Tyme2K's 363 Day challenge: 2013 year of adventure

[Tyme2k]

I have this journal going at RSDNation, but thought I will also post it here. I really like Chase's blogs and the site he runs, he really cares about helping guys like me. *Warning* the stories will be long and maybe dry, but I am working on my writing skills and will definitely put educational bits in. Maybe my stories will inspire you all to go out and get more girls! Feedback is good too!

Thanks guys Enjoy

I recently became inspired by a user Psychopathics 360 day challenge that I have decided to dedicate the next 363 days to gaming. Lately I've been going out as much as possible and this will help me stay consistent and quit making excuses.

Start date 2/4/2013
End date 2/2/2014

Rules of my 360 day challenge:

1. Go out every day open at least 10 girls or game for 1 hour minimum.
2. Stay in set for a minimum of 2 minutes
3. Push for a number, day 2, or pull sets over 2 minutes
4. Be dominant, centered, positive and sexual
5. I will restart the challenge if I miss a day
6. Work on side goals at least 20 minutes a day
7. NO EXCUSES
8. Document, post, reflect daily

About me:

Name's Tyler from Sacramento, CA - USA. Pretty much grew up in a smaller town south of the city Elk Grove. Overtime I seperated myself from my entire social circle and now starting from scratch. I work Loss Prevention for a major retailer, basically manage operations and catch people stealing. We are hands on which can be exciting, but most of the time it's boring as hell and it's killing me slowly. Pay is great which really sucks because it now has become my career after 8 years in. I am an entrepenuer at heart and working on a few ideas to launch my first business. The main drawback is the fact that I need income to supplement my lifestyle. I live on my own in the heart of midtown in a great little 1 bedroom apartment which for the price I wouldn't trade for anything I've seen around here. Right now I am attempting to jumpstart my social circle, with future plans of doing improv, dancing, and club/party promoting. I've only had sex with 7 girls in my life, which could actually be 11, but I chose not to do the most recent 4. They were all SNL's that I pulled escalated, but due to lack of attraction I did not close. I did those for the process and practice.

Background: Learned about the community about 8 months ago after breaking up with my second long term girlfriend of 4 years. Met her online, girl before her was supposed to be a one night stand then turned into 4 years of depression. I once was a heavy drinker among other substances, but have since freed myself of all addictions except sex which I find completely normal.

Experince: Beginner/Intermediate

Strengths: Driven, highly sexual, idealistic, dreamer, innovator

Weaknesses: Dreamer, uncontrollable wandering thoughts(used to think ADD, due to lack of focus but never diagnosed), uneducated(HS diploma and life experience), addicted to good sex(keep FWB's around too long), introverted, little positive past social experience, bad conversationalist.

Aim of this journal: To keep myself focused and give structure to my reflection and game overall.

Short term goals:
1. Get a six pack
2. Become more photogenic
3. Get at least 5 solid "Cool" and high value male friends
4. Earn more than $50,000 in 12 months

Long term goals:
1. Net worth of $100,000+
2. Become a PUA coach
3. Run and operate my own profitable business
4. Connect and impact everyone I meet by sharing good will, energy, ideas, and beliefs with each one
5. Create a high quality social circle filled with talented individuals

Bucket list:
Skydive
Hang Glide
Threesome
Threesome with an "8" or better
Date my perfect "10"
Travel to Florida
Travel to Europe
Travel to Australia
Net worth excess of 1,000,000

 

[Tyme2k]

Day 1 - Monday Feb 4th 2013

Stayed at home playing Satrcraft 2 HOTS beta, texting my FWB about how I don't want to hang out for valentine's day, and drinking vodka oj.

Finally around midnight decided to leave the house and grind. Walked to "Dive bar". Arrived saw a promoter I know, greeted, he said Johnny Knoxville was inside and showed me a pic of them together. Knoxville exits the bar gets into a cab seems like he's completely lost haha.

I open a two set smoking. Goes well, but both girls are not my type and slightly overweight. I go inside and find the bar is packed full of guys with about 85/15 ratio. I respect the process and start to wake up. They are playing dubstep and the vibe is awesome. There's girls in pajamas, I open a two set try to get them engaged but they are with their boyfriends.

Finally spot a 2 set finishing up ordering drinks at the bar. Open, one immediately is physically attracted and I almost ignore her advances as she is about a 4. Her friend hispanic brunette is one of the hotter girls in the bar, but still about a 6. I say to them I should have wore my pajamas and the 6 calls me judgemental. I take it somewhat serious and try to logically explain to her how there is no way what I said as judgemental. Then I say that's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard and both girls turn towards each other blow me out.

I walk away and post up, start observing. The vibe in this place is always amazing and entertaining. I get reopened by the chick from outside she is throwing tons of IOI's at me and I just remain chill and throw a witty comment out every so often. I should have number closed, but the lack of attraction was killing me.

Previous blowout girls see me being social and start orbiting. They are getting opened by every guy in the venue seeking validation. They come close to me and keep looking at me. Eventually they start trying to snap pics and I stop them saying "I charge." This doesn't go over that well and I go back to my post. I attempt to open the hotter one again talking about how they must be photographers and some 5'3" dude starts to try to amog me. hes speaking some random spanish and I say I don't speak spanish, but I can tell he's talking some sort of shit. I decide not to engage him or validate the girls anymore.

130am I decide to leave there is only one more 3 set with the hottest girl being a 6 and no where near my type. I start heading for the door and coincidentally the hispanic brunette is walking outside. I stop her and ask if she's leaving, she say's she's never leaving this place and starts to go back inside. I was thinking in my head that I just looked like I followed her out and felt creepy even though it was pure coincidence. This probably threw off my vibe and blew the set even harder.

Things I learned:
- Don't take things girls say seriously, laugh, shrug, ignore, but don't let it affect me.
- Remove all feelings of creepy, I am enough and high value, what I do is not creepy.
- Don't procrastinate and show up late or there will be missed opportunity. I could have hung out with Johnny Knoxville and invited him out tonight for a decent time in this shitty town.. Life's missed opportunities..

 

[Tyme2k]

Day 2 - Tuesday Feb 5th 2013

2030 got home. Ran and lifted (20 mins+ towards goals)
2130 headed to Mix to try to grab a bite. My friend james says they have food and hand crafted drinks. Great spot for a date.

Get to Mix theres 3 people at the bar and the bartender says the kitchen closes at 930.
I go next door and grab a chicken Gyro. Theres a two set (I didnt find attractive) I over hear their convo and they talk about how they do stand up comedy. I start thinking of a million ways to open them and get in my head. I don't open rationalize by telling myself I will see them again. I leave, beat myself up for not opening for the sake of momentum on the walk home.

Jump in the car and head to Dive bar. One of my co workers was djing there tonight which was good. Talked to him for a moment and probably have a new tuesday spot called Low Brow.
I lean on the back bar and observe. There are about 12 girls in the entire place and none of them I find attractive. I waited from 2245 until 2320 just in case some more girls came. They never came. Two cool looking guys came in though which I was unable to talk to, they opened one of the girls and stayed in set for a while. If I see them again I will try to make friends.
Start to leave and see a cute redhead by the door. I sit down next to her and start talking. I say she looks bored, she says she's boring. We bullshit for a minute and a guy shows up and tells me I took his chair but i could sit in *points* that chair. I sit for a bit longer and then say I was heading out anyways.

2320 left dive bar to head to Bisla's.
Got in my car forgot to turn on my lights and bam lit up by a cop within seconds. I think they watched me leave the bar lol.
Luckily tonight I decided to roll completely sober, they harrassed me for a bit, accused me of smoking weed, taking pills etc. Let me go.

Arrived at bislas around 2335 saw two asian girls enter. I over hear it's her bday at the door.
I approach the first set I see two over weight blondes. Goes OK, but I can tell they aren't interested and there is tons of dudes in their set.
I see the two asians at the bar and I open, Happy bday with kino hug.
I start talking to both and the bday girl is drunk. She is very interested at first until I start asking what she's studying.
She goes semi cold, aloof. I continue to push on the friend and two more friends arrive. One is super fat other is probably my favorite.
I start talking to the new couple and eventually set goes stale. I leave and say I will come hang out later.
I leave and look for something to open, there is nothing.
I reopen the bday set with the new couple and it goes great until the bday girl comes and grabs them away. I stand there and say guess were done talking.
They go sit down I go stand at the bar. Bday girl goes to the bar and I reopen the two. They light up at first saying heeeey. I forget their names and tell them I forgot. Goes over well and we guess what their names are. I guess pretty well. They respect that I was honest.
Bday girl comes back in and I open her. She is so easy to talk to, but I cant keep her attention. She leaves and disappears, friends eventually decide to go find her.
I go back to the bar.

The full 4set with the bday girl all sit down on the couch. I wait a few then reopen one last time.
I sit right next to the bday girl and agian it goes well. Kino quickly but bam she gets distracted. She gets up and sits between two guys.
The whole group is watching her and I can slightly hear her inviting the guys to the group.
They get up, bday girl sits down on her friends lap, chode sits between me and the girls. I sit for a minute, but wasn't engaged from this point. I get up and leave Bislas.

What I learned:
When solo and gaming a group I need to get chodes to wing so I can isolate.
When solo I need to be more social, talk to more than just hot girls.
I suck shit solo, need to work this out.

 

[Tyme2k]

Day 3 - Wednesday Feb 6th 2013

Usually I'm afraid of picking up at work, but today I opened an indian two set half assed. I beat myself up since I started to watch a potential theif and they ended up leaving.

Hit Safeway coming home ran into a british girl I met halloween last year. Exchanged numbers. No other decent sets in there tonight.
Pic is my halloween costume with the Bacardi girls. Shortly after is when I met the british girl. Later that night I blew this set hard. Tried gaming the one to my right went super direct and her body guard AMOG'd me good lol. I'm better now and would plow further in the same situation.


Practiced faces in the mirror, trying to get good photo faces. Saw my friend in the club tonight making great faces and it gave me a couple ideas. I'll try it soon.

Shower, play a couple games of SC2, seems to be my sort of meditation release right now. It's almost like an addiction, probably needs to go.

Head to Mix. Get there at 2245 line is long and I don't want to pay to get in. Meet my wing Mark. Luckily I see my friend James who I usually go out with Wed. He works there and let's us cut the line. Known James from my chode days we worked Loss prevention together, have the same birthday, and became real good friends. I dont want to feel like I'm using him to get in, he has a GF and goes out with me, he will wing pretty well too. There will be future FR reports with him as my wing for sure. His social prrof is insane, It's definitely better than mine and something I'm working towards.

Had tons of opportunities to open in line, but Mark and I are being bitches.We enter he bounces straight to the bathroom. I walk around and scope. Ratio is great, but I don't open, already in my head from the line. See mark chat it up get outta my head, talk about opening with "I have a small dick." We seperate again and I start opening. Open a 5.5 sitting outside talk about random shit she turns to me and engages well. Says she lost her friend. Her friend comes up and shes a whale. She immediately has a look of disgust on her face I can tell because I'm sitting there. I immediately acknowledge her and say "you must be the lost friend, I'm Tyler. Why do you look upset?" She says shes in a bad mood then slaps her face. I don't want to be there I leave. Walk around open randoms nothing hooks, even get a "have a good night."

I'm standing talking to Mark and two girls walk by I don't notice. He says two gorgeous girls are behind you.. I turn and open immediately,"Hi." I knock a glass into a planter and say,"oops I just knocked something in there, we will just pretend like it didn't happen." Blonde tries to look I grab her and say NO, perfect kino i push her away and continue. The brunette pulls out her phone, " can you take a picture?" Bold eye contact,"Only if you make out with me." She laughs and says I have a bf. I grab the blonde and say well then I guess that leaves u and me. I hold eye contact and then let her go. Her friend says as an alternative they will make out. I say fuck that how do I get something from that? She says, "I don't even know you." I say,"So." she can tell I'm being serious so I say, here I'm Tyler and you are.." She says her name and I say now we know each other, grab her head and go in. She ducks laughs hard and runs away. I rocket into state, not like a shuttle rocket more like a model rocket.. super fast! I look for my next target.

Mark wants to know what I did so I tell him the story.

Mark leaves to put his coat in his car. I go wait outside an incredible two set comes to sit by the fire. I stand up and go straight over open with, "Hi" laser eyes. I first can really only engage the cute brunette. Mark shows up and sits down. I look at him but don't acknowledge him well. He sits for a minute while I continue. I hadn't hooked yet and didn't want to plow into an intro. He gets up and at this time I stop and call him back. I intoduce now. The girl says we known each other for years and I say we met hiking on the beach, she says yosimite. I say was it, wow I was super drunk she was feeding me shots like my brother does. Mark engages and chills back. I am chilling super hard on this couch with a pillow, never leaning in, relaxed, nice tone, I feel great. Bam shit test from the friend, "who the fuck are you." I say I'm "Tyler, Who the fuck are you!" Laser eyes. She continues to try to intimadate me and I laser eyes stay ICY. Mark even notices and says are you trying to intimidate him, I engage him and say yep. She backs down, I don't think she thought it would go that way. She says theyre lesbian and I ignore and keep talking. Eventually blonde says they should go back in. We let them go.

Gotta crash out.. Finish this at work tomorrow.

 

[Tyme2k]

Day 3 - Wednesday Feb 6th 2013 Cont.

I chill for a minute talking with Mark. We wander about. Mark freaks out because he sees this gorgeous girl. I don't think she is as amazing, but very proper and clean looking. He likes girls like that. I see a two set with a huge fatty and a gorgeous girl. I walk up as "No Scrubs" is playing. She starts to walk away as I start to appraoch I grab her and say,"you're not leaving are you?" she says no they are just going to close out the whale's tab. Mark immediately turns the obstacle away and starts his hardcore plutonic game. I stare into my beauty's eyes say I waaas going to open her by saying funny this song comes on cause all I see is scrubs in here. She laughs and I change the subject cause it's not that great. She starts asking me what I do, I say are you judging me based on what I do. She actually has a decent answer saying that she is an aspiring business woman with a career and a degree so she is looking for someone of the same caliber. "I am enough" so I just stay chill and she keeps qualifying. She then starts begging me what I do so I say, "If its money you're after I don't make shit. I also have a small dick." holding my fingers up showing an inch. Then I say some stuff about not caring and keep rocking back. She leans in hard damn near making out with me. She says she has a kid and I say,"he must be the love of your life." I go into my nephew and how we as a family couldn't live without him even though we told my sister to get an abortion. She is really engaged in this and keeps qaulifying. I say she has great qualities and explain to her that usually none of these girls have anything going for them. They come out to the club seeking validation and free drinks. I talk about how I'm looking for much more. She lives 4 hours away and the convo fizzles out. She tells me "good luck on your search."

I open a few more sets see a promoter friend of mine start talking to him. We have done some work together and I will be working with him more in the future. While I'm chatting the blonde from the "lesbian" two set outside motions me over. I head over and re engage, heavy kino pull her close. I notice that a chode is gaming them and really blowing the set hard. I admire his persistence, but he was very affected by what the girls were saying. The blonde was saying she doesn't let guys she doesnt know touch her. Then she grabs me and hugs all over. Eventually both girls back turn him and I pull them both in close. I continue to game both individually. I talk more with the cute brunette. She has amazing eyes they are a light grey hazel color. She starts asking me what I do and I tell her this isn't club conversation. I say when we see each other agian we can talk about all this boring stuff. I say that club conversation is "hey, let's go make out in the corner." She doesn't like this and it's the turining point in our interaction. I go back to the blonde we continue to banter. She talks about how she's nice and loving and she smokes lots of weed, so she has a bad memory. I test her memory and she does well. She keeps giving me these sexy eyes and I just want to become super physical, but I'm thinking it's another one of her shit tests. She is trying to see if I can remain super chill like before. I pull the other friend in and we all start talking. Blonde catches her up and she says she's trying to like me but I'm so secretive. We start talking agiain and I stick with my frame. Before I had told her I was 19 so she brought it up agian saying how she didn't want to talk to and be attracted to a 19 year old. I call her out on her direct comment which made her throw up a super shield. She gets defensive immediately and now I'm fucked. She was coming onto me hard and I should have took her some where isolated. Her "friend" aka super chode causes a slight scene saying he bumped his head and feels like shit. He sits down and both girls start to baby him. I walk off.

I open a few more sets, and it's about 125. Mark and I talk about trying to take the two girls I've been gaming somewhere to eat. I try for the pull. I see the blonde on the dance floor getting groped by randoms and I walk up strong hand of god, powerful eye contact and a sexy smile. She grabs my had and we dance for a minute. I dont like the space between us so I pull her close then back her up. This doesn't really work, but I keep pulling her in to talk. I asked her if she's hungry, she says no, so I say you must be thirsty, she says yes. I then say we need to grab a drink together after, I'm thinking threesome! This threesome would be amazing both girls are 7+. The suggestion of going somewhere goes over smooth and we walk to the bar. Mark comes up and says "so hey are you coming with us to get something to eat?" She kinda gets snippy and says, "I'm not hungry." I step between and say "me niether we are going to get a drink though." She walks off. I stay with mark and tell him she's not hungry and so I went straight for the after party pull back to my place. I see both girls go to the bathroom and bouncers start ushering people out.

We exit and I wait outside for the two. They come out with their chode group of friends I chill and don't look towards them. Brunette comes close and I lean on a railing, reach out my arm and pull her in. She gives me a hug and I tell her we are hanging out again. She says yeah only here at Mix. I say no no for real. She starts to walk away. I let her go. Fuck me. Walk to Mark's truck recap a bit and plan for tomorrow Day 4 and it's his Bday! Good FR to come, hope I don't get too drunk!

What I learned:
Crush resistance when going for the makeout to take a photo. Say just as friends or we all can make out that way it's more freindly.
Don't say I'm looking for anything, instead say it's rare to see, or not common.. I think girls will auto reject as If It's right in front of me and I don't notice they may not think they are high enough value.
When a girl comes on strong treat it as a shit test, stay cool and escalate. Don't point it out.
Don't think about the outcome, pull escalate and follow the process.
Alcohol gives a sense of fake state. feels good and can approach, but sober state is an extreme that is much more powerful and people sense it once you get it.

 

[Tyme2k]

Re: 363 Day challenge FR: Noob to pro, 2013 year of adventur

Day 4 - Thursday Feb 7 2013

Woke up an hour and a half late for work. Got ready same pace as usual. Saw a shitty two set at work, but I wanted to practice gaming here so I opened. They go to Sac state and were buying something for class. I ejected after a few minutes.

Got off work. Ran, worked out. Marks Bday today met him after his game at Blue Cue. There is a girl on his team that I thought was cute. She is a super tiny Indian girl, but almost reminds me of a mouse by the way she stands. We stand around talk and bitch about how my brother is trying to flake. My bro and his friend show up. Bro is in a full suit and tie, even his little fadora hat, just got off work. We all socialize for a while. There is literally no sets to open. All the girls except for the mousey indian are uggs. I keep eyeing the indian chick, Mark asks if I want to be introduced, but she was playing beer pong so I declined.

Two girl friends of Mark and my brother show up. They both have pretty faces, but are pretty fat. I just stand there waiting for an introduction and it doesn't come. I just engage them both with sexy eye contact as they speak. I can tell their intrigue and attraction are increasing every second. They take Mark to the bar and buy him a shot. The cuter one of the two bounces downstairs cause her 20 year old ride is waiting. The other stays up stairs. I notice the friend eye fucking me so leaning back like a boss I reach out my hand and motion her to come. At first she's hesitant. She looks at mark and says your friend is putting out his had. He say's go over there, pushes her towards me. At first she's not engaging well. I introduce myself officially and we start bullshitting. She came from a concert at a small venue "Ace Of Spades" I have yet to go to, but it sounds amazing. I might try to see Baby Bash there next friday. I punish her for not being engaging and turn away slightly engaging other people. She starts fighting for my attention so I reward her by reengaging. We talk about how I stand up in my car while I drive and dance. I put my car on cruise control and go to town. It goes great she tries to get logical and I continue being fun. I joke around saying that my brother got his girlfriend by consistently feeding her ruphies(roofies?? date rape drugs) and this hits a sore spot. She kinda says it's not funny and that she got ruphied before. I just completely ignore the statement and rethread. We talk about her trying other drugs. Great story, but then somehow it circled back to the ruphies. I called her on it and said how did that come back up she said that's what she was getting to the whole time. I did not engage the topic further and rethreaded again.

She has to go because the ride is waiting I chill back let her say bye to everyone. She say bye to me last and I put my arm inside her jacket to give her a hug. Long hold, and a smile. She leaves. Texts mark shortly after saying how hot I am, but she forgot my name. Haha we aren't the only ones that forget.

After this I see the mousey indian chick solo playing with her phone. I think she's done with beer pong so I open. She smiles so big and I mention how she has a huge smile. Her engagement is not good so I ask if she's playing beer pong. She says yes and I say well I'm not gonna hold your game up.

Mark is super drunk and I don't want him to drive. We bounce and head to Dive bar. On the streen I approach two Arabic girls and they immediately ignore me. I just stand there and continue to plow. The one to my right pretty much wont acknowledge me at all. Mark get's super pissed and yells "Fuck this let's go!" I stand my ground and keep plowing, goal is two minutes. Finally the one to my left says she is in a relationship and the other one is married. I say well I just came over and said hi not like I came over here with my dick out waving it around saying let's fuck. I tell them it's Mark's birthday and the girl on my left yells out happy birthday. We joke how I'm totally the type of guy to run around with my dick out. They start to leave so I walk away. I see an asian two set, open immediately. Mark and I try to bring them into Dive bar but they say they just left there and they are looking for food. We tlak to them and they think they are better than us for some time. They are Dr.s training to become surgeons. They talk shit about Sacramento and try to talk down to us. We remain unaffected and they are rocking like they're trying to leave. Mark says they are lying and they aren't doctors. They hotter asian freaks out and engages hard, why, how would he know. He plays her for a while holding a strong ass frame. I think he could have went for the makeout multiple times. We end up walking away and the hot one says bye bitches. We will run into her again, should be interesting.

It is a weird night in Dive Bar, live piano cover music and an older crowd then usual. There is a nice 4 set with 1 guy. Mark opens one of the girls and I just lean on the back bar. I linger for too long and don't approach the rest of the group. I got in my head and completely bombed. He comes back says his girl was boring and we leave.

Head to Layalina's text my promoter contact I spoke to last night at Mix. He acts like he doesn't remember. We get there and they have a "strict dress code" and trying to charge $10 so we leave, sucks cause it was packed full of horny 18+ girls. We drive around midtown for a bit looking for another venue. We see this place with 3 girls sitting outside called Level Up. I've never been before so we park and go inside. The girls are all lower than 4's wtf, fat and bugly. We still decide to go inside. It's like some underground hip-hop dance party. Semms chill, but we don't fit in at all. We go and sit down in some chairs. A weird ass chick approaches us, shes 32 and overweight. She starts to tell us she found out she has cancer on sunday, but telling this story with a huge smile. I say not with that smile and she tells me the whole story. She is trying to make the best of it which I thought about and I would do the exact same thing, probably even more extreme. She finally leaves because I was saying she's too old to have kids(cancer in her woman parts) she slightly takes offense and says I'm in the same boat. True, but I may never have kids.. We leave shortly after. Sorry no pics today, I need to get better about taking photos. The girfriends took a pic of my bro, his friend, and I so I'll try to get that one and post it.

What I learned:
Holding sexy eye contact dominatly creates loads of attraction. May even be possible to bring back a blown set with just eye contact and a smile eventually.
Pick up on sicial faux pas. When people do these ignore, rethread disengage. Same when they do things I like, engage more and reward.
Open all and don't linger.
Don't game sober when Mark is drinking. He does 10x better than usual when drunk and it gets me in my head from lack of perfomance.

 

[Tyme2k]

Re: Day 4 - 363 Day challenge FR: 2013 year of adventure

Day 5, 6 and 7 Fri - Sun February 8-10

First weekend since I started this challenge. It was entertaining, but I fucked up big time Basically I set up for sure sex and this made me pretty lax all weekend. At least some pretty entertaining shit happened, lets dive in it's gonna be a long one. (FB stands for Fuck buddy)

Day 5 - Fri. Feb. 8th

Work was fucked up, I made a huge mistake that could cost me my job, we will find out Monday. Long story short(cant really go detailed) some crazy bum came in tricked me and I arrested him even though he didn't steal. Crazy thing is I utilized things I've learned in game to beat him in a fist fight and make him back down and release all liability. Hopefully my company see's it this way. That same day I read a great story on RSD nation where basically a famer has bad shit happen and then good things follow. My life has consistently worked out this way, so I'm not extrememly worried.

Left worked super bummed and not sure I was gonna be able to game. I set up a for sure date at 12am with my FB. Guest listed at Splash. Showed up at 2230. It was super dead at first, but I began to open all. Not very many great sets at first. Some girls tried to have me take a picture which I keep getting a ton lately. My goto when this happens is, "I will if we makout." I wouldnt have madeout with any of these girl's, maybe with one if I was drunk, but still for the experience. None would do it and they asked the bartender.

Finally after blowing out the entire building there was one last set. A group of about 20 hot asian girls. Most of them were actually veeerrrry hot and my asian has been depersuaded lately lol. I decide to go in and ask, "Who's getting married?" they point to the bachelorette and I say,"where's your stripper?" they grab me ans say it's you! They literally start ripping my clothes off on the dance floor. I try to go with it the best I can and the main girl ripping my clothes off is really into me. A cockblock steps in and says,"let's see what you got" I show some moves and she puts her hand to her throat says, "No no!"

I REACT to this and fail the fuck outta her shit test by saying whhhhaaat with a confused face. I fucked everything and she starts pushing me outta the set. Even the girl that was into me cant beat her frame. I grab the one into me and pull her close,"that was fun regardless." I hang around for a bit in hopes to reopen the one into me, but she returns to the VIP area.

This is where I fucked my entire weekend. At 2345 I bounce and meet up with my FB. Take her back to my place and fuck her for 2 hours. I have kept this girl around since I first started game. She is a cold approach at the mall that went flawlessly. I said I liked her style and was completely congruent. She is one of the hottest chicks I've ever been with, but she is needy, young, and inexperienced. On the other had she is AMAZING in bed and does whatever the fuck I want. WHATEVER I want. More on our situation later.

Day 6 - Sat. Feb 8th

Wake up with FB in my bed. We fuck again for 1.5 hours. We get breakfast and coffee. Come back to the house and fuck for another hour. I take her home and plan to meet her again at 1am.. FUUUCCKKKK! Again I fuck myself and relax all day.

Play a few games of SC2 HOTS and bounce around 2130. I took 5 shots of vodka before walking the 8 blocks to Blue Cue. Get to blue cue and meet up with my wing Mark. Tonight is colr shirt night and red shirts mean single. This made it extrememly easy to talk to girls cause you already know they are single. This will help me in game overall cause I assumed no matter what I was the best man they will find. I open everything(place is fucking packed!) that has potential and come to a two set. I stop them kino open and say,"HI! Hows ur night going?" (My goto opener now thanks to Alex) It goes incredible and I run this set like a baus! I talk about how my friend is wearing green and that means he's a pervert. They love it then I say to the hot asian she should be wearing green cause I can tell she's a perv. She is confused then I say I saw the green Exit sign and thought of her. This blew the entire set. She got angry said she was done and leaving. I was completely non-reactive. I stood my ground and kept talking to the other one staying completely solid.

The asian walks away and I leave, since she was the target. Full sleeved tatoo's, super sexy, hottest chick in the bar.

I keep opening, hit up a white two set. One has amazing tits I stare right at them and open her," is that a jack and coke?" goes great intorduce Mark, we have really been working on our tag teaming. This guy is great. She says she likes his shirt and he says,"I like your tits" Goes well we eject eventually. Mark ends up gaming some hot chick and I'm akwardly left out so I mosey.

I see the hot asian by herself looking lost. I approach with AMAZING eye contact. The eye contact I learned could potentially save a lost set. And OMG was I right. I open her staring dead in her eyes and a sexy smile,"Hi" we banter back and forth and eventually she is telling me she really likes me. She is gald we are talking again and she apologizes and explains herself. She also says how what I did was impressive, standing there unaffected with my eye contact. Eventually this will be my main goto and strong suit, my eyes will pierce the souls of people around me. Diving deeply into who they really are. I number pull since I already have for sure sex. This is huge as I could have pulled her... I hate the outcome here and should have flaked on my FB. I made excuses since I knew my performance would be lacking since I had sex 3 times in less than 24 hours.

Mark and I decide to bounce to Old Sac since there is a Mardi Gras going on. We get there it's dead as shit and end up recapping til about 0100. I bounce to pick up my FB. We fuck for about 1 hour, but I'm tired and crash before finishing.

Day 7 - Sun. Feb 9th

Wake up with my FB at about 1300. We fuck for about 1 hour, my dick is getting tired and wont stay as hard as it usually does. I'm guessing there's multiple reasons for this. Too much sex and I'm beginning to be less attracted to her and sex is getting boring. One thing I know about myself is I do not stay attracted to a girl for long periods of time. Eventually I lose attraction and want to move on.

We make breakfast and hang out for a bit. We end up making out and she starts getting horny as hell. We fuck again for another hour. She needs to go hom and study so we decide to stop. We lay together and get horny again so we fuck agian for about 30 mins. She finishes me and I take her home.

Right now I feel the first impact of this challenge on my life. I'm so tired and just want to go hom, eat, play some matches and pass out. NO! I go to the mall and daygame. I enter at 1830 and my day game is way out of practice. I dont open for a few mins, just wander and fix my hair in the bathroom. I run into someone I know which jumpstarts my social lingo. After I decide I needc some blowouts to bring me into state. I puposely get blown out about 3 times then start approaching hard. Nothing pans out until I see this amazing girl on the phone. I stop her and tell her to get off the phone, to tell whoever she's talking to that she just met the most amazing guy ever. It goes well, but my eyes are dry and this makes me blink alot while I try to hold my eye contact. I hold it but it's not as stong as usual. She's in a hurry and I try to make her stay, no go. I will see this girl again since she works at the mall. I think Victoria Secret based on her outfit. I can guarantee she will not forget me, I was in state and my eyecontact was better than 90% of the entire population.

I head outside and open everything in may path. State is the greatest feeling, I wish it was easier to explain and to get into. It's truly about not giving a fuck and becoming who you are. I open a nice hispanic two set, but I create tension about agae. They are only 18, but one of them is super hot, I should have number closed, but I don't.

Head home cook some chicken parmesan and spaghetti. Tomorrow I will probably find out what happens at work.. Until next time.

What I learned:
Setting up a for sure lay before going out is suicide to my improvement
I need to cut off girls much sooner and not get attached
Eye contact and body language CAN bring back a set. More field testing on this to come, very exiting!
Must remain unreactive to shit tests! I bombed a great set due to over reacting
Pull the number regardless, if for anything, experience.

 

[Tyme2k]

Re: Day 4 - 363 Day challenge FR: 2013 year of adventure

Day 8 - Mon. Feb. 11th 2013

Left work, chipotle, couple games of SC2 HOTS. Tonight is Dive Bar. Event was something with tricycles and plungers. More on that later.

I enter dive bar solo around 2200. Omg it's super dead. I hit the restroom came out and saw two girls. Opened one was extremely standoffish. Dive Bar on Monday's is industry night, so these girls have super high sheilds. I plow anyway and game both for a while. There is no one in the place so I had to talk to someone. The talkative one is about a 6 and the other is a 7 but she will not engage at all. I leave and stand solo for a while observing about 3 couples and a few random dudes. I see two more girls, they work there and are mermaids. I open and they are super standoffish also. I'm not in state, but the best thing for me is to get blown out so I plow and plow.

I stand around for a while still and go outside to talk to the door man. He is a cool guy whom I was introduced to from a couple other guys. I actually brought him a token of my gratitude today and was trying to give it to him without being akward. Some random dude enters our convo. This guy was very weird, but he did not give a fuck. The door guy saw an out and bounced, left me standing there talking to the weird guy. I see two girls and leave him immediately open. It goes well I tease them for smoking we talk about Vegas. Creepy guy comes back and joins the set. He's starting to grow on me a bit cause he's super friendly smoking weed and he offers some to the girls. I don't smoke so I decline. One thing I know is he's super gay, so I'm trying to pay attention but not enough to where he thinks I'm interested. I'm on a mission and this guy could blow a set any second for me.

We all go inside as a group, but I disperse immediately. I reopen the two girls at the bar from earlier and tell them my issue with my FB. The talkative one keeps engaging but the other one is super cold. I eject.

3 girls come in, two are so hot, hottest in the bar for sure. I open immediately and run this set. I'm in state now and totally own this. I ignore the hottest one for a while, her friend says she's a model, i just say hm. All 3 of these girls are single which is crazy. The hottest one starts engaging me so I talk to her about my FB. I kinda want to try to friend zone these girls cause if I can bring them to the clubs with me, it's instant social proof. The are real fun to chill with too. I end up leaving set and hitting on some white chick. She is into me hardcore, but she is overweight. She even says,"what's working out?" and boy can I tell. I could have pulled this chick tonight, but I have standards. She also works for the owners of Dive Bar, so she knows way too many people. I cant fuck the social piece up at these venues since my goals involve them.

I go back to the 3 hotties and find 3 chodes gaming them. I observe for a bit and one of them is pushing super hard on the hot one. His friend starts making out with the ugliest. Now the middle one is stuck alone. I open and game her really good. We hit it off she shows me her full body tatoo. OMG I wanted to fuck right there. At the end of it I number close and try to set up day 2 tomorrow, but I fucked up. She says I can have her number and I say, I'll just give you mine. I really am tired of taking numbers nowadays. Shit goes cold sooo fucking fast it's annoying. If a girl is interested they will text me right?

I give her my number say text me your name so I don't forget. I give her a hug and head out. I talk to the door man give him the gift I brought and bounce. Outside I open two more sets that don't go anywhere. Finish the lonely walk home.

Things I learned:
Move faster when they are interested
Make sure the number exchange is an exchange. Don't just throw my number at them and expect something to happen without extreme social proof or super high levels of attraction.
I need to run sets the direction I want always.
Don't forget gum cause I get self concious about my breath.

After thought:
Hopefully I get a text from the hottie in the 3 set. She is really cute would definitely be fun. If not I will run into her again and next time I will not leave room for wonder. Hopefully my social proof will be immense and I will isolate and escalate. Pic of her jacking off a plunger. They were giving away $50 for whoever could remove the most paint. The one holding the I phone is the hottest of the 3 set.
http://i45.tinypic.com/9i5t8n.jpg

 

[Tyme2k]

Re: Day 4 - 363 Day challenge FR: 2013 year of adventure

Day 9 - Tues. Feb. 12th 2013

Off work today, lounged around the house.

Met with Mark and did day game at Roseville Galleria. This is probably one of my favorite spots in Sac to day game. I open tons of sets, mainly blowouts. THere were 3 that stood out.

First a girl working at a Proactive kiosk. Petite italian chick. I open and banter for about 5 mins. I ask her what her and her BF had planned for Vday. She said they did it yesterday and told me some huge story why they aren't together on Vday. She got a customer I left.

Next was a skinny blonde girl I opened indirect, but very powerful. Stopped her so well she thought it was a joke and someone was going to jump out and say something like candid camera. I teased and then went serious saying that's not gonna happen. I gave her my number, which was probably a waste of time, we will see. She's single and I don't think anyone has approached her the way I did. If she is interested though I'm sure she will text.

Last was a girl working in a store, I see her from outside and approach saying, "I saw you from out there and wanted to come say Hi" It goes great she's bored and single. She has a nice body, but some bug eyes, gross. I still game and tell her we should be friends and hang out in midtown. I need to make some cute girlfriends cause right now I have none in my social circle. Mark and I try to talk her into going to Chipotle with us, but she had it the night prior and declines. I give her my number and bounce.

Things I learned:
Stop leaving the good sets early. Screen for logistics during the interaction and go for the instant date and move the girl.
Upon opening focus on stopping the girl.
Need to integrate chase framing and sexual intentions.

 

[Tyme2k]

Day 10 - Wed. Feb 14th 2013

Worked, didn't get fired, almost was looking forward to unemployment and the free time to work on my business ventures. I guess I'll just have to do it the hard way.

Went with James to the Mix. We get there at about 11, this guy is really fun to go out with in the sense he knows everyone. I'm not drinking. We go in and we just shoot the shit for a while. I try to break off and game a few times only opening warm up sets and never taking it to the next step. I can see improvement in my social skills so I'm running the sets I get in. James and I hang out for a bit and talk about my business model. He has extreme knowledge in this area, and is willing to help initially.

The 3 set from Dive bar on Monday comes in. Tonight they look all dressed up and the gorgeous one looks even more amazing. I tap the one I gamed (tattoo girl) on the opposite side of her shoulder trying to get her to turn the other way. She doesn't and looks straight at me. All I say is that shes good and walk off. These girls look so amazing. The one I gamed is wearing a dress that pushes her tits into my face. She has sleek looking tan skin, not sure if she's arabic or something. It would be fun to get insanely sexual with this girl, but I know she will try to use me and milk it. I have plans of friendzoning this crew and hopefully bringing them to my circle. If I can bring them and many other girls like this with me, my game will skyrocket and my promoting will be on higher level then most in Sac.

I end up reopening,

me -"you guys look all dressed up tonight."
tatoo girl - "yeah cause it's a club."
me - "I know right, I'm dressed for the bar huh."

I wore my normal clothes, when James is there I don't need to be in dress code. and we get to cut, VIP style it's awesome. This is the status I want on my own and always. One thing girls don't realize if a guy is not in dress code, that means he knows high level people at the club.

The hot one starts up a convo asking me if I planned my Vday date yet. They have a new friend who is cute who really starts engaging. I should have isolated her, but I was not feeling up to it. I tell them I don't want to talk about it and eject after a minute.

We decide to walk to Dive bar and see how busy it is on a Wed. It's dead as shit. Just shows how shitty Sacramento is. We take off and just keep talking about my ways to get in the night scene. I want to really run this shit in Sac, but starting from scratch is not the easiest thing to do. Eventually I hope to make a name and brand for myself and take it to a big city like LA, SF, Miami, NY, or Vegas.

Things I learned:
Even though I'm not in state, I still need to push my comfort zone.
I need to start networking and get better at engaging new people I don't know that work in the industry.
I still need more reference points in all aspects of socializing. I wish I had more places to practice that wouldn't influence my future so much. Sacramento is so small, and everyone knows everyone. If I field test and blow up things I shouldn't I could potentially burn bridges, but if I don't push the envelope I will only remain metiocre not accomplishing my goals.

 

[Tyme2k]

Day 11 - Thurs. Feb. 14th 2013 - Valentines Day

Work leave work straight to Arden mall. I only have 1.5 hours before I have to pick up my FB for Vday. She desperately wants to be my gf... Man this sucks. I go in it's actually super busy everywhere around the mall. There's not many sets to open at first and I start out slow.

This is definitely a sticking point for me as I should and want to be starting stronger. I need to remember that I get in state after getting blown out. Dilema is that when I see an ok girl, like a 7, my ego gets involved and I don't want to be blown out so early by a 7. One thing I know though is getting blown out only fuels my state, I think it's hilarious and go on to the next way stronger. Usually if I see a 9 I will approach without hesitation, since these opportunities are pretty rare in my city.

One girl is coming right towards me and I stop her, cute young petite Arabic girl with a great smile and tits. I ask her openly, "Are you single?" She looks around and I tease her like she's looking for an answer. She explains she is talking to someone and they are going on a date after she gets out of class. I let her go and notice she was on the phone the whole time. Eye contact and demands are a powerful thing.

I open a girl working in the front of Abercrombie petite hispanic girl not a penny over 110 lbs, damn why are these girls always so cute! I walk straight in and start talking. It goes really well and she ends up telling me she's 17! Fuck me! I may talk to her again one day and find out when she's 18.

I open an asian walking towards me, but I notice her a bit late. I say,"damn girl you have a sexy ass walk!" Eye contact and I slightly put my arm to stop her. She keeps walking and rolls her eyes. WOOO! blowout. I forget how much I love blowouts until they happen.

There's not much to open, and actually quite a few ghetto people wandering around. One black chick was walking with her baby and single, weird way to get hit on I think. She actually was pretty cute, except 19 with a kid.

Last set I open is two girls one is light skin black, tall and pretty sexy. Her friend is short out of shape hispanic girl thats only 16. I banter with them for a while, but dont number close the 19 yr old black girl. They both said their bf's went outta town, but would have been good to make this girl a regular at the 18+ clubs I promote for. After talking with James on Wed. I really need to make this a habit and improve my social circle and hirability for the best clubs in town. I'm going to finish my business card on Saturday and print them as soon as I get my domain.

Met my FB, went to dinner, showed her why I'm so awesome. I feel bad because it will be a long while before this girl ever finds a dude like me. She will probably become super slutty in search of him. Took her to my place and fucked for 2 hours. Hung out after watching youtube videos, Harlem shakes and Smosh, wooo! I don't like Smosh, but youtube money is definitely an interest to me. Funny how easy they made so much money, "SHUT UP!"

What I learned:
Gotta get those blowouts and find warm up sets early, jump start my state.
Single girls on Valentines Day are extremely desperate, they converge and take each other out to fuel each other's misery. Next year I will go out solo and try to pull.
Number close with "friend frame" when they have a BF if they are hot, this way I can bring them into social circle if they are high value.

 

[Tyme2k]

Day 12 - Fri. Feb. 16 2013

Work, boss pretty much told me I'm transfering, I really want to get out of my career. Gonna really push the promoting at least so I feel like all my time is not spent at my day job.

So much fun tonight though, insane amounts of learning and progressing towards my goals. My mind is on fire right now because the powerful reference points.

Went to old Roseville with Mark and James, mainly chilled in a bar called chakedera? This place is small but has a DJ and tons of hot chicks. I immediately start opening to get momentum. Open a few groups, get blown out by some cock block. Two chicks were really into me in this set and she comes in talking"Girl's night Girl's night." I saw I grew tits today so its cool. Then she says well you dont have blonde hair and blue eyes, but her friend was brunette, so I say neither does she so I'll take her then. I grab her friend and gesture like I'm leaving. This doesn't stop her so I keep plowing she's saying bye bye and I keep plowing. Eventually I walk away.

Some song says "I feel like money" and I see this ghetto mixed girl sing along so I open with so do you feel like money? She says "Yeah so buy me a drink." I stop her like woohhhh, she complains about how she had to buy her own drinks. I think my goto line will be I don't know you well enough to buy you a drink, let's go sit over here and find out why I should consider it. Lead, kino etc. I just tease the fuck outta her, keep asking her why and what she offers. She says something about how she's hot. I run this interaction though and I plan to burn it to the ground. Reference points for the win. I ask her where she's from and she shows me an oakland tatoo. I say I used to work there and hated it. I ask her what she has going for her more than looks. She says she's smart, i laugh. I say smart with what. She says nursing. Wtf?? I say wow so that means ur smart with what colors of scrubs to wear. I couldn't think of anything to tease her about it, because you cant be smart in "nursing." Then I say smart with the thing that goes around ur arm, she's like blood pressure? I walk away. See these girls throughout the night but never open again.

I wait to open the hottest girl in the bar, I finally do. She is in a 3 set and Mark is being a bitch. I open solo and sort of stumble. I knew this would happen cause she was intimidating hot. I just keep going, but eventually it was like brain overload. So i go to catch my bearings. large sets do this to me, I just need more experience with them. I reopen them two more times trying to leave on a high note. I have Mark and James go in, but they blow the set after one of the girl's asks if Mark is going to buy them a drink. We are about to bounce to Onyx, so I open one last time and tell the girl I would hate myself for not talking to her one more time(four times rule). I could sense it was blowing, but I was dedicated to burn it down. I keep plowing, ask if she's single, but nope not single. I still keep going, but she engages less and less. Too bad.

We go to Onyx. Cover there, but bouncer says we look chill, let's us in for free. Maybe he sensed state+chill vibes?

This is where I feel my momentum and coming into sober state. A girl comes up to sell shots:
Me "they are already getting shots at the bar... I'm driving, but if they're free I'll take one."
Her "No, they're 4 dollars, but you get a pen."
Me "A pin or a pen"
Her "Pen" points to the pens another girl is carrying.
Me "Haha what am I going to do with a pen? Write down your phone number."
Her "I don't have a phone."
Me "That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard"
Her "No really, I'm a single mother trying to make ends meet."
Me "Oh i see, did you and your daughter spend valentines day together?"
Her "yes"
Me "That's the sweetest thing I ever heard."

This whole time I remained a super chill vibe, I don't think I needed to say my last compliment, but right after I ejected. She was a working girl and I had a feeling she was bullshitting to get a pity purchase from me. Maybe not, but single mother without a phone, not my type anyway.

We go outside and shoot the shit with another working girl, try to get Mark in state. He's mad cause he talks to hotter girls now and doesn't understand you have to warm up on mediocre.

Back inside I notice a two set getting hit on. One dude blows out this cute chinese girl. I go in and wing for the other guy. I fucking nail this interaction, pretty flawlessly. I number close like a BOSS and let her leave with the friend like a chode. We end up leaving back to Chocadera.

Back in Chocadera I open more, but there isn't many new girls. I reopen some, but nothing hooks. Here's my favorite part of the night. I see the Chinese girl from Onyx and she is hardcore grinding and making out with a random. FUCK THAT COULD HAVE BEEN ME! I got her all warmed up and this guy gets the rewards. I stand around watching the interaction for a bit. I decide to go in and steal her. I walk up tap her and she says ohh hey and I hand of god. She takes it and i pull her in start dancing. This girl starts grinding on me good, I can tell she wants to get fucked. I'm not relaxed and thinking about the other dude. My dancing sucks shit, and I cant get a boner. Fuck me.

I dance with her for a minute and really enjoy myself though. She is grinding my dick hard and I'm about to spin her then makout. The whole time I keep thinking about how she was just making out with the other dude. I don't care if girls do this, but watching it then getting sloppy seconds on only a cute girl not like a stunner. It just wasn't that appealing. Eventually I was being lame for too long, dude noticed and pulled her away quick. I should have moved her and kept her RAS on me. It was really amazing how easy this was. I should've capitalized, but bitched out.

We go on the street, I open a few accidently grab a short girls big tits with a claw. Open a super tall chick and she threatened to hit me. We bounce after watching a couple fights.

What I learned:
I need to stop giving super hot girls validation. I am higher value than them, so they must truly deserve it to receive it.
Move a girl before someone else does, cockblock, another guy..
I can take someone back with eye contact and simple hand gesture. Amazing.
Once I secure a girl's attention, move her, move her, move her. Get that compliance and escalate.

 

[Tyme2k]

Day 13 - Sat. Feb. 16 2013
Off work today, did some family stuff in Elk Grove headed back to Midtown to get ready for The Park.

I don't think I've done an FR in this club before, but it's one of my favorite clubs lounge especially since I know quite a few people that work there. I walk there and open a couple streets sets to get in a social mood. Mark and I walk up straight past the line, shoot the shit with one of the bouncers for a minute. Then I cut in front of EVERYONE, gotta love that VIP treatment. I still sort of hesitate if the bouncers will let me, but they are good peeps and don't even trip. Eventually with my promoting this will happen even more effortlessly, at the same time I'm surrounding myself with beautiful women.

I'm super tired tonight, no caffeine, work tomorrow at 10 am. It takes a while to get warmed up. I'm mainly just choding around with Mark, but staying chill. I see a girl smoking and sit next to her and camly open with "Hi." She is giggly and flirty. Her friend comes in and i stop them from talking eye contact to the friend "HI!" With more autority. She likes this and engages me first. Now i have both these girls attention and they start craving mine. They start touching me and I just lean back and enjoy it. I feel like I'm a pimp right now and not really having to say much, I thow in a few witty comments here and there, but nothing spectacular. I fucked up because I did not lead the interaction further and gain compliance. They end up leaving to go dance. It was on a high note and I plan to open them later.

I wander opening a 5 set and these girls are super cold, not giving me much. They are from a small town south of Sac so I tease them. I end up seeing a much more attractive 3 set and jump right to them. Calmy again staying congruent,"Hi." At first the first girl is trying to blow me off. I just stay there and plow, well lookie that bitch shield go down. Now she is telling me I look like a model and I'm teasing her for lying about being from Sac. Her friend is suuppeeerrr hot and really dressed sexy as hell. I try to engage her more and we are talking. The third friend obstacle, tries to pull them away. NOPE I grab her and say HI, this time with authority, like you're not taking them yet! I try to hold the set, but I'm pretty sure they just got there and said they were going to the bar. I never saw them again. What a shame.

Reopend the two from earlier and now they are super drunk. This time I bring Mark in right away and he does really well. This puts him in a good mood which is great cause he's usually very negative about going into set. It's bad because he's basing how well hes doing on reaction, instead of following the process. We let them go to the dance floor after about 10 minutes of banter. Mine was way to drunk to hold like she had insane ADD. Open them one more time later, but no go.

Its 1 am now we take a lap and there's lots of dudes. Walk home talk about how my FB is trying to hook him up with her dumb friend. They were trying to find me all night, but I wasn't responding. My FB's friend kept texting Mark asking where I was hahaha! Gotta love it.

What I learned:
I love being chill and tired. Sets go smoother and I'm more focused then with high energy sets.
I need to move girls, and escalate, this is definitely my sticking point in the clubs.
Before girls decide to leave I need to move them and keep their RAS focused on me.

 

[Tyme2k]

Recently I got tired of getting girls number's, because when I do they don't go anywhere. About 3 weeks ago I started Distant Lights strategy and would give girls my number. I did this for two weeks and didn't get any texts back. Sucks, so I started pulling numbers again from the last two girls and no response. The whole reason I started his strategy in the first place.

Right now I got my first text from a girl I gave my number to:

Her - Hey you!! Do you remember me?! This is (Name)

I have no clue who this girl is HAHA, but I will post some updates later after I text her back. Distant Light knows his shit, fucking awesome!

 

[Tyme2k]

Come to find out it's not a new girl, got excited for nothing, that's gay.

I met this girl at Dive Bar, pulled her out of the bar in the rain, made out with her and almost fucked her doggy style in a parking garage. She was cute in the face, but way to thick for my taste. I told her to suck my dick and she said "I can't" I tried pushing for it, but no go. I told her that if we fucked here it wouldnt be good sex, so let's go back to my place. We made out passionately in the rain, and don't get me wrong it was incredibly fun and was great for a learning experience, but I am after 9s and 10s. Took her back to the bar and pretty much made her leave with her friend. Kept gaming that night, but there was only about 20 minutes left til last call.


Note to self:
Don't delete numbers of girls I don't want to talk to anymore save them as ignore or some code word!!

 

[Tyme2k]

Day 14 - Sun. Feb. 17th 2013

What an incredible night for development. I started reading mountaineers FR thread. Gave me some more ideas of shit to test in the field. I love how he passes all the shit tests, and goes for the makeout all the time. Tonight I started trying some of his things, only I fucked up... I took 4 shots of vodka tonight, gay I know. It definitely set me back a few notches because I couldn't ever hit that true sober state feeling. Don't get me wrong, I was in state, but it wasn't that incredible high of uncontrollable icyness that you get when your sober.

Work. Leave work at 1830, go to Target, only one potential set, but shes atleast 26 and has a gross ass. I don't open, but should have for practice. Go to 19th street Safeway, this place is one of the best places for daygame in midtown. Not many sets, I see a couple potentials and don't say anything. I get mad and like Mountaineer I feel the fury. Finally I see a girl open indirect as I do these days. Hi, how's your day going. We talk for about 10 minutes and I get less and less attracted. She works in a small retail shop and has no plans for the future. Ugh, not even FB material. I eject.

James texts me at 2200, I'm in the middle of an SC2 game, bullshit game 2v2 two Terran vs two Zerg goes on forever. I will be cutting this out of my life soon after the beta is over. Sad cause it's a nice release, but it's inhibiting my progress in life. James texts at 2230 "where u at?" Fuck I'm not even ready, throw on a shirt and shoes take two shots and run to Mix!

I get there Holy shit there's a line, WOW! It's to the fucking corner and it's Sunday, it is a holiday tomorrow so understandable but DAMN! Run up to the front and get the VIP treatment ooooohhhhh yeah! This is where I want my night life status. I go inside and this place is around 80% capacity already! I am in awe and try to take it all in. I buy James a drink for waiting for me, it's 3 dollar you call its double shots of anything for only $6. I saw wooooow wtf and get him two doubles and one double for me. I wander and start opening sets.

Blown set after blown set, but it fuels my state! I feel a problem inside of mysefl though, the alcohol is helping me open, but its inhibiting me in every other way. I'm not as fluid, my euphoric feeling is weak. I don't drink anymore and try to sober up. Thoughout the night I can still feel the alcohol creep up in my balance. I stay focused and plow.

First good set, early in the night still. I open a slim brunette hb8. Claw her to me and get super sexual right off the bat. She is toying with my lips hovering around them trying to get me to go in for the makeout. I hesitate for some reason, in my head I'm thinking it's a test to see if I can resist, but later I really regretted. I should have attempted and stayed icy if she denied. She finally ends up leaving because I didn't escalate. I see her two more times once I say shes following me and tease her, more claw. Then next time she finds her chodey friend and is pulling him around.

Next set some girl HB9 I've seen before, she sort of recognizes me I think and shit tests me over and over, "Bye," "My night was good til you came," "you're annoying me." I just plow and vomit like Mountaineer says haha. Finally I break her bitch shield but she says shes leaving I claw her and say 2 minutes but she says I'll see her later. I just say nope. I do see her later she says I told you. This time I'm super sexual, sexy eye contact. She starts licking her lips, I call her on it by saying she keeps doing that with her toungue I'm going to do something with it. Strike one. Then I say she is afriad to fall in love with me, she tells her friend, but I interject and tell her for her. Strike two! I keep getting close to her lips hesitating for the makeout, don't go for it. Strike three she bounces FUCK! Should have used the lip licking to sexually chase frame her ie,"You need to stop trying to seduce me by licking your lips, it's making me uncomfortable." Definitely not bring up the love shit. I will see this girl again and next time it's on! If anything I'll bring her into my circle for promoting.

Now the place is at 100% or really close. There is more girls than any other club I've ever seen in Sac. It is really like a playground and I don't know who to open. I'm screening visually for girls that fit the criteria, hot and horny. I see one brunette hb8 with sexual vibes oozing out through her vibe. I claw her in start dance talking, which is how I've been interacting at the club lately. I sort of sway and move fluidly while conversing. This keeps my body acting sexual and the girl has a lot to focus on in our conversation. It's on immediately. One of the first things she says is look at all the people making out. I go for makout. No go. I'm unreactive and she says that happens a lot. I explain that she has sexual vibe and people sense it. We talk about how sexual we are and I tell her thats perfectly normal and start framing sex and wanting to have sex as no big deal. She agrees. I'm bout to go in again for the makeout and bam fat friend cock block yanks her arm. I try to stop her in her face, Hi! how are you. My frame is strong right now, I'm in state. I stop her about 3 times but she gets between us. I try to socially convince her that her friend must meet me if she was a good wing girl. I say she looks like an awesome one and needs to let her friend stay. She does listen, but she is one of those I hate myself and the men in my life, so my friends should too. She drags her off and I never see her again.

And on to the biggest blowout of the night. I approach 3 older indian girls just staying fluid and opening. They are extremely non receptive. I just plow and plow. This set is great for me because I get literally a fuck off not once but multiple times. My voice is booming and the girl complains I'm yelling. I fuck with them about being anti social in a social environment. Finally she threatens security and I explain how I know all the security and good luck. I finally eject.

My virst value state stealing vampire. Some blonde HB6 I open and she hooks easy. She does not want me to leave and keeps sucking my value. It doesn't go anywhere she wont move with me even 5 feet. I finally see a window and run away after wasting 20+ minutes.

Last set of the night. Finally I'm sober, but I still feel a little residual. Sucks, I don't like alcohol while gaming anymore. Still I approach a two set one girl HB8 and her sober petite HB7 is hating guys because one of the workers is trying to take her on a date even though he has a girlfriend. She says that this always happens. I give her a simple dumbed down explination of preselection and how it makes him more attractive. The sober driver friend gets it and she hooks easy. She invites me to chill with her and find her sister. We hunt and I get to know her in the process. We find the sister and she feels my state. She loves me off the bat and I run this group of 4 girls. I number close the sober one and text her to get home safe. She texts me twice and I don't respond like a guy with abundance. The needy me would have jumped at the opportunity.

What I learned:
Alcohol holds me back from hitting high levels of state. It makes it easier to open, but it's easier to have state crashes and break cycle.
Don't let value sucking bitches steal my energy. Move on quickly if this is spotted. Try to move her if non compliant try once more and leave.
When the makeout window is ther TAKE IT! Hesitation = lose the girl!

 

[Tyme2k]

Just got off work, mmmm chipotle wanted to throw up some text game that I have been working on for a while now and some theory behind it. Maybe it can help people set those day 2's when they get decent number pulls.

This is the convo today between sober petite HB7 from last night:

Me 2:17a: Hey! Get home safe - Tyler
Her 2:40a: Lol safe to my sisters..... Not too sure how me an (friend) are getting home
Her 2:59a: Taxi!

Today
Me 2:46p: Are u always that adventurous?
Her 3:27p: Lol, I try to be...... It's more funner that way
Her 3:35p: How was the rest of yur night
Me 4:52p: Good, boring girls suck.. what's ur schedule like this week?
Her 5:01p: Haha, I agree...boring people do suck! ;P I work M-F usually get off work around 3:30-4ish....
Her 5:01p: Wut about u
Me 5:31p: What u doin tonight? I'm gonna get some chipotle at 7-730, come meet me
Her 5:37p: I'm actually heading to (home town) in a bit, but wut about tomorrow or Wednesday....?
Me 6:05p: Wed. works lets meet at 6
Her 6:18p: Sounds like a plan

I will break down my thought here. Last night I wanted to text her my name while I was still fresh in her memory. This is a MUST, usually I will try to use some sort of call back, but in this case I went with get home safe, since they weren't sure exactly how they were getting home.

She texts me trying to get me to invest, but I needed to sleep, I don't respond. I'm important and not needy, I don't need to talk to her tonight. Next day I'm busy at work, so I finally get a moment to text her back. I throw out a simple screen and build rapport with, "Are you always that adventurous?" I am definitely testing her here because of course I like adventurous girls. Now here's where I know it's on. She answers then tries to get me to invest. One thing that's key right here is giving time between her texts so she can send another one. if you notice there was a 7 minute gap between her answer and the request for investment. If I would have jumped right away to text her back I would have lost my suspense feeling and seemed needy. I was busy so it took me a while to respond.

My response here is key. I don't answer her question at all. I am not ready to invest yet and only really use text for setting a meet. I qualify her with good, and tell her boring girls suck. I completely ignore the question and ask her her schedule. Her answer is completely what I expected, sometimes the answer is not what we expect, but now I clearly have her investing. She gives me her entire week schedule right away then asks how about me. I don't answer her request again because I'm in control of the convo. I usually wouldn't throw out tonight last minute as she would most likely be busy, but in this instance I was already going to Chipotle and who doesn't like Chipotle? It would be nice if a cutie joined haha. I did fuck up in my text and made it too long, I was in a hurry.. a better shorter version would be: "What u up to tonight? Getting Chipotle at 730, come meet me " I'm just being critical here, but "I'm gonna get some" is too much work. Going for mastery here right?

Her response here was better than I expected since she threw out not one but two more options which are both very soon. We all know attraction expires so this was awesome. I say Wed. since I'll be free before going out. I don't say a place yet since I'm not sure and need to know some more logistics, does she drive, should we meet close to my place or in the middle. What exactly we should do etc. I'm thinking shoot pool at a bar 2 blocks from me.. We will see. We only live about 20 blocks apart so really it doesnt matter where we go. I'll post an update tomorrow or wed.

A few things to think about when texting:
Who's typing more? Try to type less and get what you need across with little effort. Something I learned from my natural friend.
Don't answer every question outright, this kills suspense and attraction
Keep enough time between texts, for example I was texting a girl and waited 2 extra minutes to send my text. I waited and boom she texts me, I totally shifted the entire interaction in my favor, which if I sent my text I may have choded about and became the chaser.

Going to Dive bar solo in a bit. Gonna work on my social circle try to get some pimp homies and some cute girls.

 

[Tyme2k]

Day 15 - Mon. Feb. 18 2013

FUUUUUCCCKKKKK! That's what I have to say for tonight. Went to Dive Bar, two near pulls, 2 makouts, and burned everything to the motherfucking ground! I really hope tonight doesn't impact my image at all... We will see.

Head into Dive Bar, door man isn't outside, so I don't get a warm up. I get inside see him, but just a handshake. I chode it up and go straight to the bathroom. Come out and stare at the bar. Theres a two set with a blonde HB8 and a brunette HB9. I stand there wondering wtf I'm gonna do and start thinking about a drink. I feel a rage burning and I get angry at myself for not opening, force myself to get it going. Open goes great with the HB9 and omg she's hot. I've never been with a girl this hot. It's not affecting my game, and I stay super chill. It's going flawless until she introduces me to her friends. After this I don't know what to do. I just kinda stand there and lose my momentum. I order a drink and start opening more. I see the chick I gamed last monday here. She never text'd me, but I open her outright. I tell her we need to be friends since we keep running into each other. I tease her about last week jacking off the plunger bla bla. She is giving me this rude attitude who knows why and really who cares?

I see a bouncer I know from a club, and he suggests I meet one of the new managers. I do and we shoot the shit for at least 10 minutes. This guy is awesome, tall, handsome, sounds just like Justin Timberlake lol. This is the type of guy I need in my social circle. We talk and I have to go back and open. I do go back to the brunette HB9 re open. She asks if I can take a pic, fucking 2nd time I've been asked tonight. I say yeah if she will make out with me, point to HB9. We laugh about it I take the pic, BAM! she grabs my head makeout. I stay super chill after like it didn't even happen. Problem was her chodey guy friend starts runnin his mouth about how I can have her bla bla. I just stay chill and unreactive. I try to keep gaming her, but it's so hard to keep her focused. Logistics are impossible because all three of them(her cousin and the chode) are staying in the same hotel room. Sadly I eject.

I keep reopening brunette HB8 from last week just talking, but she is super rude trying to kill my state. Next time I'm going to call her a vampire, sucking the life out of people around her. Maybe I can get her to relax and be more chill around me, stop being so bitchy. She kinda fucked up her entry to one of the top clubs in town tonight, cause the bouncer that was gaming them got blown out. We will see how that works out. I on the other hand only built more connects. Hopefully a solid one I can bring into social circle.

Two hot chicks come in, one with an amazing body and the other one fake boobs. I see them by the door and it looks like they flip me off. I open strong. They ask to take a picture, wtf! No i wont take your pic! I tell them same thing I tell all the girls, If you make out with me. They laugh and one asks how many makouts I get by saying that. I say well actually quite a few. I reopen these girls the entire night. I really want to try and pull the one asking all the questions, but I never move her or escalate. I needed to be super physical with her so she knew it was on. Problem is it's INDUSTRY night so these chicks are used to being gamed. I have to play it super chill and not give a fuck.

I see the HB9 making out hardcore with her chodey friend. Guess I got her warmed up. If they already weren't staying in the same hotel room I would have tried to steal her.

Game other groups, but I think they are watching me work the bar, so they just ignore me. Or maybe I was getting lazy with shit tests idk. I go back to the bar and open an older two set. One of these women is so into my vibe. She can sense my IDGAF attitude and that I am super sexual. Conversation with all three of us goes super sexual. I start framing that this should be completely acceptable in society. They both agree. I know it's on with the hot one. This woman at one time was definitely an HB9 today I would say she must have a kid, and she has fake tits. She is a 7 now. I'm sure some people would disagree with me, but I don't like older women, she is hot, but I like them young.

I vibe with her and we start dancing to some dubstep. I'm thinking of my main sticking point right now. Some dude wings inadvertantly so I move my HB7 towards the door. She throws all objections out. I cant leave my friend, where are we going. I say an adventure and take her by the hands. I baby step towards the door working our way out. I grind a bit and move again. I say let's go outside, I'm hot. Boom! outside i keep pulling her down the street looking for a place to escalate to sex. The parking garage I went to is too far since she's in heels FUCK! I just stop her right there and makeout. We do this a few more times and I keep pulling her further away. Everytime she starts to get worked up I say stop here lean against the wall and makeout. I'm looking for an escalation spot and nothing, fuck. I say hey lets go back now find your friend. I still stop 3 more times on the way back. I start saying she wont remember, she qualifies says she will. I number close and take her inside. I tell her I will be back, but I don't come back. I just open different sets and watch her leave. I text her about 20 mins later same as my text last night "Hey! Get home safe - Tyler" She texts back of course!

Theres this chick standing by lot's of older men. I open her and it's on right away. I'm insanely in state, but she keeps her distance. It's all one big shit test. I pass it and eject the set. I go back to my home base kinda the two hotties that were very friendly. I'm dancing and trying to vide. The hotter one keeps touching me and leaning in hard. I just chill and lean even tho she tries to pull me in. I fucked up though because I didn't reward this behavior. I ultimately blew the set because I was too "Icy" Fuck oh well. Now the girl from the bar opens me. She is really tall and thin, but she has this mole wart between her eyes. This is where I stare to give strong eye contact. I keep giving it to her and it's too much. It's good at first and she grinds my dick hard, but after she shit tests me agian making weird negative hand gestures and I just stand there. Eventually I eject cause she's getting weird.

I wander and burn everything left to the ground and it's actually pretty obvious. I try to reopen mole forehead just for reference. Now she has some arabic guy and he is close holding her talking. I walk up but some how right at the last moment she kind of turns weird and doesn't see my hand of god. I still grab her hand and rotate her. I try to pull her away for atleast 20 seconds. The guy grabs her and holds her there. Chode mother fucker. It turns into a slight tug of war battle which I find insanely amusing! Problem is I feel the social pressure and my state plummets. Oh well I eject again.

I decide to leave. I look for a spot to pull girls and found a great one. Even if they are in heels this new spot will be amazing. From now on I will isolate straight there, no pussy footin it.

I forget to close my tab, fuck drinking life! So I drive back sober as hell. I go in the bar and might as well reopen some sets haha. Nothing hooks obviously. I'm leaving and the girl from the bar(tug of war) says heeey you outside. I keep walking but extend my arm. She says bye and I keep walking. I was thinking I should have been directly blunt and congruent with this girl. I could have told her she isn't hot enough for me so tell me somenthing interesting. I think she just wanted to piss me off idk. Didn't work hahaha.

What I learned:
Making girls walk in heels kills BT
Bring all pulls from Dive bar to the new spot.
Need to figure out why sets go flat and cold. Must trasition and escalate smoother.

 

[Tyme2k]

Day 16 - Tues. Feb. 19th 2013

Just got to work, overnight shift bleh.. Did daygame 1530-1730 today at Arden.

Started out semi slow got some cofee. There was a girl there HB6 not cute. I talked with her but ejected.

I went to Buckle cause my jacket tore in two spots. End up talking to this really good looking guy(no homo) working there. Come to find out they will fix my jacket for free! Damn I'm glad I found game, the social skills I'm learning are probably the most ultimate skill to have. I start alking with this guy while waiting for my jacket to be fixed. He is a producer/writer/actor from LA. He is making a short film and working towards becoming an action star. This guy will most likely make it purely off looks. We will see how is acting is. This is definitely the kind of guy I want in my social circle. His level of passion for what he is doing is inspiring. Got his card will definitely follow up.

Wandered opened a couple, got blown out. Ended up gaming some girl that looked like she was on her lunch break. Come to find out she just moved to sac, doesn't really have any friends. She had a BF and they live together, so I didn't number close. She was a bit overweight anyways. She basically told me to find her again and I will, just to friendzone her just to strengthen my social circle(even though she has nothing going for her).

I open a two set girls look really upset. I mention it and the one girl looks like she will cry. I ask her if she has boy troubles and she seems even more upset. I grab her and say give me a hug it will make you feel better. She hugs me, but then starts crying! Fuck, I just walk away idk where to go with this. Quite a few people saw this too so I have to move quickly like it didn't happen to not get in my head.

Open a two set almost immediately, they are stifled and walk away. I see a cute mixed girl sitting by herself in a semi uniform eating. I ask her if she's on lunch and sit down with her. Vomit for a while and she asks if I will walk her back to work.. I say I'm heading that way and leaving for work. I don't number close her just give her mine and tell her to text me. She doesnt do it right away, I think she's in a hurry. We will see if I get a text. I think I fucked up by telling her I walk around the mall and talk to people for fun. Weird/creey oops. I didn't feel like it was weird as I said it, but thinking back could have been viewed as odd.

Last set on the way out cute girl on lunch break I stop her blah blah, BF. I tell her it's cool I've dealt with it before. She says sorry leaves.

Pretty good day, I opened 20+ girls very entertaining. I was learning how to give value, so definitely a beneficial day.

What I learned:
Instead of talking about what a girl is upset about, take her mind off it and be the fun.
Get the girl to text me while I'm there or at least call my phone.
Make sure to stop a girl at the beginning. Don't let them keep walking. They have that momentum and don't slow once they passed you.

Tomorrow should be amazing, I have the whole day off, a date and Mix Wednesday!

 

[Tyme2k]

Day 17 - Wed. Feb. 20 2013

Some weird, but really cool stuff has been happening in this challenge lately, can't wait to write it up.
Off work, chilled for most of the day did some cleaning. Date tonight with sober petite HB7 from Sunday. Text convo:

Me 2:53p - So meeting at 6? If you'll be hungry I'm down for chipotle and go from there. If not drinks at republic will be good.
Her 4:51p - Hey, sorry got off work later than I thought.... Might have to be a lil later
Her 4:52p - Or tomorrow
Her 4:57p - Wutevers clever Just prob no drinks, I have to be up super early for work tomorrow :/
Me 5:27p - Cant tomorrow.. what time later? I'm meeting friends at 10..
Her 6:05p - Mmm, like 8:30ish? Lol
Me 6:26p - Do u like milkshakes? We can chill for a few then I gtg. You kno Williens? I can get u on the way..
Her 6:32p - Ya that's fine, never been But who doesn't like milkshakes??! Lol I can meet u there, I have to pick up a friends ID first
Me 6:45p - I kno right do I even have to ask? K see u there
Her 6:47p - Lol, k I'll text u when I'm on my way

Here I decided to push for a quick meetup so I could refresh her memory. Credit this to Chase, he talks about integrating this into what you're already doing this way you can cut the date short and leave her wanting more. This is exactly what I did. She ends up texting me that shes on her way so I leave my house to meet. She gets lost which is better for me cause it wasted time. We meet I lead the entire time. Lead her outside, back inside then out to her car. I don't kino much which sux, but I create sexual tension and superb eye contact the whole night. I ended the date first of course which is a MUST.

Go to the mix, open a few random sets and see some cutie by herself on the patio. Go to her and open, she's with some friends that I'm trying to build a social circle with. One is her birthday, and we all chill together for the rest of the night. Pretty laid back chill night and we just people watch the stupid girls in the club. I don't number close cause I don't wanna game the cutie. I'll see her WAAAYY too much since her friends work at the clubs I frequent. Sux, but oh well plenty more.

What I learned:
Need to find a good venue for quick dates that will allow me to Kino.
When I do get a chance to kino, like opening hug, good bye hug, etc. Hold it a little longer than a freind would.
Even though friend zoning, do it on the meet. Number close and say "we should be friends"

Day 18 - Thurs. Feb. 21st 2013

Worked early shift, got off headed to Elk Grove to day game.

Date from last night texts me first, I was too busy to text her. Text her back finally ask if she's free sat since its my only time this weekend. She says it's girl's night and I throw out pregame her and I at my place. We will see what happens. I will try to get her here, rapport for 5-10 mins then escalate. I know I can get the makeout, but will push for the close. My goal will be for her to change her plans for me and stay to spend time with me. Will update.

Hit up Target, nothing at all to open gaay. Went to Wal-Mart and the only set I opened was a cute 19 year old slavic girl hb9. She was actually really amazing. Tlaked with her for a bit about work BORING then didn't trasition and show interest. I kinda joked about age a bit much and let her get back to work. I needed to trasition to direct, telling her well I thought you were cute and we need to hang out next week. Oh well, maybe I'll try her agian in like a month.

Went to Best Buy and only one cute girl employee by the door. I want in she says Hi and something I'm going to play with, coming off more sexy. I 'm walking slow, look her dead in the eyes, raise my eyebrows slightly still moving and waiting about 3 secods to respond in a Joey like tone from freinds(How you doin) I say, "Hey." This sort of caught her off guard and she kind of stutters this time saying "H-hi" At this point I should have met her and gamed as normal, but I keep walking. I don't open her on the way out either, due to some social pressure. There is a guy standing right behind her their "Loss Prevention" so I don't want to make it uncomfortable.. Maybe I'll try her also another day. Who knows I was just a bitch today.

Go pick up FB, get Chipotle and an Americano. Back to the apartment. You know the rest.

What I learned:
Even when gaming a worker, must show interest in the interaction and still go for the number close. FOLLOW THE PROCESS
After a super powerful preopen ALWAYS open, no matter the social pressure. I can always move the set slightly out of hearing range to make it more comfortable for both her and I.
Days I know I'm getting laid, my drive is sooo much lower. Need to really think about the next step with my FB right now...