LR - Redhead Dancer
I'll be writing this brief LR from an undisclosed location/event away from my normal base of operations.
Met this one at a pre-party taking place at a bar. From the moment we started dancing it was on. She was very sensual/helping build sexual tension in the way she was dancing with me, which telegraphed to me that this woman was more likely to be receptive to me attempting to seduce her. This appears to be key to fast pickups when it comes to women in the dance community - if they let you build a high amount of sexual tension during the dancing, essentially by not moving their face away when you come in close, almost kissing but not quite, it means they are more likely to be "rock and roll" girls.
She definitely has a bit excess body fat, especially around her booty. But it was her face, and the way she looked at me and smiled at me, that turned me on.
I tried to pull right there at the bar by asking her if she wanted to get out of there. She knew exactly what I was trying to do. It was a "I know that you know that I know" moment. She told me she came with her roommate but that she would text me later, I get the phone #. We parted after that and I went to go interact/dance with some other women, and after a while I noticed she was no longer in the bar. I was afraid I had lost the opportunity. However, once I leave the bar with some friends I spot her talking on the phone outside. I approach and she asks me where I am going/touches me with her hand, tells me she is just catching up with a friend. Game on.
There was an after party going on in someone's hotel room. I tell her I'll text her and meet her there. She says ok. We meet at this party, dance, and then chat/build comfort some more at a balcony connected to the room. At first it was a group conversation on the balcony with others which transitioned into a one-on-one conversation away from the others. I pull again from the balcony and she accepts, we leave together quickly - she doesn't bother saying goodbye to people and neither did I. Again, I think she wanted this to happen, but discretely.
Once at my room (conveniently close to the party room) it was easy to make stuff happen. The moment we finally kiss was very passionate, and hot, because it was a release of all that tension from earlier. A glimmer of LMR when I went to her nipple, which dissipated once I took my hard dick out.
Post sex, asked her the normal question - when did you decide you were going to fuck me. She tells me in the room. Maybe this is when her conscious mind decided to as a final decision, but she was definitely aiding the seduction and leaving the windows open throughout the entire process.
Other notes:
-- Being fit helps. She commented several times how good I looked.
-- Told me the comfort building on the balcony helped. Says it was clear I'm a smart man, and she has a thing for smart men.
-- Does not believe in monogamy and says we have been sold a lie.
-- Her main concern pre-sex was that it would be awkward afterwards, that the sexual tension would go away and that allowing me to escalate would ruin that dynamic. Luckily this concern was not enough to derail the seduction. But it might be good to keep this mind with other women, as in, introduce the right frames about sexuality to counter this with other women if necessary.
-- Have to move fast and make the ask at the right moment, especially in this "event" situation. Obviously it's best to be at top energy in the early morning hours, especially in an environment like this with 24 hour dancing. Still figuring out how to best manage my own energy levels so I'm not completely beat and tired when it's the best time to be doing fast seductions.
-- It is best to find a girl to focus on and move fast with that one girl. It is tempting in a target-rich environment to go for many women at once, and constantly divide your attention between them, but it ends up backfiring when none of them have enough comfort to actually go back to your room with you. Or worse, other men get in an seize an opportunity before you. This is an art that requires identifying the right opportunity, focusing all of my attention on that one woman for a while (maybe dancing several songs in a row), before making the pull and not allowing distractions to get in the way of that.
