondes dominate the party scene from my experience, they are the main types of white girls living the YOLO life and partying like animals.

Same here. As Estate's told you in the already mentioned thread, "grass is always greener".

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I think we need to quit the political correctness here and call a bitch a bitch because that is what she is, a bitch. Now don't get me wrong though, I love to fuck bitches and I have fucked bitches but I won't marry a bitch and to me a bitch is still a bitch.

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Like Chase, I have had bottle blondes cockblock me when I hit on their brunette friends and attempt to do the kind of shit they did to the overboardhumor guy. All I was doing was just making an example in the vids I posted that guys who are newbies and don't want to get their feelings hurt real bad should tread carefully.

The common saying that the world's becoming a global village seems to be true - we also have here YT crowd who show similar types of behavior (speaking of which - maybe you've seen the famous prank by SA Wardega about his spider-dog? If not, it's here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YoB8t0B4jx4 - a nice refresher from the discussion). You have Jersey Shore, we have Warsaw Shore. Nihil sub sole novum.

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Isn't that what OP applauded Chase for? The fact that the article was so fucking real!

The fact that the article is spot-on is a good reason to say "thanks". At the same time, it's not a reason to start the same flame discussion all over again.

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Now that is the same reason I love this site because IT IS NOT PUA GARBAGE that gives you gimmicks and some nonsense advice.

Agreed on that. Fist bump, bro.

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Yes I am bitter about it due to my experiences with these women but I think it is only fair we acknowledge these differences!

Yes, I agree that we should acknowledge them - for this reason, we have the great post by Chase on the main site. I guess he's written that piece to make things clear and not to start the same pointless discussions on the boards.

I understand being bitter, in many areas of life I know the feeling - but the solution is to fight and not to immerse in it, because if you let yourself immerse in it, you will drown in negativity and become grumpy, therefore unattractive company (the same way for girls and your bros etc.). Nobody likes a downer (with exceptions for other people like that - as they say, misery loves company).

I've written the post above to point out that this discussion brings nothing new to the topic. At the same time, it makes a perfect place for victim mentality, bitterness and such stuff to flourish. There are dozens of threads on the boards with very little answers (sometimes none) - and yet we indulge in such talks instead of helping each other out.

Moreover, I acknowledge the problem you have. In this case - instead of wasting time on complaining that bitches are bitchy as it's of the same usefulness as complaining that grass is green - make some threads where you ask questions how to solve different problems you encounter. If the questions which are to be asked in such threads are already answered on the main site/these boards, then there's no reason for asking... and no reason for bitching about bitches. If they're not answered, then it's time to ask 'em and hopefully get some answers / inspire one the authors to write a post on the main site.

Depending on the direction this discussion will take, I'll decide if I'll write anything more in this thread, but I highly doubt it.

- Jaimie

P.S. Don't bitch about bitches as it makes you yet another bitching bitch, bro - stay positive and all the best :)
 
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I'm not going to pretend that I understand the experience of another man. Even if he is the same "race", or "culture" or "ethnic" background, no two men's experiences in life will be the same. Making broad, sweeping generalizations are dangerous. I'm guilty of them.

Oh, and don't put words in my mouth. I don't "pedestalize" any group. I can't speak for all men, and I will avoid making broad generalizations. I only speak from my experience. Which doesn't make my words more valid than yours, or less valid. Simply my opinion. Just as you will never understand how it is to live in a world of prejudice based on race. It's very real. Some people exaggerate the severity, while others dismiss it entirely. Color-blind racism. Pretending that everything's "all good", that they don't see "color". I include race in this discussion because it is very real and very related to the issue at hand. Not because of race itself, but because race happens to have strong connections to cultural upbringing. But I digress.

You're assuming that you know me. Just because you have friends of "X" race doesn't mean you have an accurate idea of that man's experience in the dating world. You need to stop acting like you know, when you clearly don't.

There are so many factors at play, it is impossible to judge how one's race affects the interaction in a vacuum. Impossible. More likely, the man's own negative beliefs are infecting his emotional state and he's projecting bad vibes, thus making him unattractive. He's defeated himself before he's even had a chance to engage a woman.

I don't use race as an excuse in my own dating life. I haven't had issues meeting women of different groups. But I can understand and empathize on a certain level with men who struggle with this.

The reason race becomes an issue is because many of these men have nothing but race as their underlying identity. They have nothing inherent or developed in themselves that defines them as men. They lead poor lifestyles, they have weak character, and they may even perpetuate caricatures and stereotypes that hurt them even further. Race only becomes an issue when the only thing that defines your identity is the fact that you're part of "X" group.

It's easy to ask a woman if she is attracted to "X" celebrity, who happens to be of a certain race/ethnicity. But what you fail to understand is that these men are not just "Latinos", or "Indians", or whatever. They are successful, handsome, affluent, intelligent, hard-working, confident, skilled, talented men who HAPPEN TO BE A CERTAIN RACE. It doesn't define them. It's just one piece of the puzzle. Not the whole thing.
 

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Jaime, seriously dude, he has a point when he says that unless you're from the USA you have no idea of what is really going on. I understand that you are trying to ease tensions and I can admire that but if you have no real life experience, why are you even on this thread? Now this is in essence what is wrong with so many PUA forums, you practically have the blind leading the blind. You have guys who haven't had much success with women (not saying this is you) teaching other guys how to be players. I see the same playing out here on this forum where guys who haven't lived in the USA and gamed women here are all of a sudden trying to come off as experts on American women.

Read the article, Chase was being real and giving advice based on his experiences which lined up with that of many of the guys here. Most of his article was not "just be happy and enjoy life" type of shit, he gave legitimate advice on how to game a certain group of women. The whole thread is quite literally about that and nothing else. I don't see why you came in and commented when you literally have no experience with this. I understand you have good intentions but if you have no personal experiences then you are not helping anyone at all.

I value what Chase says because he has lived in the USA his whole life and gamed girls here for over a decade, same with Franco. I have lived in the USA my entire life and gamed girls here for almost a decade now too. The conversation is between guys who have a lot of experience with American women, particularly the blonde barbie types.

Your posts have literally added no relevant value to this thread as of yet and I want this thread to stand on its own rather than being moved.
 

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Thanks for clarification and kind, well-balanced answer, Fuji - your thread, your direction. If what you're saying is the case, then thanks again for clarification and sorry for trouble. Sometimes good intentions lead us astray - it's a pity I've caused some escalation when I wanted to prevent future escalations (a good lesson for the future). If you want, you can report my previous posts to moderators as irrelevant to the discussion - or leave them as a part of discussion and getting to know and sharing different points of view.

Nevertheless, as always - all the best to you, guys and keep rolling.

- Jaimie out (of this topic - now for good)

P.S. After rereading your post: I've never claimed to be any expert on American women (or women in general) - that's why I answer questions posted by others only if I believe I have some knowledge/experience in the discussed case. And yes, in this case I've probably gone too far, so - if that's the case - sorry and from now on - if you wish - treat my previous messages as non-existent. All my points connected with bitchy girls where connected with mine comparison of what Chase's written in the article as traits of the archetype and my real-life experience grounded in PL/EU.
P.P.S. / Edit: After rereading my message and correcting small mistakes, so having a chance to read your second answer - thanks for kindness. I didn't want to lecture you, just remind the community to help each other out instead of being bitter (which is universal).
 

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Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

I am not reporting anything, you had good intentions but all I was saying is that if you have no personal experience with it, you're better off not lecturing others on how to handle it.
 

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Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Southerner here and the blonde bombshell type is very common down south. As others have said, being in a fraternity or playing football is practically a one way ticket to getting in bed with these types of girls but I notice in the real world it is kinda different. Anyone that is connected with the country music scene has an amazing chance at getting these girls, I have literally seen guys like that swarmed with hot blondes at a bar in town.

For some reason, I notice that white guys with a criminal record also do well with these types, particularly hot blondes from more a working class type of background. Seems like if these girls aren't fucking high status guys, they're fucking white guys who have been in some serious legal shit.

I am Arab and have been trying to find a niche I can appeal to with these types down here because like Chase, they have been the ones to give me a rough time. TBH, I can definitely relate with the frustration that comes from gaming these girls, on one hand they are gorgeous but on the other hand many of them also act like how the ones in the videos posted acted.

That said, i am starting to have better experiences with them over the past few months. I think the more educated, brainy, and career oriented types that just happen to be blonde and attractive are less like the girls in the video shown. Just a week ago I interacted with this cute blonde at a cafe and she was curious about me, unfortunately I have not been at the top of my game so it didn't really work out but the opportunities are presenting themselves.

Blonde bombshells on average probably have the most stuck up bitches and just bitches in general of any type of demographic out there but I think even then, you can find some quality ones. I believe that if you stay committed, are persistent (talk to many different ones), have a thick skin, and can offer value then you might get some chances. Unfortunately I am still a virgin but I do interact with women a good bit!
 
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