The Guide to Getting Hot Girls (of Any Type)

[Zoro]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hfX_KqMt-Ic

Interesting to note the guy at 2:15 is probably that blonde girl's (at 1:15) type and they have the SAME reaction. haha

Also tip of my hat to Altair for having a more productive and healthy attitude about this issue. Keep it up man!

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

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I just watched the video that J Wick quoted and I have to say that the scene with the blonde portrays the attitude of most of the blonde bimbo types down to a tee. Going out to bars I notice this so much, I've accidentally stood next to girls that look a lot like that and what I notice is that they immediately look at me, give me that disgusted look, and move away farther from me. I can't describe it but a lot of the blonde bimbo types really do have that "get away from me" type attitude to where they are not open to guys getting close to them. Right now I can see newbies who have just left their shell getting a lot of hell for approaching those kinds of women and walking away hurt. Even though my attitude is what it is, there is no denying that there is something about the hot blonde types that the videos posted portray well. The thread and Chase's post take some guesses at what it is that causes women to be such way.

From what I have noticed myself in interacting with them, they go for the really southern men (country boys) in most cases or high status guys (which in these neck of the woods means frat boys and football players, not doctors and engineers). I think that being in a top fraternity is a huge status boost with these women. Just a month ago I met this tall and jocky looking Indian guy who was on a date with this Teresa Palmer lookalike. The guy was friends with the guys I was out with and this girl was just feeling up on his big biceps. Later found out that the guy was in a top fraternity house and they met through socials and formals.

To all of the younger ethnic guys in here who aren't in college yet, I would say that being in a top fraternity is probably the best thing you can do for yourselves if you want the hot blonde type. Right now, I am willing to say that there are practically no exceptions to this rule at all in college, frat boys and athletes have a monopoly on these types of girls.

I am trying to find the type of guy or type to be if I want to get those types of girls after college, maybe if we can focus more on that then it will make this discussion productive.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Ignoring all the arguments and adding value.

Southern women love outdoors type of men, the ones that love things like fishing and hunting for example. I have family in the south and have stayed there before on vacation but I felt this was worth mentioning. Outside of the fraternity brothers, football players and country music types, the outdoorsy type of guys get the more attractive women in the area.

You will be surprised too, some of these guys aren't even that great looking but they have that masculinity and sense of ruggedness to them that draws in your blonde bimbo type who might be a bit country. The south isn't a good place for the pretty boy male model or the sophisticated type of guy to game women, you have to be more into that outdoorsy stuff. Social circle game reigns supreme in the region as well, cold approach doesn't work as well there.

Race is a big factor down south but I see it working more against blacks and some darker mexicans, not as much against Indians, Asians, whiter looking latinos, and Arabs.

 

[Franco]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Proactivity and others,

Maybe you guys missed this article, but Chase already addressed the "attitude" of these girls in a very long, detailed article last year. It's pretty spot-on from my experiences as well. If you can literally "laugh off" when a blonde girl tries to shit test you (in a very hard way, I might add), then you stand a chance of breaking through her armor.

Here's the article, and it's worth a read:

• She May Be a Bitch to You, But She's a Pussycat for Me

I was telling Hector (Anatman) the other day about one of the most eye-opening events I experienced while I was still learning. I was at a large outdoor concert back in 2012, but I was in the thick of learning to approach and meet women through cold approach. So while I was watching the show, I separated from my friends and decided to hang out at the "bar" in the back area to practice approaching, which was essentially just a big tent serving beer. While drinking my beer and chillin' out and looking cool by the railing, a bottle blonde walked up to a spot about 3 feet next to me, leaned over the railing, and pulled out a cigarette. The railing was long and there were about 20 other spots not near me she could have chosen, but she chose to stand by me.

I recognized this as an approach invitation, but I was still heavily influenced by approach anxiety at the time, and bottle blondes (with a bitch face) were more intimidating back then. I continued to sip my beer for about a minute, waiting to think of the best way to open her and make my move. However, before I could do that, a large, douche-y looking guy walked up to the other side of her and opened her. She responded to him, but her response was ice cold.

My first thought was, "ouch, that was harsh." But the guy just stood there, laughed, and then continued talking as if the girl just told him a joke. I shook my head for a bit and thought, "dude, you look like an idiot right now -- she just rejected the shit out of you." He continued talking anyway with a big smile on his face as if he didn't care. The blonde didn't move, but her body language did not show any interest. She continued to stand next to me (probably hoping I would interject or steal her attention away), smoke her cigarette, and watch the live show. She turned to face the guy two... maybe three times during the conversation. However, the last time she turned to that guy was after he made rather "objectifying" remark about her (of which I can't remember, unfortunately), and she turned to him and said, "you're an asshole." She then turned her attention back to the live show and continued to smoke her cigarette.

I thought to myself, "well, this is it. My chance is coming up." But then the craziest shit happened. The guy laughed again and responded with, "I've been called worse things than that before." At that moment I was thinking, "seriously? He's going to scare this chick away and I won't even have my chance. Go away!" After about another minute of him continuing to talk, he basically said, "how about we get out of here?" The bottle blonde said, "whatever," threw her cigarette on the ground, and walked away WITH HIM.

I was in absolute shock. None of this girl's body language communicated that she was interested at all, but this guy continued to treat this girl as if it was his little sister and deflected every rejection she gave him. He persisted by staying next to her (since she wasn't really "trying to get away" from him), and somehow managed to get her to come with him, even after she had just called him an asshole. It flew in the face of everything I thought I knew about these girls. At that moment, I realized that everything they did was just a facade -- a facade to deflect the weak and inexperienced and to filter out the strong and experienced.

I'll never forget that one experience, and it sits comfortably in my memory whenever I approach your typical "bottle blonde" or All-American girl. I remember, "her bitchiness is just a test. She wants you to pass that test."

If you can have the same attitude, then you have a chance of seeing the same success.

- Franco

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

I am of Indian descent and I have done well with the hot blonde types in Arizona and to an extent, in California too but I was in Northern California where we don't have as many. What I find is that being very extroverted helps because that is a trait that earns you social status and popularity.

One thing I would like to emphasize is a focus on sports, athletics, and just pure physical activities. MMA fighter type guys I know tend to do amazing with the hot blonde types. The Asian guys I have seen who got into MMA managed to get some of the blonde bimbo type girls as girlfriends, same for other ethnic guys like Latinos. You can see it in high school where football players get the hot blonde types and similarly in college as well. Most of these types do not care for the indoor, introverted, and brainy type of guys, they want the masculine and macho types that you see in sports, military, and other physically demanding activities. I have never known a nerd or geek that was able to pull a hot blonde because he was good in Chess or at videogames. Your entire appearance and image has to scream masculine and athletic, if it does not, then you will struggle a lot with these types.

Asian men like this can do well with the hot blonde types

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Just read a report recently of a black man that killed himself because he could not get Asian girls. Overall, it would seem like along with blonde white women, Asian women are the group most sought after but also the most stuck up. As a white guy I have had a good bit of success with them and have not found them hard, they are much easier than blondes but it just comes to show the one thing we need to acknowledge.

Women are just different based on niche and appearance. We can talk all day about "not putting them on a pedestal" but if you're using the same game and style for the blonde bombshell that you are using for the cute brunette with glasses, I got news, it is time to get real.

Chase, I have to applaud you for going so deep on this and admitting that women are different rather than preaching the same old "just be alpha" PUA nonsense that a lot of these pickup gurus do. I think your post might have saved a life, who fucking knows, maybe I am exaggerating, but seriously, it just might have stopped a man from killing himself.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

I wonder if there is a method in madness to all of this. Maybe hot blondes act like bitches because they have seen the world for what it actually is. For example, they grew up being ugly or not as hot and were mistreated in their younger years. Then when they grew into their looks or improved their appearance, they wanted to take their anger and frustration out on the public because it was their way of getting back at everyone.

 

[Chase]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Fuji-

I wonder if there is a method in madness to all of this. Maybe hot blondes act like bitches because they have seen the world for what it actually is. For example, they grew up being ugly or not as hot and were mistreated in their younger years. Then when they grew into their looks or improved their appearance, they wanted to take their anger and frustration out on the public because it was their way of getting back at everyone.

Most people don't stay revengeful too long. Every now and then you'll meet someone who constructs his entire identity around getting revenge for perceived former slights, but it's quite rare, because typically by the point you get the ability to hold that kind of power over your 'enemies' and they like you and admire you, you adjust to your new paradigm (being well-liked and successful) and simply milk it and enjoy rather than use it to exact your wrath on innocents for all those past misdeeds done to you by others.

What you might be picking up on instead is the fear / hesitancy / uncertainty from a person who feels to some extent like she is an imitator because she wasn't always the pretty, popular girl. She's afraid of two things:

• 1.) You might be a refurbished model too, just like her, in which case you're not what she wants (she wants legit)
  
  2.) You might be legit, yet see through her disguise, and then the ruse is up and she feels yucky and low value again

So she'll be testing to see if:

• a.) You're legit, and
  
  b.) You appreciate her

If you're too legit - like, a seriously cool, solid guy - that can actually be too much, much like how guys who didn't used to be cool but remade themselves into "pretty cool" auto-reject super hot girls without even talking to them: "No way, that girl won't like me. I'm not even going to chat to her", or if she talks to them they're accidentally cold or unresponsive.

That might be more why bottle blondes go for the douchey jerk guys - this guy's not the coolest guy out there, but he's pretty cool, yet not so cool she thinks he has the social savvy to see through her and catch a glimpse of her not-homecoming queen high school self. She doesn't like the perceptive guy. She doesn't like James Bond or George Clooney. She likes the guy with spiky hair and a cocky grin. He's a fun-yet-safe option for her ego, which is probably the most important thing to her (more important than hooking up or a boyfriend - the image she constructs may actually be more for herself than to attract her dream guy, and the dream guy is selected more for his ability to bolster her self-image and not detract from it by seeing through it or failing to appreciate it).

Chase

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

I don't know if this has been answered but Chase, in your opinion, what makes these women into such bitches?

The white girls I have known who were the biggest cunts and usually the coldest bitches were also blonde. Just a week ago I went to a restaurant with a bar and I tried to find a person to take my order (you had to actually be at the bar to get your order in). Some blonde waitress was the only one standing around and she saw me too but she ignored me. It was a male who had to take my order.

Now granted I am in the south and I was the only guy in the room that was brown (Arab) while the rest of the guys were good ol southern boys. Even then, I have received awesome treatment from brunettes and redheads but blondes have usually been cunts. I have never met a woman in my entire life that was blonde, attractive, and a good person. I remember reading your post and saw that you had the same exact experiences.

What gives?

Is it a cultural thing perhaps? Like are women from Northern European and Scandinavian countries typically cunts?

 

[Lotus]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

I have never met a woman in my entire life that was blonde, attractive, and a good person.

quite a judgmental statement right there...... that attitude is going to get you really far in life.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

I have never met a woman in my entire life that was blonde, attractive, and a good person.

quite a judgmental statement right there...... that attitude is going to get you really far in life.

Calling it as I see it man. Maybe it's because I am Arab but most blondes I have met who were good looking were usually bitches, when I say most I mean all. It sucks a shit ton that I am heavily attracted to them but I notice that they are the fakest, coldest, and some of the most entitled women out there. I will keep playing the game but hopefully one day I do run into a girl that is blonde, attractive, and a good person. When I say good person, I mean kind to me of course lol.

Can't help but think that my location (the south) is screwing me over hardcore.

 

[Chase]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Altair-

I don't know if this has been answered but Chase, in your opinion, what makes these women into such bitches?

Check out the article linked at the start of this post.

I have never met a woman in my entire life that was blonde, attractive, and a good person.

I've met loads.

But sometimes they didn't seem like it back when I wasn't able to get past the armor.

That said, you're clearly not remotely empathetic towards attractive blondes. That tells me right there you're probably in an impossible place for getting anywhere with them, at least until that changes. No girl wants to date, sleep with, or give her phone number to someone who hates her and thinks her actions are foolish and wrongheaded.

If you want to change that, read the article. Then DO the article.

If you don't, forget about bottle blondes and find some girl you empathize with.

Don't be that bitter guy who refuses to learn how to do well at applying for jobs and interviewing, then spends the rest of his life moaning about how terrible businesses are for never giving him a shot at a worthy position. No one wants to hear it - if you want the thing, learn how to get it. If you're not going to learn how to get it, quit whining about it and go focus on something else that's more within your reach.

Is it a cultural thing perhaps? Like are women from Northern European and Scandinavian countries typically cunts?

Answered in the article - give it a read.

Chase

 

[ray_zorse]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

I haven't read the article in a while so I may be talking out of turn, but I wonder if it is an American thing. Here in Aussie I do not see any real difference in behaviour between blonde, bottle blonde, brunette, red hair, ... there are some cultural differences between international students / graduates and Aussies, but I also do not see any significant difference in behaviour between Australian-born Asians or black or anyone else. It is also reported that European girls in USA (who are often blonde if Scandinavian but might be brunettes from the south of Italy or Greece, Turkey etc... or bottle blondes from there... or any combination) are often pretty kind and receptive, even further confirming my suspicion that it's an American thing. What I do see is quite a stratification based on hotness and social standing, and some bitch shield / shit testing on that basis. But it does not seem correlated with hair colour IMO. Interestingly, bottle blonde Asians are particularly friendly and open (and hot in my eyes) which I think is because they are making some kind of hipster / hippyish statement reflecting their personality.
Ray

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Call me crazy for this Chase but wouldn't hating them and undermining them be better for me than lusting after them? I mean there has to be some game principle involved to where if you really hate certain kinds of women, you might do better with them. I am just not attracted to Asian, black, or Indian girls yet I notice that they tend to like me a lot. Maybe I am confused on where to draw the line between indifference, hate, or something like that.

I feel like in the past whenever I have shown even some remote interest towards the hot blonde, it has backfired on me. Right now I guess I am at a point to where I am scared to like the hot blonde because I just fear that history will keep repeating itself like it always has. I read your article to where you said you had moments in the game where you would actively avoid blonde bombshells or groups of girls with blonde bombshells in them. Shouldn't that sort of indifference towards them draw them to you?

Just to point one thing out, I love good looking white girls with blonde hair in general whether it is bleached or natural. Unfortunately, I have found that even good looking blondes that seem natural are quite stuck up and full of themselves so I think your article can apply to both the bleached princesses and natural blondes.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

I haven't read the article in a while so I may be talking out of turn, but I wonder if it is an American thing. Here in Aussie I do not see any real difference in behaviour between blonde, bottle blonde, brunette, red hair, ... there are some cultural differences between international students / graduates and Aussies, but I also do not see any significant difference in behaviour between Australian-born Asians or black or anyone else. It is also reported that European girls in USA (who are often blonde if Scandinavian but might be brunettes from the south of Italy or Greece, Turkey etc... or bottle blondes from there... or any combination) are often pretty kind and receptive, even further confirming my suspicion that it's an American thing. What I do see is quite a stratification based on hotness and social standing, and some bitch shield / shit testing on that basis. But it does not seem correlated with hair colour IMO. Interestingly, bottle blonde Asians are particularly friendly and open (and hot in my eyes) which I think is because they are making some kind of hipster / hippyish statement reflecting their personality.
Ray

Usually, girls in popular crowds will make themselves blonde so it has more to do with crowd + looks with hair color just being a side effect. I go to college in the southern part of the USA where Greek Life (fraternities, sororities, etc.) is massive and a lot of sorority girls bleach their hair blonde to pull off the blonde bombshell look. Sorority girls have a reputation for having some of the worst traits of western women such as being stuck up, rude, entitled, and self-centered.

I heard Australia has a lot of Lebanese guys and brown people in general, have you personally seen Middle Eastern and brown men in the country do well with the Margot Robbie lookalikes? It gets me that whenever I see a middle eastern guy with a white girl she is always a brunette and sometimes a redhead but never ever a blonde bombshell type unless you're talking about those rich Arab sheikhs.

 

[ray_zorse]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Absolutely man, in fact I went fishing last month at a fish farm, it was not crowded, just myself and my 3 kids and a group of Chinese tourists... then a handsome Lebanese guy came in wearing (IIRC) an open necked white shirt, some gold jewellery, neat hairstyle and a little stubble... with a stunning Aussie (or perhaps European) blonde on his arm. I immediately thought of you, I wanted to get a pic but it would have been too obvious since it was not crowded. I think she was possibly his wife, could be yours too Persevere my brother
Ray

 

[Anonymous]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

It's easy to generalize that a whole group of women (bottle blondes) are "bitchy" and whatnot, but even if you've approached several of them, you're not exactly getting an accurate picture of who they are. Unless you've been friends with a lot of them, been immersed in their social circles and environments and understand their cultural background, making those generalizations from a handful of experiences is inaccurate.

It's just as fallacious as a girl judging who you are on the first 5 minutes of meeting you, based on your shitty approach because you were nervous and you didn't come correct.

I'm willing to bet that the guys that complain the most about having no luck with these women, have the least experience, if any at all, approaching them and having genuine interactions with them. It's an easy excuse to call a girl a bitch because you failed to get her to drop her shields and relax.

If that's the case, and you're just getting bad response after bad response, you're probably doing something wrong. Because even with just a hint of social calibration, even a "bottle blonde" wouldn't castrate you for approaching.

And you have to realize that in high pressure social situations, and where there's social reputations and "face" to be managed, if you aren't savvy enough to navigate the social situation and gauge properly, she'll reject you because you're being awkward or weird and she's not gonna take a social risk on you, a stranger who has failed to bring any social value to the table.

 

[Smith]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Altair,

Talk to everyone man. I can't believe you're not making any progress since I last saw your post on the board a few months ago. If you're only talking to blondes, then you're putting them on pedestals. Blondes (natural or bottled) are not any better than brunettes, red head, black hair, orange hair, purple hair, rainbow hair...etc. And you can't know this unless you talk to everyone and enjoy yourself while doing so. Just ENJOY talking to women for now. They're not your enemy. They are on your team. =)

 

[Chase]

Re: The blonde bombshell article shows just how real this site is, thanks Chase!

Altair-

I am just not attracted to Asian, black, or Indian girls yet I notice that they tend to like me a lot. Maybe I am confused on where to draw the line between indifference, hate, or something like that.

Are you sleeping with these girls?

If not, this is all just so much mental masturbation.

When a man adopts a goal of "be liked", it's a short road to hell from there. Read this:

Why It’s Bad to Want to Be Liked Too Much

Then, read this:

Reactions from Women or Results with Women?

What's more important, if a girl likes you, or if a girl sleeps with you?

From what I can tell, your net results with black women, Asian women, Indian women, and blondes have been the same across the board: 0. I don't see a whole lot of effort being made either. Lay reports by Altair? 0. Field reports by Altair? Also 0. Zero zero zero. "Can someone tell me how to just think a certain thought and then women will hop on my cock?" Nope, doesn't work that way. "But I would like to just think some way and then women are on my cock." Nope, sorry. Gotta put the work in. "But surely there must be a way to just think about it, just right, and then women are unzipping me right in the-" Nope. Field experience. Only way.

I've met a lot of women who really liked me but never slept with me. I've forgotten about nearly all of these women, and I'm certain they've all since forgotten me. Our meeting in life was pleasant but fleeting. I've also met a lot of women who did not much like me, but slept with me and even dated me after (needless to say, after a while dating you / getting orgasms from you, they come to like you a good bit more). These women I remember fondly, and I'm sure they remember me fondly as well. Our meeting in life is always fulfilling and memorable.

You're going to have a bad time if your life is all about being liked by some certain kind of group. The neediness and insecurity you exhibit ends up being off-putting.

Disinterest towards black/Asian/Indian girls is not the equivalent of auto-rejection towards blondes. Disinterest and auto-rejection are two completely different emotions.

Disinterest says "I think I'm better than you, or at least we're on parallel paths and not interacting."

Auto-rejection says "I think you're better than me and way out of my reach."

These two emotions manifest themselves in quite clear ways to anyone who's remotely paying attention, and women are always paying attention. If you think she's better than you (even if you think you're hiding it by putting up your auto-rejection shield - you're not), she DEFINITELY thinks she's better than you. And no woman wants to date a man who's beneath her.

You need to break your rut. Read these and do this:

• Lower Your Standards (and Date Hotter Girls)
• Want Dates? Then Approach Girls
• Newbie Assignment

Chase

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

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Chase's post on this thread is so relevant to what happened to me and surprise surprise, it was with a good looking blonde who was good looking in a trashy way (think Eminem's wife kim type of good looking and not Heather Graham type of good looking), the last kind of woman you'd expect to sleep with a guy like me. Whenever I would go to the place she worked at, she'd be a total bitch towards me. The place attracts shady guys (pun not intended, referring to the eminem reference) and these are the kind of guys who are supposed to hate men that look like me, she associates with these guys and is close to some of them. Anyways, I could tell the story but as weird and strange as it sounds, this is the post.

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