The problem with dating is, our copy (conversion process) is limited by genetics.
I guess it's in marketing too... if you're struck with a stupid brain, you can't write good copy.
Honestly even the game I run (average looking guy game with great verbals / charisma / other forms of value) is arguably still genetic.
Lol i hear you.
But tinder doesn’t really call for great copy.
You just need to do enough to get a girl to respond (i typically send one emoji to create intrigue).
Then send a situationally relevant message to get her complying.
Respond to that in a way that relates but also gets her investing more.
Get her to share something deeper about herself, whether that be sexually relevant or more innocent.
Qualify her on it and share something about yourself.
Then close.
Do that with 100 matches, you’re getting laid a fair few times if you know how to run a good date.
Also i hate that genetics argument a lot. It’s just a way for a man to reject himself and blame it on some invisible boogeyman. In a third world country a man might attribute his failures to a familial curse. It all sounds the same to me.
Except when it doesn't. Then it hits the inner game.
You say you're short - that doesn't reflect on the apps.
You say you're an ethnic minority - that's not a disadvantage in this day and age in the West.
What do you rate like on photofeeler?
Lol until she meets you face to face and you’re standing a whole head shorter than her..
Plus there are tonsssss of chicks online with “sorry short kings, nobody shorter than 6foot” in their bio.
We smash those hoes too..
I bring up the ethnic minority thing cuz it’s usually another imagined handicap people use as an excuse on here. Glasses too…
It’s all just excuses. Excuses. Excuses.
And never used photofeeler, but i’m definitely not a “9”.
Only so much you can do to adjust the input when she has to approve of your face FIRST before you even get to talk to her. Other than plastic surgery, that is.
There’s a lot you can adjust before it gets to that point though. Number one is realizing online rejections aren’t real. She’s not rejecting you, your messages just aren’t important int the grand scheme of things. Qualify or disqualify and move on to the next lead quickly.