Smash City

[Bismarck]

Tuesday 1 August
From 7 to 8 went to do the rounds. I had done 10 mins meditation beforehand but fell asleep during it.

I had seen a pretty tall stylish girl with blonde hair lugging a backpack earlier in the day during lunchtime stroll and hadn't approached because I wasn't fast enough when crunch time came to decide to do so.

I first approached a hot Asian girl at the park who was listening to music on her headphones. I told her she looked like she spoke English and then asked her what music she was listening to, before asking her where she was from. She never really hooked though. Then when I asked her what she was up to and she said she was going home to her friends' (she was here just visiting for the first time), she said she had a bf (TM).

After this, I went up to a stylish girl in the train station and told her her style was nice. She blushed. Before that, I'd lost courage twice, but then I told myself I'd at least just go and do the compliment drive-by. Glad I did.

After this, I didn't approach anymore as the only other set I saw was too far.

 

[Bismarck]

Thursday 3 August
I was on the subway going home from work and randomly sat next to this sexy-bodied late teen. After a bit, I tapped her shoulder so she would take off her headphones and asked her what music she was listening to. She showed me her cellphone's screen and I read the band's title. I asked her what type of music it was, and she said "pop." I then asked her if it was in French, to which she said "yes," before putting her earphone back on.

Saturday 5 August
Was walking home from groceries and just noticed this Latin beaut walking in my direction. Had like 1 second to compose myself so she just passed me by, as I wasn't really paying attention.

 

[Bismarck]

I just came back from holidays 7 to 16 August.

I went with a friend to a beach town and stayed at a hostel for two nights, then at a hotel for another. Then I left him and met with another dude, staying alone one final night at another beach town.

The experience of staying in a hostel was unique. I had only stayed in hostels maybe twice before, once in Poland and another time in Austria, and had had subpar experiences.

At the Polish hostel, I had caught bedbugs, despite, on the plus side, having had drinks with the guys I was there with and the girls working at the hostel, one of which was a bombshell. At the Austrian hostel, I was woken up during the night by a drunk reveler who returned and was barking away on his smartphone. I had to tell him to shut up, which he did, waking me up in the process.

This time was better because I bought earplugs and a solid eyemask I'd purchased in Manhattan when I went there last year. Armed with these items, I was able to sleep pretty well - about 8 hours my first night, and 5 or 6 my second.

What I loved about the hostel was the social side. In the kitchen, it was natural and easy to meet people, and at the patio outside I called everyone to join us and sit together (people were sitting spread out in little groups at different tables) and we ended up going out together on the first and second nights, and I bumped into two girls from the hostel our third night there when my bro and I were already staying at a hotel quite close by.

I was confronted with the fact that even a 20-year-old girl, in her fertile prime, with a perfect body, and a cute face, is attracted to me, despite knowing my age (early thirties), simply from watching me lead and be social at the hostel. As has happened in the past, I couldn't accept that this was the case and didn't make out with her or escalate physicality at the club, attempting the pull way too late (3.30 a.m.) after dancing with them for more than 2 hours, losing the frame in the process.

 

[Skills]

I just came back from holidays 7 to 16 August.

I went with a friend to a beach town and stayed at a hostel for two nights, then at a hotel for another. Then I left him and met with another dude, staying alone one final night at another beach town.

The experience of staying in a hostel was unique. I had only stayed in hostels maybe twice before, once in Poland and another time in Austria, and had had subpar experiences.

At the Polish hostel, I had caught bedbugs, despite, on the plus side, having had drinks with the guys I was there with and the girls working at the hostel, one of which was a bombshell. At the Austrian hostel, I was woken up during the night by a drunk reveler who returned and was barking away on his smartphone. I had to tell him to shut up, which he did, waking me up in the process.

This time was better because I bought earplugs and a solid eyemask I'd purchased in Manhattan when I went there last year. Armed with these items, I was able to sleep pretty well - about 8 hours my first night, and 6 or 7 my second.

What I loved about the hostel was the social side. In the kitchen, it was natural and easy to meet people, and at the patio outside I called everyone together (people were sitting spread out in little groups at different tables) and we ended up going out together on the first and second nights, and I bumped into two girls from the hostel our third night there when my bro and I were already staying at a hotel quite close by.

I was confronted with the fact that even a 20-year-old girl, in her fertile prime, with a perfect body, and a cute face, is attracted to me, despite knowing my age (early thirties), simply from watching me lead and be social at the hostel. As has happened in the past, I couldn't accept that this was the case and didn't make out with her or escalate physicality at the club, attempting the pull way too late (3.30 a.m.) after dancing with them for more than 2 hours, losing the frame in the process.

In the dance floor age pretty much doesn't matter way less than any form of game... No escalating physically in the dance floor for 2 hours death sentence

 

[Bismarck]

Thanks for chiming in Skills!

Yeah, they were two girls who were staying in the hostel. One was a dime, and the other had a cute face but was on the slightly too many chocolate cakes side. Since they've been friends since age 5, they probs know each other's dirty secrets.

They hadn't gone out on nights 1 or 2. We bumped into them on our last night, which was not logistically ideal. My buddy's WBAFC friend joined us, and the girls didn't know him. At the same time, my buddy couldn't simply ignore him since it was his friend. Because of this, he couldn't occupy the chocolate cake chick so I could isolate the dime. I had to give both girls the same amount of attention to keep both their energies up.

That said, at some point about 30 minutes into bumping into them, when I first put my hand around dime's back to say something to her, she literally turned and seemed to be ready for makeout. I only noticed this post-facto though, since I was exhausted after 2 straight nights out going to sleep at 3 and then 4 a.m., and having had sleep interrupted at the 5/6-hour mark the night before due to a phone call.

This was after the dime bought me a tequila shot. They were both super compliant. As I said, even without running a drop of game, just my presence at the hostel on both previous nights (at the patio for pre-drinks) was enough to whet their wawas.

 

[Bismarck]

Wednesday 16 August
I'd just returned from hols and was doing groceries when I espied this short bespectacled blonde near the egg section. Since my hands were full I told her, "Hey, could you do me a small favor and grab a 6-pack of those bio eggs for me?" which she did. Then I said "Thanks!"

Later, I saw that she was in a check-out queue parallel to mine. Still later, once I was done paying for and bagging my groceries, I bumped into her as she finished bagging hers. I said "Thanks for your help earlier" and segwayed into chit-chat where are you from etc. At some point I think she hooked, asking me something though I don't remember what. We stepped out of the supermarket together and walked a little side-by-side until she said "I have to turn here" and bolted before I could exchange contact details and suggest a rematch.

Thursday 17 August
Went for a beer with a buddy (beer at night before going to sleep is contraindicated, since it keeps your heart rate above the rhythm or beat it should have to rest, leading to less restorative sleep (less deep or REM sleep)) so even though I finished it at around 8 p.m., having crashed at 10.30 p.m., 2.5 hours later, I slept a good amount of time but sleep quality was slightly affected. Still, this meant I didn't go do the rounds.

Friday 18 August
I went jogging this morning and saw a dime jog past. Later, during lunchtime stroll, I saw naught.

Still later, I was on my way, at 3.40 p.m., to a GP appointment, when I saw this girl with short-cropped hair dyed red, dressed in yellow and black. She was walking in my direction and was cute and hot.

I said "Hey," and she stopped, then I said "Your style is quite nice," and smiled slightly.
She said "Thanks" I quickly segwayed with "Are you in fashion?" to which she said "No, I wish, I study in this school here," and pointed behind me.
I said, "What school is that?" and turned to look.
She said it was an xxx school. I said I worked in the field.
Then I said "So you're on your way to class?" and she said "No, I have an exam," I said, "What time is it over?" She said "I don't know" so I said, "OK, bye."
Would have been cool to try to close regardless ("Let's go celebrate your great performance in that exam over a refreshment in xxx rooftop bar once I get off work!")

On my way back home from this GP appointment regarding which I hadn't informed my supervisor (pretending I was still teleworking) I saw another dime walk past me. She had eyeliner on, two braids on either side of her dark brown hair, a red top with a black Spider-Man-type print on it, and tight-fitting trousers. Her belly button was visible. She was cute and hot. As she walked past me, she eyed me intently.

Looking back, I wish I had approached! But I was worried that somebody in my team may have contacted me at work...

From 7.30 p.m.-8.30 p.m., after 15 minutes of meditation that were just me passing out asleep as I sat comfortably in my office chair by the veranda, I went to do the rounds.

At first, I saw nothing worthy of note, until I reached the area immediately surrounding a rooftop bar that I have taken a few girls to in recent months. There, in rapid succession, I saw about 6 if not more high-quality babes (looks-wise) one of which was a stationary set (hot blonde sitting by statue) and the other one a hot model-like lithe brunette walking in my direction as if she was on a runway.

Nevertheless, I approached nothing. This has solidified my resolve to do so tomorrow, as I have the entire day off and we are experiencing a heatwave here, which is usually good because girls get hornier.

 

[Bismarck]

Saturday 19 August
Approached this cute fit older chick (late twenties/early thirties) who was walking in my direction around 3.50 p.m. today and we had a really smooth exchange. She had a deep voice, like a girl who's swallowed a lot of spermatozoa. Grabbed her digits and she said "so few men do this nowadays, and it's brave". She said she'd just come from a nice date with someone else, so... and I said "Nw, if you fall in love with someone else it's all good"

Went to meet a girl I've mentioned here in the journal last year over the summer who I organized some hikes she came to who ever since the internship 2.5 years ago was always taken (had a bf) but who has just broken up. So am gonna try to smash now, when she comes back from holidays next weekend.

Was out to buy fries and I bumped into this Asian chick. Got her to give me one of her fries (compliance request) then started chatting, then took her to another place, where we sat eating, then I wanted to bring her back home (I wanted to go home to have dinner with the fries I'd bought) but she started excuse tapes, so I bid her my farewells.

Plenty of other talent about.

 

[Bismarck]

Friday 25 August
I went to meet a girl that came on a tour I gave on Sunday 20 August who lives here. We met up at 8.50 p.m. and at 1.30 a.m. I called her an uber. Seamless date, we hit two bars, super smooth. She was the most interesting girl I’ve ever been on a date with, and I only got slight resistance (token) when I started taking her clothes off back at mine.

I managed to talk about having sex in the conversation, without having to weasel it in, I just seized a good moment to talk about it (with a girl from a particular country, as we were talking about people from that nationality) and during that also said that I respected that said girl was “sexually confident, in touch with her sexuality” but that we had had “no connection” and that she “didn’t know how to flirt.”

I held her hand about 15 minutes into the date as we sat chatting to which she said “now you’re flirting with me” but she didn’t resist. At the second bar (I could tell she needed more time, hence the bounce), because I could tell she was feeling cold, I started rubbing her arm, making sure to subtly graze her breast as I did so. Our legs were also touching.

The connection with her was super intense. This time I decided to wear a rubber when she asked for it, but when we went for a rematch, she didn’t ask and I didn’t put it on, finishing up inside her. She said I made her cum as well.

Monday 28 August
I woke up with a massive hard-on.

I was on my way to work – I’d just walked out of my building – I spotted a super-hot Asian woman at a touristic attraction taking selfies. It was 8.20 a.m. or so. I went up to her, said “Hey” to get her attention, then stated “You speak English,” to which she said, “Yes, I only speak English”.

She was beautiful. Probably Chinese. Tastefully dressed. Lithe, slim, and succulent.

I delivered Gun’s drive-by opener: “Look, I’m in a rush right now,” to which she said, “Me too”.

I continued, “I must get to the office. But if you give me your number, I’ll take you out for a drink later.”

She replied: “I’m flying back to China at 1 but I can go for a coffee. Do you still want my number?”

I said, “I must get to the office, so I won’t be available this morning. Sorry”

Later in the day, I saw more baes but I didn't approach. Including what looked like a really hot young brunette dressed in a white top and tight-fitting pants that showed part of her elegant legs, who walked in my direction as I was on my way to buy Chinese takeaway just now (it must have been close to 6 p.m.) Her eyes met mine for a slow second as we crossed paths. She was walking fast though.

Social circle-like game (taking a page out of Mystery's schematics)
It’s a brilliant idea, that of using the opportunities of hanging out with girlfriends (e.g., at the coffee shop yesterday afternoon) to open the other hot girls sitting at tables at the coffee shop. Yesterday there was a succulent young short-haired brunette with a derriere to die for who was sitting alone for a time until her waddling sow friend joined her, who also gave AIs as I was going to get my smoothie and returning to our table.

There were also two bombshell baes sitting at the table behind ours who looked my way more than once.

Any opener delivered in such scenarios would have to either be something situational or indirect. Yesterday I could have asked her if she wanted to join us if she was feeling lonely, with a smirk, or simply asked her where she was from, and complimented her style. Before the sow.

Am currently trying to put together an outing this Thursday with girls for social proof for the sole purpose of opening top-quality young twat in our immediate vicinity (have scouted a bar that seems to attract almost exclusively a college-aged crowd, was stacked floor to ceiling in vag the other day after work).

 

[Bismarck]

So I've been seeing this girl from the tour, smashing once a week, and she's great in bed, super sexual, amazing at sucking dick, deepthroat, lets me go in raw, etc.

She giggles in this girly way and I find her really interesting (her academic exploits have been quite impressive) BUT

• She's 35 - her pussy gets really loose after I cum inside her once, to the extent that I can't really orgasm because it isn't tight enough
• Her nose is too big
• Her waist is slim but her buttcheeks sag slightly

If I'm honest with myself I only selected her out of the two girls who live here who came on my tour that day in August because she seemed greener. The American girl who was with her was pretty and seemed hotter physically (but she's had a bf for the last two years...). As soon as I started banging this one she went radio silent though as they are friends and obvi girls talk.

There's this other, younger, cute girl who I number closed after she sold me ice cream outside the office twice. I've written about her here on this thread. She's back in town tomorrow and we're scheduling a date, should be good. (She ghosted...)

On the social front, I've gotten in with a lively (possibly cool) group of younger kids, in their mid-twenties, and it's fun times. Still learning which (if any) girls are up for grabs in the extended circles (looks like there are plenty of fish stocks ready for my fish crusher here). Am still a bit of a beginner on that front. Thanks to Dev and Skippy for helping me with texting (and a big shout out to TomInHo as the author of some of the solutions successfully applied).

 

[Bismarck]

OK reading what I wrote above it seems a bit harsh, I mean my "bottom bitch" is an amazing girl, despite yes not being the most physically attractive specimen on the planet. But her personality is very attractive. And she's quite gifted in the horizontal arts.

I've been pondering something - it seems that a guy almost needs to be fucking other girl(s) in order not to be needy with hotties, because when you're already cumming inside another gal you're less needy by default. Your sexual confidence with the new babe will also be higher if the sex you're already having is good. Less chance of giving off "lack of emotional self-control" vibes, as you're already bonding emotionally with someone else. Whatever happens with the new girl, you've already got pussy. So, as I wrote on the old mASF 13 years ago, "pussy attracts pussy."

 

[Bismarck]

Not sure if you guys have this, but here goes.

When a girl I don't find physically attractive compliments my looks, it has no effect on me whatsoever. I suppose it's the same when a guy with poor fashion sense, grooming, posture, physique, etc. compliments a babe?

Bottom B wanted to "define" us last night, saying she didn't want to just smash, and I told her I think she's an amazing person and that I would be happy to just be friends. Problem solved.

Now I'm working on an Italian who just started working in a separate section of my corporation. She has a body to die for, seems to be 27 (a bit older than I'd like, but you can't have everything) and has an OK face (not ugly, not beautiful, plain I'd call her).

Chase's 4 approaches a day for 30 days challenge, OTOH, is tickling me with curiosity...I've already missed September though...still, first two months of a new college year (plenty of campuses around my digs) are like shooting fish in a barrel...

 

[Bismarck]

I am copying this from my post in Skills' end-of-the-year review thread:

pre-corona: 2019 (10 girls), corona / no more guiding: 2020 (3 girls), 2021 (4 girls), post-corona: 2022 (6 girls), 2023 (5 girls). Still, in my most promiscuous years I was doing 2014 (16 girls), 2015 (16 girls), and 2017 (15 girls), which in itself isn't much more than 1 girl per month.

So in 2023 I smashed five broads:

• one from a house party I threw for NYE (23-y-o)
• one from cold approach after a couple of approaches (all the way from 4 May until 23 June when I approached her, with a break between 17 and 22 May when I was overseas) (a 25-y-o)
• another from SC that I approached at a house party the last day I fucked the 25-y-o (a 29-y-o)
• one from my tours (a 35-y-o)
• another one from extended SC (a 28-y-o)

I'm satisfied with the average quality of the girls I porked; my only complaint would be that I didn't smash more broads or, at least, that I didn't manage to retain those I enjoyed meeting (actually, all of them).

I have troubleshot the issue: in this day and age girls seem to have a more adversarial attitude (vis-a-vis female empowerment and anti-male radfem ideology about male chauvinism and rape) in the boudoir, so you sort of have to buckle a bit at the start (this didn't use to be the case, btw, I spent years smashing girls sans condom first smash without a second thought, never got any drama for it until 2023), and suit up, and then let her be the one to suggest au naturel.

Anyway, holding the condomless frame, and simultaneously ejaculating inside them without permish (another thing that never caused any ill-will in the past - we'd just go to the pharmacy together and buy the day-after pill...), led me to lose the first and second broads. By the time I hit my third, I had learned my lesson. The only reason I didn't retain the third broad was she went away on summer vacation and then too much time passed before I saw her again to lock in (by that time she already had a bf).

The fourth girl, we were fucking from 25 August to 1 October, so all good. Lost her because I went to her house party and flirted with other girls in front of her, and even though I had already broken it off with her (told her I didn't want to be her BF), she threw a tantrum and that was the end.

The fifth girl was delish, and I don't know why she stopped seeing me, but I suspect it's because she was afraid of getting feelings for me.

2023 was an amazing year because I finally entered the path to permanent healing of my partly psychosomatic partly physical back troubles, which had been terrorizing me since 2016, so for a total of 7.5 years or so. It was a truly momentous year in that respect (this was also my goal for the year, so I achieved it).

2024 will include important career and wealth-creation leaps that will require concentration and focus. That said, I intend to also go back to Spartan approaching discipline so that I can take advantage of the sexually liberal West. And because you gotta cash in on your prime years.

I'm now following several protocols (exercise, face, supplements, diet, mindfulness, style) that will transform me into the best version of myself yet to walk this earth. Stay tuned for more salacious tales from Smash City.

 

[Bismarck]

Tuesday 9 January 2024
I was chilling at a bar with some pals, and eventually, a trickle of chicks turned into a Mongolian invasion. At one point there were dames everywhere you looked.

We hung out there for about 2.5 hours. We had some beverages and bites, and then we paid. The lads were all either downstairs in the loo or outside having a smoke (-10 fucking degrees), and I was the last one in the main room. I went up to this cute hot Italian brunette who had been looking our way a few times and was sat with a girlfriend blabbering away as girls are wont to do.

"Hey, sorry to interrupt you guys."
"I saw you from over there and thought you were cute. So I wondered if you might like to get a coffee sometime?"
"Sorry, but I have a boyfriend" (a load of horseshit, no doubt).
"You have a boyfriend?"
"Yes, I do (lying through all her teeth), but thank you, have a nice night"

Proud to have popped my approach cherry for 2024. If I went back I would have just opened them indirect, like "Hey, I couldn't help but overhear - you guys are Italian, right?" then bla-bla-bla and after a few minutes of useless comfort fluff, tell the cute one "I'd like to have a coffee with you some time. What do you say?" or something of that nature.

 

[Bismarck]

Quick update here.

I've been reading Maxwell Maltz's New Psycho-Cybernetics, a book that I stumbled upon after reading about it here on the forum thanks to @Skills so wanna shout out to him as this book is a gem, chock-full of tools to help a guy become more effective and content, not to mention emotionally healthy.

I've also been reading a book called Letting Go by David Hawkins, similar to the above. I've also started journaling (not about twat, about everything else). Am going after my goals with fierce determination, and I feel different, like I have more energy and am generally happier.

Am also following a supplement stack, as well as a skincare (face) protocol, that are both producing noticeable results in the gym and wrt positive reactions from the outside world.

 

[Bismarck]

Friday 16 February
I go meet Dev, Kvothe, and Skippy in Barcelona just in time to spot Dev holding some hot babe's hand during what appears to be a super-charged approach (it was 4.30 p.m.?) in terms of the energy/vibe he's putting out in the middle of one of the narrow streets.

Hang with Kvothe and Skippy for about an hour or so, then we're back out when I spot this black-haired tanned Muslim North African beaut with a short skirt walking somewhere. I quicken my pace, and catch up to her - she sees me coming so I acknowledge, saying "Hey" with my right hand pointing where I had just come from "I was walking there, saw you"

She says something about wondering whether I was a salesman of some kind, a doubt I quickly quash, before I tell her "I saw you, and think you have a great style (gesticulating to her sexy outfit), so I wanted to come and say hi"

She opens like butter, and we insta-date. We waltz about - initially, I was going back to my hotel room to drop some house shoes off and to charge my cell, but she wasn't down to go straight there, so we settled on a bar instead, where I grabbed a glass of wine and she grabbed two beers.

On the way to the bar there had already been plenty of fluff, and I had already started holding her hand, and then her waist.

Outside, after the bar (we were there for 1 hour?), I try for the pull a couple of times but she's not down, in between makeouts. Blue ball city.


Saturday 17 February
I keep communication going with the babe, but we meet again at 10 p.m. for a drink and she says she's not into one-night stands (TM), "I'm too old for that" (29). I try for the frame setting but at this point it's damage control mode. She decided not to give in because I said I wasn't into long-distance relationships. Well duh!

In retrospect, I would have preferred to have continued chilling with the boyz.

All in all though, was an epic weekend, despite maintaining my dry spell. Not too fussed though. As a PUA once said, before he was banned from these here boards, "there will always be another lay." Amen.

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

You guys are on fire. Maybe I have to go to Europe sooner than I thought. How many of you guys are in Barcelona, or were you all just visiting for that meetup?

 

[Kvothe]

You guys are on fire. Maybe I have to go to Europe sooner than I thought. How many of you guys are in Barcelona, or were you all just visiting for that meetup?

We actually traveled to Madrid/Barcelona for a two week jaunt

 

[Bismarck]

@Karea Ricardus D. we just met up there.

Monday 19 February
I was in the laundry room at 10.45 a.m. when in walks this hot-ass black-haired tanned North African girl, slim legs, cute face, black hair.

My building is part of a suite of two adjacent apartment blocks, one of which is only for students (lots of quality twat) and the other is more for young professionals.

What is cool about this setup is that I get to bump into hotties in the laundry room, which is shared by both, without having to stay up nights listening to the noise the uni students make at night, since they’re not living right next to me.

We were tending to two machines, one each, right next to each other when, after having greeted her good morning when she walked in, I started chatting with her.

Bismarck: how long have you been here (in the building)?
Her: 1 or 2 years (don't remember)
Bismarck: oh, coz I don't think I've ever seen you before
Her: yeah I don't know anyone in the building
Bismarck: what do you do?
Her: I study pharmacy
Successful tease:
Bismarck: you're learning how to make drugs?
Her: (giggles) yes, you could say that
Bismarck: is it a good money maker?
Her: oh yeah, here it is
Bismarck: coz it is back home
Hook:
Her: where are you from?
Bismarck: I'm from xyz
Her: oh, nice. I'm also not from here, I'm from xyz and came here to study
Abrupt transition to date invite:
Bismarck: do you want to maybe get a drink sometime?
Her: (looks shell-shocked, like I just forced my phallus into her panties) uhm, maybe next time
Bismarck: there's a nice rooftop bar in xyz place, have you been there?
Her: that's not really my scene
Bismarck: you don't drink alcohol?
Her: no

Then she was having trouble with the washing machine and I helped her, and she thanked me and said "have a nice day" when she left.

For next time, before going straight for the close, first do a cold read then an emotional stimulator, pace and lead, before going for a soft (coffee, tea) as opposed to a hard (alcohol = pipi in vaj) close.

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

Looking back I was a bit abrupt in going from “how long have you been here (in the building), what do you do, (tease – good reaction – “you want to make drugs”), then again “is that a good money maker,” then saying “it is back home,” and finally getting her to hook, “where are you from” (referring to me in a formal way), and then saying “oh, I’m also from Algeria (as in foreign, not from here) and here only to study)” and then “do you want to maybe get a drink some time” lmao

For next time: “has anyone ever told you … cold read” then emotional stim (describe emotions) then after that go for a soft close (coffee, tea).

Was that all things you said, or is that a mix of what you said and her responses? I'm a bit unclear how that dialogue went.

 

[Bismarck]

@Karea Ricardus D. check the post I've re-written it for added clarity.