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The Ladykiller Chronicles

Kvothe

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Still heavy fear, but vibe and overall sexual magnetism are improving. Working to improve conversations, become more comfortable, and simplify my processes.

From Hector, focusing on the following:
  1. No cold reads (I'm doing it as a crutch and it's coming across too mechanical)
  2. No trying to be witty (try hard)
  3. If I don't know what to say, say nothing (build and be comfortable with tension)
  4. Say random shit (self amusement + more natural conversation)
  5. More natural and expressive facial expressions (warmth, emotional contagion, non-roboticness)
One more pull, which makes my date pull rate quite high, and LMR being the new sticking point. Exciting!

Girls are behaving much more attracted to me off the bat, and so I just need to learn to capitalize on that much better.

Had an instant date opportunity today, but got too nervous to actually suggest it and grabbed the number instead. Very annoyed by that since the girl seemed free, was cute, and had a great ass.

Probably some boyfriend value issues. Date yesterday said my vibe was much more prim and proper than dirty and sexual. Not sure how to fix that stylistically.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

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Still heavy fear, but vibe and overall sexual magnetism are improving. Working to improve conversations, become more comfortable, and simplify my processes.

From Hector, focusing on the following:
  1. No cold reads (I'm doing it as a crutch and it's coming across too mechanical)
  2. No trying to be witty (try hard)
  3. If I don't know what to say, say nothing (build and be comfortable with tension)
  4. Say random shit (self amusement + more natural conversation)
  5. More natural and expressive facial expressions (warmth, emotional contagion, non-roboticness)
One more pull, which makes my date pull rate quite high, and LMR being the new sticking point. Exciting!

Girls are behaving much more attracted to me off the bat, and so I just need to learn to capitalize on that much better.

Had an instant date opportunity today, but got too nervous to actually suggest it and grabbed the number instead. Very annoyed by that since the girl seemed free, was cute, and had a great ass.

Probably some boyfriend value issues. Date yesterday said my vibe was much more prim and proper than dirty and sexual. Not sure how to fix that stylistically.
That is actually really good advice..... 6.- more subtle touches and subs (like micro escalations)....
 

Kvothe

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That is actually really good advice..... 6.- more subtle touches and subs (like micro escalations)....
micro escalating kino wise is actually one of the areas I'm more comfortable with, so this one at least is better baseline than the others :)

what are subs? Sub communications?
 

Kvothe

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yes subcommunications
Good article on subs

 
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