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Still heavy fear, but vibe and overall sexual magnetism are improving. Working to improve conversations, become more comfortable, and simplify my processes.
From Hector, focusing on the following:
Girls are behaving much more attracted to me off the bat, and so I just need to learn to capitalize on that much better.
Had an instant date opportunity today, but got too nervous to actually suggest it and grabbed the number instead. Very annoyed by that since the girl seemed free, was cute, and had a great ass.
Probably some boyfriend value issues. Date yesterday said my vibe was much more prim and proper than dirty and sexual. Not sure how to fix that stylistically.
From Hector, focusing on the following:
- No cold reads (I'm doing it as a crutch and it's coming across too mechanical)
- No trying to be witty (try hard)
- If I don't know what to say, say nothing (build and be comfortable with tension)
- Say random shit (self amusement + more natural conversation)
- More natural and expressive facial expressions (warmth, emotional contagion, non-roboticness)
Girls are behaving much more attracted to me off the bat, and so I just need to learn to capitalize on that much better.
Had an instant date opportunity today, but got too nervous to actually suggest it and grabbed the number instead. Very annoyed by that since the girl seemed free, was cute, and had a great ass.
Probably some boyfriend value issues. Date yesterday said my vibe was much more prim and proper than dirty and sexual. Not sure how to fix that stylistically.