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Friday, September 4 – Sunday, September 6
Inconsistency inhibits growth.
On Wednesday, I was poised and focused. My game was duly reflected.
On Thursday, though, I allowed myself to become frustrated. Accordingly, I reverted to unpolished methodologies. My verbal arsenal should be versatile, but the quality must remain consistent in the future. And it will.
But for now, back to the progress of the past few days. Inspired by Chase’s recent article on scouting – and my extreme need to uncover new venues – I spent Friday searching for locations rife with fine derrière. The traverses through my college town (it's relatively on the smaller side with a population around 50,000) were mixed.
First, I traveled to the mall as intended. It was about a thirty-minute walk and twenty-minute bus ride, and unfortunately, the bus stop was completely deserted except for me. I was disappointed upon reaching the mall, too. I had been there only once before but did not remember how small it was – just one floor and four short hallways. I’m uncertain that it would be worth the frequent travel, but as I'm still excited to try mall game, I will make the trip on occasion.
Next, I walked through a few streets adjacent to the shopping district. There was a row of clothing stores that appeared to be frequented by sorority girls – a nice find. Nearby is a café, too, so I am optimistic about this location.
Closer to where I live is a small park that I rarely have ventured to. A few people were walking around, but the other parks in town are clearly more popular. Overall, I need to be making more trips to the shops and café with the sorority girls, although I am slightly concerned about two factors: becoming recognized at the shops and spending too much money at the café.
On to Saturday. Initially, this was a low point. Thursday brought mistakes that I should not have made. Bacchus illuminated those mistakes. I needed it; he knew it.
No wonder why HBRunner didn’t respond – the text message was highly incongruent with my in-person vibe. She was probably really confused, actually. I had a great approach and really immersed her, but I wasted all of that positive momentum. And my grocery store approach was a step back, not a step forward. That’s just not good enough.
Did I want to become good at this, or not?
I decided that, yes, I do. In fact, I understood that I needed to think deeper than that.
What is the driving force in my life, and what did I want it to be?
No matter how successful I become in other areas, I know that I will never be satisfied with myself until I become a great seducer. Which is not something that I can even quantify with a lay count… but only with a feeling. A feeling that I know it. A feeling that I am influential, by choice, with every girl that I meet.
It can’t just be talk, though. Action, action, improvement, implementation. I allocated the remainder of Saturday and Sunday to becoming fully cognizant of my weaknesses. I did Bacchus’ exercises and a lot of reading. I reflected and thought. I even drank tea. Green tea, too. It was supposed to be a little symbolic, like a cleansing.
I did these things to the point where a deviation from my intended path will feel like an imperious betrayal, which is something that will not happen.
Monday, September 7
I begin the day by handling a few unexciting responsibilities of my life, but on my mind remains the thought of approaching beautiful women. Debauchery.
Around 4:00, I start my daygame session. A nearby park is my destination. When arriving, I notice a pretty blonde in a sports bra and athletic shorts alone at a table with her laptop. I hear her animatedly engaged on the phone, so I redirect my path to a bench across the park and focus my mind. Mirror neurons, sprezzatura, perceptive insights on her perspective – pace her reality.
After about ten minutes, I notice that she hangs up and continues tapping on her laptop. I’ve noticed that the vibe of my sessions is risked if I miss my first approach opportunity, so I make sure to not waste this chance and calmly walk into her periphery. My eyes are fixated on the clouds when she looks towards me, and I open with a slow glance towards her:
I continue like that for about 15 minutes. Just trying to understand her and her motivations. The way she perceives the world. She’s an interesting girl with both attractive looks and personality.
Then, I tell her that I should be on my way and understand that she has work to finish, too. I get her number and tell her that it was very nice to meet her on this beautiful day. She agrees, and I’m off for the next one.
Leaving the park and casually walking around for a while, I notice two girls sitting in a grassy area in front of the public library. I see that they have very average appearances when I near, but they look towards me and I have my opener, so whatever. I just do it for the practice as I wanted to experiment with my openers/pre-openers.
We exchange names and converse in that manner for a few minutes. I then tell them that it was great to meet them and to have a nice day before ejecting without number closing… didn’t feel like that was a set worth pursuing further.
It’s getting later and less active at this point, so I go to the grocery store. First thing that I do is check the tea section for a bit of redemption. Not a girl in sight, so that one will have to wait.
I do see a very attractive brunette shopping for a 12-pack of Sprite, however. Wearing an interesting pink blouse with flower designs, she definitely caught my attention. She seems to be in a hurry, so I meander in her direction and open once she gives me a look.
Get her number and we say our goodbyes. Also, I chuckle about my opener. It was cool that I made the effort to quickly think of something about her area of focus… but maybe it seemed contrived and there could have been a better option. But I made it work okay in the end, so that’s nice, too.
That was my last approach for the day. I feel like I was able to implement my new learnings and the girls seemed to be intrigued. Next step is just more practice, smoothing out the process, and becoming more observant towards the current state of the girl.
Overall, my goal for now is to progress in the right direction every day. No more regressions.
Thanks again to those who are keeping my mind clear. A pivotal week awaits.
Festina lente.
Inconsistency inhibits growth.
On Wednesday, I was poised and focused. My game was duly reflected.
On Thursday, though, I allowed myself to become frustrated. Accordingly, I reverted to unpolished methodologies. My verbal arsenal should be versatile, but the quality must remain consistent in the future. And it will.
But for now, back to the progress of the past few days. Inspired by Chase’s recent article on scouting – and my extreme need to uncover new venues – I spent Friday searching for locations rife with fine derrière. The traverses through my college town (it's relatively on the smaller side with a population around 50,000) were mixed.
First, I traveled to the mall as intended. It was about a thirty-minute walk and twenty-minute bus ride, and unfortunately, the bus stop was completely deserted except for me. I was disappointed upon reaching the mall, too. I had been there only once before but did not remember how small it was – just one floor and four short hallways. I’m uncertain that it would be worth the frequent travel, but as I'm still excited to try mall game, I will make the trip on occasion.
Next, I walked through a few streets adjacent to the shopping district. There was a row of clothing stores that appeared to be frequented by sorority girls – a nice find. Nearby is a café, too, so I am optimistic about this location.
Closer to where I live is a small park that I rarely have ventured to. A few people were walking around, but the other parks in town are clearly more popular. Overall, I need to be making more trips to the shops and café with the sorority girls, although I am slightly concerned about two factors: becoming recognized at the shops and spending too much money at the café.
On to Saturday. Initially, this was a low point. Thursday brought mistakes that I should not have made. Bacchus illuminated those mistakes. I needed it; he knew it.
No wonder why HBRunner didn’t respond – the text message was highly incongruent with my in-person vibe. She was probably really confused, actually. I had a great approach and really immersed her, but I wasted all of that positive momentum. And my grocery store approach was a step back, not a step forward. That’s just not good enough.
Did I want to become good at this, or not?
I decided that, yes, I do. In fact, I understood that I needed to think deeper than that.
What is the driving force in my life, and what did I want it to be?
No matter how successful I become in other areas, I know that I will never be satisfied with myself until I become a great seducer. Which is not something that I can even quantify with a lay count… but only with a feeling. A feeling that I know it. A feeling that I am influential, by choice, with every girl that I meet.
It can’t just be talk, though. Action, action, improvement, implementation. I allocated the remainder of Saturday and Sunday to becoming fully cognizant of my weaknesses. I did Bacchus’ exercises and a lot of reading. I reflected and thought. I even drank tea. Green tea, too. It was supposed to be a little symbolic, like a cleansing.
I did these things to the point where a deviation from my intended path will feel like an imperious betrayal, which is something that will not happen.
Monday, September 7
I begin the day by handling a few unexciting responsibilities of my life, but on my mind remains the thought of approaching beautiful women. Debauchery.
Around 4:00, I start my daygame session. A nearby park is my destination. When arriving, I notice a pretty blonde in a sports bra and athletic shorts alone at a table with her laptop. I hear her animatedly engaged on the phone, so I redirect my path to a bench across the park and focus my mind. Mirror neurons, sprezzatura, perceptive insights on her perspective – pace her reality.
After about ten minutes, I notice that she hangs up and continues tapping on her laptop. I’ve noticed that the vibe of my sessions is risked if I miss my first approach opportunity, so I make sure to not waste this chance and calmly walk into her periphery. My eyes are fixated on the clouds when she looks towards me, and I open with a slow glance towards her:
Me: There’s something really intriguing that I just realized.
HB: *stares*
Me: Have you ever noticed… the dichotomy of this park between earlier in the day… and right now? Earlier… it’s always so busy. People walk through so briskly, captivated by their phones and are fixated… only by their next destination. Now… it’s much more relaxed… and peaceful. I can understand why someone might like to… take a moment… to rest here and alleviate their mind… perhaps like we are right now.
HB (still staring): Uh… yeah!
Me: Is that what brings you out here today? Just enjoying the pleasant weather… and feeling the gentle warmth of the sun against your skin?
HB: Yeah, it’s so nice out! It’s always great to get some work done outside if you can, you know?
Me: Definitely. So many people just live in the restrictions of their homes… and don’t realize the beauty of nature. What are you working on today, then?
HB: Oh, well, I’m just doing some graphic design stuff for class.
Me: Is that right? I’m actually very interested in… the aesthetics of things… and I do some graphic design work myself. Mind if I take a look?
HB: Really? Yeah, sure!
Me (sitting down next to her at the table while she turns her laptop towards me): What’s your name, by the way?
HB: HB! Yours?
Me: Ah... it’s Lofty. Wow, I really like your design… I can tell that you’re the type of person who really puts a lot of thought into their work. Is that right?
HB: Oh yeah, that’s me, definitely!
Me: Hmm… so what exactly drives you… to dedicate your life to this passion?
HB: *stares*
Me: Have you ever noticed… the dichotomy of this park between earlier in the day… and right now? Earlier… it’s always so busy. People walk through so briskly, captivated by their phones and are fixated… only by their next destination. Now… it’s much more relaxed… and peaceful. I can understand why someone might like to… take a moment… to rest here and alleviate their mind… perhaps like we are right now.
HB (still staring): Uh… yeah!
Me: Is that what brings you out here today? Just enjoying the pleasant weather… and feeling the gentle warmth of the sun against your skin?
HB: Yeah, it’s so nice out! It’s always great to get some work done outside if you can, you know?
Me: Definitely. So many people just live in the restrictions of their homes… and don’t realize the beauty of nature. What are you working on today, then?
HB: Oh, well, I’m just doing some graphic design stuff for class.
Me: Is that right? I’m actually very interested in… the aesthetics of things… and I do some graphic design work myself. Mind if I take a look?
HB: Really? Yeah, sure!
Me (sitting down next to her at the table while she turns her laptop towards me): What’s your name, by the way?
HB: HB! Yours?
Me: Ah... it’s Lofty. Wow, I really like your design… I can tell that you’re the type of person who really puts a lot of thought into their work. Is that right?
HB: Oh yeah, that’s me, definitely!
Me: Hmm… so what exactly drives you… to dedicate your life to this passion?
Then, I tell her that I should be on my way and understand that she has work to finish, too. I get her number and tell her that it was very nice to meet her on this beautiful day. She agrees, and I’m off for the next one.
Leaving the park and casually walking around for a while, I notice two girls sitting in a grassy area in front of the public library. I see that they have very average appearances when I near, but they look towards me and I have my opener, so whatever. I just do it for the practice as I wanted to experiment with my openers/pre-openers.
Me: I've noticed something that you might agree with...
HBs: *stare*
Me: After hours studying in the library, being indoors can feel so… restrictive. Sure, you read… and learn new things… but eventually there’s that longing in the back of your mind… that reminds you… how beautiful it is outside. The agreeable temperature, the enjoyable vibe… isn’t it wonderful?
HB1: Yeah! It’s SO nice out right now!
Me: Ah… so after a long day of studying… you two decided to… just take a few moments to relax?
HB2: We tried to study. But I don’t think that we actually did much.
HB1: Haha yeah, we tried but gave up right after opening our books!
Me: Well… when I look at you two, I’m getting the vibe that you know how to work hard when you have to but also know how to… enjoy yourselves. Is that right?
HB2: Haha, we just like to get things done so we can have a good time!
Me: Who wouldn’t like that? Your names are…?
HBs: *stare*
Me: After hours studying in the library, being indoors can feel so… restrictive. Sure, you read… and learn new things… but eventually there’s that longing in the back of your mind… that reminds you… how beautiful it is outside. The agreeable temperature, the enjoyable vibe… isn’t it wonderful?
HB1: Yeah! It’s SO nice out right now!
Me: Ah… so after a long day of studying… you two decided to… just take a few moments to relax?
HB2: We tried to study. But I don’t think that we actually did much.
HB1: Haha yeah, we tried but gave up right after opening our books!
Me: Well… when I look at you two, I’m getting the vibe that you know how to work hard when you have to but also know how to… enjoy yourselves. Is that right?
HB2: Haha, we just like to get things done so we can have a good time!
Me: Who wouldn’t like that? Your names are…?
It’s getting later and less active at this point, so I go to the grocery store. First thing that I do is check the tea section for a bit of redemption. Not a girl in sight, so that one will have to wait.
I do see a very attractive brunette shopping for a 12-pack of Sprite, however. Wearing an interesting pink blouse with flower designs, she definitely caught my attention. She seems to be in a hurry, so I meander in her direction and open once she gives me a look.
Me: You know, there’s just something different about Sprite, isn’t there?
HB: *holds look*
Me: Have you ever noticed… how taking a sip will so often remind us… of another happy time? Perhaps of a childhood memory… or of a favorite party… or the excitement of hanging with our friends. In fact, it’s a drink completely embedded in nostalgia… don't you think so?
HB: Um… yeah….?
Me: Right. And it’s like that’s the reason why we keep coming back to it… for the feeling… of happy memories.
HB: Honestly, I just like mix it with alcohol…
Me (holding in a laugh): …yes. That too. Is that the plan for tonight, then – a fun time with some friends before the school week starts?
HB: Yeah! Just going to hang out for a bit.
Me: I can definitely understand how… that would be a pleasurable and relaxing time. What’s your name, by the way?
HB: HB – what’s yours?
Me: Ah… it’s Lofty. I can tell that you’re in a hurry HB – trying to make this a quick stop at the store?
HB: Yeah! I HATE the store, honestly. There are just so many other places that I’d rather be!
Me: Like... at your party?
HB: Haha, yeah, like at my party! My friends actually keep texting me telling me to hurry up!
Me: People can be so impatient… and not fully understand… how enjoyable the small moments in life can be… like meeting new people.
HB: Definitely! I probably should get going now, though, before they freak out!
Me: Of course! It was really nice talking to you, HB – let me get your number so we can continue this conversation another time…
HB: Oh… okay!
HB: *holds look*
Me: Have you ever noticed… how taking a sip will so often remind us… of another happy time? Perhaps of a childhood memory… or of a favorite party… or the excitement of hanging with our friends. In fact, it’s a drink completely embedded in nostalgia… don't you think so?
HB: Um… yeah….?
Me: Right. And it’s like that’s the reason why we keep coming back to it… for the feeling… of happy memories.
HB: Honestly, I just like mix it with alcohol…
Me (holding in a laugh): …yes. That too. Is that the plan for tonight, then – a fun time with some friends before the school week starts?
HB: Yeah! Just going to hang out for a bit.
Me: I can definitely understand how… that would be a pleasurable and relaxing time. What’s your name, by the way?
HB: HB – what’s yours?
Me: Ah… it’s Lofty. I can tell that you’re in a hurry HB – trying to make this a quick stop at the store?
HB: Yeah! I HATE the store, honestly. There are just so many other places that I’d rather be!
Me: Like... at your party?
HB: Haha, yeah, like at my party! My friends actually keep texting me telling me to hurry up!
Me: People can be so impatient… and not fully understand… how enjoyable the small moments in life can be… like meeting new people.
HB: Definitely! I probably should get going now, though, before they freak out!
Me: Of course! It was really nice talking to you, HB – let me get your number so we can continue this conversation another time…
HB: Oh… okay!
That was my last approach for the day. I feel like I was able to implement my new learnings and the girls seemed to be intrigued. Next step is just more practice, smoothing out the process, and becoming more observant towards the current state of the girl.
Overall, my goal for now is to progress in the right direction every day. No more regressions.
Thanks again to those who are keeping my mind clear. A pivotal week awaits.
Festina lente.
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