Before I Self Destruct

[gameboy]

Well what happened? Haha.

Define "wasn't an issue", if you could.

I think she said "I saw you talk to some girls on the shore the other day, watching dolphins". I remember the day well because this was the only day I ever saw dolphins from the beach. I think I said something like "Oh yeah, they were nice". She asked "Oh you remember them?" (sounded a bit like she thought I talk to girls all the time) and I said sure, because of the dolphins. And that was that.

I hung out with the girl for maybe half an hour or an hour, she seemed quite happy to chat and hang out with me but even though I tried a lot of touching, she wasn't really responsive (though she tolerated it). I took her for a walk along the beach and eventually she asked me for my IG. I added her and eventually I left to do other stuff since my escalation attempts didn't go anywhere. She responded to my icebreaker but then went radio silent. She was a tourist and only here for a few days.

It was a fun interaction nonetheless, and the first time I got an IG from day game. I even wrote a field report about it at the time.

 

[KJ Francis]

The day before writing this I went out and did 5 approaches. No major luck but I got it done.

Yeah I've had some success with it, but haven't bagged any mega hotties from it like I have with night game / late night street approaches.

And I've tried to make it more of a consistent thing, but most often just don't find very many girls I actually want to approach.



The only environment I've seen as a good place that has lots of hot girls is by the beach, but then there's two issues:

1) If I approach a stationary girl at the beach and bomb, then go approach another hot girl nearby.... my nerves are killing me because I look like some creep on the beach just going up to tons of girls.

2) There's a good bit of fitness girls that I want to open, but they're either literally running or walking with resting bitch face with their headphones in.

Advice for either of these?

Move to new york? Jk I can't imagine you would like the winter.

For number 2, Chase wrote this week just stop them and make a motion to remove the headphones

Old head here, What material are you guys following for pickup?

So im in my 40s. I found pickup back when it first took off around 2001 ish. I was able to go out with many of the old PUA gurus. It was fun as hell. I did pickup for a good 5 years and then "retired". Moved to another country, small town, relationship and I was out of it. Life moves on and so...

www.skilledseducer.com

Probably not helpful, but all I can think of is club promote on the beach or volunteer for Sea Shepherd collecting signatures to save the dolphins or whatever. For real though, maybe lifeguard? Chase brings up the old masf user Lifeguard every once in a while. Maybe there are other jobs around the beach.


The only real advice I really have would be to do your best to slowly build a three month emergency fund and put it in a completely liquid savings account like Ally or Marcus and forget it's there.

This might sound crazy but you're in a warm locale, likely with gyms around. I know someone who's a robotics engineer at Disney and lives in a camper van in fast food parking lots. Even software engineers at Google do that type of thing. Maybe bad in terms of your social circle repuration though.