I made a friends with a girl from bumble. Thought will keep her as a female friend, she can help me to recognise IOIs and groom well and in general boost confidence. She is a virgin so anyways will have high level of guilt fucking her.
Could have made another girl a female friend but ruined it.
Need to fix friendly vibe on date but. I want them to see me as a fuckboi
Could have made another girl a female friend but ruined it.
Need to fix friendly vibe on date but. I want them to see me as a fuckboi
Note to self
Writing cause high and creative
For the girl who went cold on me (this is more fun to seduce a new girl; since approch is now warm gives me more room for experimentation and error)
I need to figure out 2 things what happened that day and why she can't come now
(What happened on that day)
Bring her objection by cold reading her
She is pissed off cause she was horny (objective is it frame it like this whatever is the reason and then blame things on situation)
In a relationship
Thinks I am creep
I can't satisfy her
I think she is a slut
(Why she can't come)
Anything from above or something else
Like too much efforts
It will be boring etc.
And then deal with the objection in a fun manner and re-frame myself as a cool and fun guy.
Now I need either frame our meet as friendly and say to her I love you more than your body etc. and romantic shit build emotional connection ( had to do this with fat warpig to lay her)
Other alternative is making her horny once friendly frame is set then with innuendos and sex jokes make her horny and then do a fantasy with her (same sequence)
Then when we meet bam kino, fun convo and sex
Writing cause high and creative
For the girl who went cold on me (this is more fun to seduce a new girl; since approch is now warm gives me more room for experimentation and error)
I need to figure out 2 things what happened that day and why she can't come now
(What happened on that day)
Bring her objection by cold reading her
She is pissed off cause she was horny (objective is it frame it like this whatever is the reason and then blame things on situation)
In a relationship
Thinks I am creep
I can't satisfy her
I think she is a slut
(Why she can't come)
Anything from above or something else
Like too much efforts
It will be boring etc.
And then deal with the objection in a fun manner and re-frame myself as a cool and fun guy.
Now I need either frame our meet as friendly and say to her I love you more than your body etc. and romantic shit build emotional connection ( had to do this with fat warpig to lay her)
Other alternative is making her horny once friendly frame is set then with innuendos and sex jokes make her horny and then do a fantasy with her (same sequence)
Then when we meet bam kino, fun convo and sex
I befriended an online date we both didn't got romantic/sexual Vibes when we first met .... Idk or maybe she was looking for a friend so she didn't gave me those vibes ... Or I do have a type dumb romantic broken fools and my game will work on those only who know but the bottom line is we went to a karaoke for fun ... And she bought her friend ( this is my plan to access better girls lolz)
Now the thing is this chick and I had a bit of communication gap so she thought I am flirting with her and (i did an obvious flirting) buf when she clarified my friend said and I didn't do it and I also decided to frame her being delusional and wanting that I flirt with her and she is interpreting my every action in this light ( Chase framing basically you want that i flirt with you and I not flirting with you)
I couldn't do much conversation with her it was chaotic Venue .... I guess only trouble I am having is coming sexy .... i come as a fun social guy.... earlier I was very anti social but sexy one on one ... More time I am spending with normal people maybe I unconsciously picking their normy behaviour..... idk but I want to lay her
Gotta work on myself I don't to feel all my success is random luck only way is increasing notches and quality of notches and I think even average looking virgin is a difficult lay ... Because need to build higher level of comfort and arousal for them ...(Unless she is curious dtf kind rare but there are who are looking to lose virginity when they leave their hometown)
Now the thing is this chick and I had a bit of communication gap so she thought I am flirting with her and (i did an obvious flirting) buf when she clarified my friend said and I didn't do it and I also decided to frame her being delusional and wanting that I flirt with her and she is interpreting my every action in this light ( Chase framing basically you want that i flirt with you and I not flirting with you)
I couldn't do much conversation with her it was chaotic Venue .... I guess only trouble I am having is coming sexy .... i come as a fun social guy.... earlier I was very anti social but sexy one on one ... More time I am spending with normal people maybe I unconsciously picking their normy behaviour..... idk but I want to lay her
Gotta work on myself I don't to feel all my success is random luck only way is increasing notches and quality of notches and I think even average looking virgin is a difficult lay ... Because need to build higher level of comfort and arousal for them ...(Unless she is curious dtf kind rare but there are who are looking to lose virginity when they leave their hometown)
A post to myself...
What has worked for me in past is
*Touch *... Just be forceful with it ... It become natural... Aim for shoulder nd waist... Nd hold hands ...
* Care * in small stuff... Like tying shoelaces or getting her shoes off in beaches... If overall interaction was dominant and loaded with touch it comes off as romantic... Let her have the first sip of drink .... Etc
*Romance* walking with hands in hands ... Twirling etc. watching moon
*Discussing relationships* just discuss about her past and don't reveals your past ... Be vague about it
What has worked for me in past is
*Touch *... Just be forceful with it ... It become natural... Aim for shoulder nd waist... Nd hold hands ...
* Care * in small stuff... Like tying shoelaces or getting her shoes off in beaches... If overall interaction was dominant and loaded with touch it comes off as romantic... Let her have the first sip of drink .... Etc
*Romance* walking with hands in hands ... Twirling etc. watching moon
*Discussing relationships* just discuss about her past and don't reveals your past ... Be vague about it
I was going through Alek's gambit compilation...
Worked for me?
Seducing men vs women
Serial orgasam
Not worked for me
Female submissions - was interested initially but did not agreed in last
Purity - hit or miss ( mostly miss don't relate)
Read not tried yet
Mental G-Spot ( seems tough to make it work)
Sex objects (seems tough to make it work)
Sex therapist (can work)
Independent women (can work)
I think these topics are not discussed a lot here, west specific topics
Worked for me?
Seducing men vs women
Serial orgasam
Not worked for me
Female submissions - was interested initially but did not agreed in last
Purity - hit or miss ( mostly miss don't relate)
Read not tried yet
Mental G-Spot ( seems tough to make it work)
Sex objects (seems tough to make it work)
Sex therapist (can work)
Independent women (can work)
I think these topics are not discussed a lot here, west specific topics
Reading nd thinking about sex talk ... I have come with my own gambit...
Erotica writer ... Need to field test it ... When the girl ask what you do ... Its a risky job.... I don't think I should talk about it ... Her tell, do u want to know ... I am an erotica writer.... Wait for her reaction.... Then start narrating an Erotic story' (to be delivered one on one) can add ameture erotica writer .... Instantly slots in lover category (and have amps up arousal)
Another spin is do u want read a story.... To escape from boredom.... Its explicit but .... Ok here then narrate a sex story
Erotica writer ... Need to field test it ... When the girl ask what you do ... Its a risky job.... I don't think I should talk about it ... Her tell, do u want to know ... I am an erotica writer.... Wait for her reaction.... Then start narrating an Erotic story' (to be delivered one on one) can add ameture erotica writer .... Instantly slots in lover category (and have amps up arousal)
Another spin is do u want read a story.... To escape from boredom.... Its explicit but .... Ok here then narrate a sex story