Before I Self Destruct

[gameboy]

Well what happened? Haha.

Define "wasn't an issue", if you could.

I think she said "I saw you talk to some girls on the shore the other day, watching dolphins". I remember the day well because this was the only day I ever saw dolphins from the beach. I think I said something like "Oh yeah, they were nice". She asked "Oh you remember them?" (sounded a bit like she thought I talk to girls all the time) and I said sure, because of the dolphins. And that was that.

I hung out with the girl for maybe half an hour or an hour, she seemed quite happy to chat and hang out with me but even though I tried a lot of touching, she wasn't really responsive (though she tolerated it). I took her for a walk along the beach and eventually she asked me for my IG. I added her and eventually I left to do other stuff since my escalation attempts didn't go anywhere. She responded to my icebreaker but then went radio silent. She was a tourist and only here for a few days.

It was a fun interaction nonetheless, and the first time I got an IG from day game. I even wrote a field report about it at the time.

 

[KJ Francis]

The day before writing this I went out and did 5 approaches. No major luck but I got it done.

Yeah I've had some success with it, but haven't bagged any mega hotties from it like I have with night game / late night street approaches.

And I've tried to make it more of a consistent thing, but most often just don't find very many girls I actually want to approach.



The only environment I've seen as a good place that has lots of hot girls is by the beach, but then there's two issues:

1) If I approach a stationary girl at the beach and bomb, then go approach another hot girl nearby.... my nerves are killing me because I look like some creep on the beach just going up to tons of girls.

2) There's a good bit of fitness girls that I want to open, but they're either literally running or walking with resting bitch face with their headphones in.

Advice for either of these?

Move to new york? Jk I can't imagine you would like the winter.

For number 2, Chase wrote this week just stop them and make a motion to remove the headphones

Old head here, What material are you guys following for pickup?

So im in my 40s. I found pickup back when it first took off around 2001 ish. I was able to go out with many of the old PUA gurus. It was fun as hell. I did pickup for a good 5 years and then "retired". Moved to another country, small town, relationship and I was out of it. Life moves on and so...

www.skilledseducer.com

Probably not helpful, but all I can think of is club promote on the beach or volunteer for Sea Shepherd collecting signatures to save the dolphins or whatever. For real though, maybe lifeguard? Chase brings up the old masf user Lifeguard every once in a while. Maybe there are other jobs around the beach.


The only real advice I really have would be to do your best to slowly build a three month emergency fund and put it in a completely liquid savings account like Ally or Marcus and forget it's there.

This might sound crazy but you're in a warm locale, likely with gyms around. I know someone who's a robotics engineer at Disney and lives in a camper van in fast food parking lots. Even software engineers at Google do that type of thing. Maybe bad in terms of your social circle repuration though.

 

[Hue]

Had a lot of grinding in the last few months, just got back from vacation.

I think I'm at... 5 lays since October, a handful of hookups, several dates. Been frustrating honestly.

Super tired from traveling and under the weather. Gonna have more downtime leading up to the final holiday festivities, so I'll pump some out.

Tbh most of the lays have just been super rapid hookups, 1 of them is now my FB, with 1 more that I might keep around just in case I don't close this 9 I've been targeting in social circle. The rest were ONS for one reason or another.

I'm exhausted from all the partying and shit, so low key, if this chick is what I think she is, I might wife her up as a OLTR. Been saying this to my close friends for months, I'd rather focus on business right now and bag a hot ass chick from SC, let that grow into my overall lifestyle here in CA.

 

[Hue]

Got like 3 more dates on the way leading up to NYE, and more of a long term plan to bang this OLTR candidate chick. If that fails, at least I'll have a small roster to go between until winter ends.

Lays since Halloween

1) Halloween after party - fucked a HB6+ in the laundry room of this party, then she left and I tried to bang one of her friends who was hotter. She was into me but her boyfriend was at the party so I got kicked out. ONS.

2) Hot therapist chick HB8, somehow made her feel scared about how fast she slept with me and lost her. That one kinda hurt I was into her. MLTR potential ending in ONS.

3) Chick that stole my jacket so I'd chase her down, then fuck her (current FB she's fairly weird, lol) HB7.

4) Hippie chick lay up HB6, got a fat ass tho (lock in for FB tomorrow night)

5) Vacation back home ONS, college chick with big natties and a pretty face, HB7+ maybe HB8-


Will try to write some of these ones out^





Notable mention: my old low end MLTR came into see me at work and I ended up grabbing drinks, taking her home and fucking her. Ghosted me since lol she just wanted the dick again. Probably will just leave it like that so she can always hit me up FB style and not MLTR.

This woman tried to become my Sugar Momma months back and bought me dinner, she gave me a blowjob the first night I met her. But after our dinner she wouldn't fuck me, so I stopped seeing her. Months later she texts me to take me on another dinner and this time I get like 30 minutes of head, can't come (she still won't fuck), so I titty fuck her massive fake tits and leave lol.


FU's / FR++'s since Halloween

1) Ditzy brunette / club rat. This one had so much potential but ultimately crashed HARD. I met her on halloween weekend and thought I was going to close her that night but it got chaotic and I lost her. Her friend and roommate was equally into me so I even considered it could end in a threesome.

She eventually texted me that she doesn't want to meet up because I didn't pay for her drinks all night which is a huge turnoff.

Then I run into her and she's super bubbly and flirty again, and I bring her home and get as far as sucking on her tits. She said I can't go to the afterparty with her because I'm too intimidating to the other guys there due to my looks. "It's better for my social reputation", she said.

24 hrs later I'm at a rooftop party and she just happens to show up, and we agree to get our mimosas the next morning. That party went til like fucking 4:30 AM, so I wasn't expecting her to take our date at noon the next day so seriously. I figured she'd show up still in party mode and all would be fucking fine. INSTEAD she shows up in a full dress, WAY overdressing the venue and is acting nothing at all like the girl I've seen out. Setting all these hardcore BF frames non stop. I was still buzzed as fuck and so not into it. Then she kept demanding I pay for everything at every venue, taking pictures of the drinks and me and posting it on social media and I just wanted to puke. I "broke up with her", gave her a huge, and said, "I hope you find what you're looking for".

Good riddance, lol.

2) Mid 30's latina - made her cum with my hands on the first date and she wouldn't fuck me, haven't gotten her back over since despite high investment over text.

3) Random high 7 girl that told me to meet her at a particular bar, then I go and she says she can't make it, only to find out she's sitting behind me with 2 of her friends. I call her the next day to try and smooth it out and she said her friend was scared I was trying to spike their drinks(?), psycho. I smooth it out nonetheless, can't find a date that works for us, and then next time she see's me out she's PISSED when I come up and say hi to her. Very abnormal treatment from this midwest chick.

4) Spontaneous latina chick out in night game who opens me and steals me from a bar, then gets lost herself that night. I text her later and invite her straight to my house, but she is super cold and not like she was during night game.


Think I overall am doing myself a disservice to meet a girl at night game and then try to take her on a date. It's incongruent framing and changes the expectations for our interaction.

5) Low MLTR candidate, took on a date and she was literally all over me physically, invited her home and was denied. Should have persisted. Asked her home the next date and she autorejected. Sent a pro-level text to get her back on the ropes, set up a date, but then she flaked last minute. Now she's texting me as if we're friends. Probably dead.


Numbers and other stuff

I found like 10 numbers of other chicks from approaches in my phone, about 3 very hot chicks from my fine dining tables that I just couldn't convert, one from a rave bunny (probably a sugar baby judging by her IG, or she's rich), and one of which is an IG model during night game.

This was crazy, I found this chick on my IG and was slobbering over her to my boys, and they told me to stop simping. Then like 2 weeks later I see her out at the club and immediately go up and approach, and it went fucking FIRE. I know Bacchus is a crazy bastard but he brought up this "Point and Click" method where basically you see who the girl is and think of the seduction before you actually see her, if you have a hunch on how you might be able to engage with her (I think that's how it went? I read it years ago now). She posted like 12 super hot and slutty halloween costume photos so I asked her what she dressed as for halloween, and she got SO excited and said she's an IG influencer, and showed me all her pictures. Unfortunately her friend started puking and that fucked up my set - I shouldn't have let her go though.

Ah, but she did have a fairly deep voice and was a small girl. For sure steroid use for her insanely phat ass.


Also got PLAYED super hard by these high machievelan chicks that used me and this guy for alcohol then did a bunch of blow and left to an after party without us.




I think a lot of my lack of consistency stems from not showing who I am enough in a deep way, while also hiding from social circle at several locations. I have a reputation at some bars now. And a lot of these chicks are boyfriend zoning me and I'm not doing a good job of preventing that without tons of friction. That's my biggest issues right now.

 

[Hue]

https://www.girlschase.com/article/seductive-archetype-being-prosocial-playboy

This is a banger