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4 approaches today. Got 2 favorite colors, the other 2 just kept walking.
First one was a girl seated at a restaurant by herself, around noon. I came up from behind, and saw she was a cute latina with a beautiful tanned skin tone, nose piercing, and braces. I sort of half-bowed down next to her with my hands on my knees, and asked her "Sorry, can you tell me your favorite color?" She said "blue" without asking why or what this is for. I thanked her and went on my way.
The second one I saw riding my bike, with helmet on and everything. She was a very punky girl covered in tattoos and with hair dyed two different colors on the left and right side of the head. I thought, I got to talk to this one she looks cool but also a bit intimidating. So I got in front of her and asked, she told me "red" without asking any reason and kept walking. I said "red huh? I thought black, but I guess I was wrong." She half-smiled but didn't really engage.
Third one was in the evening, I was already on my way home but my target was to approach 4 girls today. Came across a decent one that was walking towards me. I asked her for her favorite color, she had earphones in but seemed to listen to my question and looked at me. But she didn't react and just walked on.
I wanted to do a fourth one before I went home, it was almost dark and I was almost at the door of my house, with shopping bag in hand. Didn't see any suitable girls for a while, so walked up and down the street for maybe 5 minutes. Then saw a woman with large white headphones on, couldn't really see her well but she looked okay so I thought I'll ask her. I just got to "Excuse me, quick question" but she shook her head and walked on.
It feels awesome to have gotten to four approaches! The first one was by far the most attractive girl, and also seemed nicest. But it's also good to get a couple of rejections, to overcome the fear.
I'd love to do 4 approaches a day regularly now, and eventually move on to juicier conversations. But I'll take it slow, for now the goal is to just ask a personal question that the girl can choose to answer, or not. Asking her favorite color is a good start unless I can quickly think of a more interesting question.
I'm finding it's actually not that easy to find 4 suitable girls to approach! Or is being picky just another form of AA?
First one was a girl seated at a restaurant by herself, around noon. I came up from behind, and saw she was a cute latina with a beautiful tanned skin tone, nose piercing, and braces. I sort of half-bowed down next to her with my hands on my knees, and asked her "Sorry, can you tell me your favorite color?" She said "blue" without asking why or what this is for. I thanked her and went on my way.
The second one I saw riding my bike, with helmet on and everything. She was a very punky girl covered in tattoos and with hair dyed two different colors on the left and right side of the head. I thought, I got to talk to this one she looks cool but also a bit intimidating. So I got in front of her and asked, she told me "red" without asking any reason and kept walking. I said "red huh? I thought black, but I guess I was wrong." She half-smiled but didn't really engage.
Third one was in the evening, I was already on my way home but my target was to approach 4 girls today. Came across a decent one that was walking towards me. I asked her for her favorite color, she had earphones in but seemed to listen to my question and looked at me. But she didn't react and just walked on.
I wanted to do a fourth one before I went home, it was almost dark and I was almost at the door of my house, with shopping bag in hand. Didn't see any suitable girls for a while, so walked up and down the street for maybe 5 minutes. Then saw a woman with large white headphones on, couldn't really see her well but she looked okay so I thought I'll ask her. I just got to "Excuse me, quick question" but she shook her head and walked on.
It feels awesome to have gotten to four approaches! The first one was by far the most attractive girl, and also seemed nicest. But it's also good to get a couple of rejections, to overcome the fear.
I'd love to do 4 approaches a day regularly now, and eventually move on to juicier conversations. But I'll take it slow, for now the goal is to just ask a personal question that the girl can choose to answer, or not. Asking her favorite color is a good start unless I can quickly think of a more interesting question.
I'm finding it's actually not that easy to find 4 suitable girls to approach! Or is being picky just another form of AA?