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So interesting couple of days out here.
In this city, that Aussie girl invited me out to lunch with her and we spent the afternoon together, but I didn’t make a move. I was good at being physical and I think she liked me, because she told me she thought I was funny, and seemed very comfortable.
That night, I went out and invited another girl to come (Aussie girl didn’t show). This girl also seemed to like me, but I wasn’t into her. She made out with someone else, which for some reason made me jealous. Also at the end of the night it was her and me, and she says how we can do anything consequence free. She also slaps a drink in my face, grinds on me, then goes to a waiter and slaps a tray of dishes out of his hands. At that point I realize she’s too gone, so I just walk her back to the hostel and put her to bed.
The next day I see Aussie girl and give her a hug and she does the little cheek kiss thing. But she still didn’t come out when I invited her.
Last night in Barcelona, I met an American girl, who also seemed to get along with me. I talked to her for a bit, and then moved to join my friends, thinking I could reopen later, but when I talked to her at the bar, she said she had to leave to join her friend. Later an English guy who had been flirting heavily with her first started hooking up with her, which really bummed me out.
At the club I feel like I get approach invitations but I just don’t act on them, plus I take it way to personally when I lose a girl I like to someone else.
So things I need to work on are boldness, persistence, and sexualizing. If I can get those down I should be able to start seeing more results.
I also did a lot of observing and what I saw definitely caused some dissonance. The girl from the previous city didn’t really like this Brazilian guy (by her own word) yet she started making out with him on the dance floor, multiple times. And last night, the American girl didn’t seem into the British guy at first (he seemed very drunk and was very physical with the girl before the pub crawl started, and was kissing her on the cheek, calling her his girlfriend, which she laughed off), and yet she also ended up with the British guy for a while. I asked the first girl whether she liked how Europeans and Brazilians were more forward and she said she preferred the American way, and yet look what happened. Very much eye opening to me at least. I really do need to learn from them to more persistent.
In this city, that Aussie girl invited me out to lunch with her and we spent the afternoon together, but I didn’t make a move. I was good at being physical and I think she liked me, because she told me she thought I was funny, and seemed very comfortable.
That night, I went out and invited another girl to come (Aussie girl didn’t show). This girl also seemed to like me, but I wasn’t into her. She made out with someone else, which for some reason made me jealous. Also at the end of the night it was her and me, and she says how we can do anything consequence free. She also slaps a drink in my face, grinds on me, then goes to a waiter and slaps a tray of dishes out of his hands. At that point I realize she’s too gone, so I just walk her back to the hostel and put her to bed.
The next day I see Aussie girl and give her a hug and she does the little cheek kiss thing. But she still didn’t come out when I invited her.
Last night in Barcelona, I met an American girl, who also seemed to get along with me. I talked to her for a bit, and then moved to join my friends, thinking I could reopen later, but when I talked to her at the bar, she said she had to leave to join her friend. Later an English guy who had been flirting heavily with her first started hooking up with her, which really bummed me out.
At the club I feel like I get approach invitations but I just don’t act on them, plus I take it way to personally when I lose a girl I like to someone else.
So things I need to work on are boldness, persistence, and sexualizing. If I can get those down I should be able to start seeing more results.
I also did a lot of observing and what I saw definitely caused some dissonance. The girl from the previous city didn’t really like this Brazilian guy (by her own word) yet she started making out with him on the dance floor, multiple times. And last night, the American girl didn’t seem into the British guy at first (he seemed very drunk and was very physical with the girl before the pub crawl started, and was kissing her on the cheek, calling her his girlfriend, which she laughed off), and yet she also ended up with the British guy for a while. I asked the first girl whether she liked how Europeans and Brazilians were more forward and she said she preferred the American way, and yet look what happened. Very much eye opening to me at least. I really do need to learn from them to more persistent.
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